"Looking for somebody who can handle a challenge"
Tue, 02/05/2013 - 04:15
Met this girl months ago at some rager. Made out with her within minutes but I never bothered to attempt a pull.
I ran into her again last saturday and She # closed me because she had to follow her friends at some party, and texted me later.
2/2/2013
HER: Hey boo
ME: Name and resume please.
HER: Quincy
ME: Way to surprise me. Where are you at? I'll come as long as there's no traps
HER: I'm home. Haha I would but my roommates are home
ME: Will they kill me
HER: Lol yeah they would sorry
ME: Cool i'll pick you up. How long can you wait (i don't remember exactly where she lives)
HER: Not tonight sorry, I started feeling shitty halfway thru the night
ME: Fair enough :)
HER: :))
2/4/2013
ME: PSST!
HER: Hey (:
ME: sshh not too lound! I have a secret
HER: Aha ok?
ME: Let's rob a bank. If your skills are on par you get to be the get-away driver
HER: Haha what!?
ME: I thought you'd come across someone adventurous :P
HER: Adventurous enough to rob a bank? Hmmmmmm xD
ME: Fuck yeah! We'll also need to make a quick stop @ Toys R Us to get squirt guns, it's going to get wet ;)
HER: Omg hahaha ok count me in :P
ME: Cool shit! we're def going to get along, adventurous girls are attractive ;P
HER: Hahah is that so? :P
ME: Oh yup, I love fun and a little bit of challenge in my life :) you?
HER: I'm looking for somebody who can handle a challenge :P
I ran into her again last saturday and She # closed me because she had to follow her friends at some party, and texted me later.
2/2/2013
HER: Hey boo
ME: Name and resume please.
HER: Quincy
ME: Way to surprise me. Where are you at? I'll come as long as there's no traps
HER: I'm home. Haha I would but my roommates are home
ME: Will they kill me
HER: Lol yeah they would sorry
ME: Cool i'll pick you up. How long can you wait (i don't remember exactly where she lives)
HER: Not tonight sorry, I started feeling shitty halfway thru the night
ME: Fair enough :)
HER: :))
2/4/2013
ME: PSST!
HER: Hey (:
ME: sshh not too lound! I have a secret
HER: Aha ok?
ME: Let's rob a bank. If your skills are on par you get to be the get-away driver
HER: Haha what!?
ME: I thought you'd come across someone adventurous :P
HER: Adventurous enough to rob a bank? Hmmmmmm xD
ME: Fuck yeah! We'll also need to make a quick stop @ Toys R Us to get squirt guns, it's going to get wet ;)
HER: Omg hahaha ok count me in :P
ME: Cool shit! we're def going to get along, adventurous girls are attractive ;P
HER: Hahah is that so? :P
ME: Oh yup, I love fun and a little bit of challenge in my life :) you?
HER: I'm looking for somebody who can handle a challenge :P
Tue, 02/05/2013 - 05:57
#1
I'm not the best texter, but
I'm not the best texter, but was that role play necessary? She was down to meet you before, it would be no great task to ask her to casually meet you somewhere and then go fuck right?
Tue, 02/05/2013 - 07:57
#2
Good point Jove.
Getting her
Good point Jove.
Getting her out for a D2 tomorrow.
It's a matter of me practicing and internalizing "get her face-face asap"
Couple of factors were holding me back but fixable:
- Make-up work ; I'll be away from school for a couple of days and i'm busy planning my 1st driving trip alone lol.
- Inexperience getting girls out on weekdays and figuring bounce locations; this is a result of me settling for numbers and being complacent.
ME: If it's thumbs war you want, not having it missy!
HER: I have no idea what you're talking about,but i would so own you in a thumb war (; lol
ME: Girl i'm taking you down with me, I don't play fair ;D
HER: Hahaha :P
ME: With that being said i'm always up for a challenge :) What's your schedule looking like the next 2 days? I'm out of town after that
HER: My schedule tomorrow is pretty chill, I get off around 1
ME: Fair enough :) I'll call you in 5 mins! Pick up ;P
Called her, she picked up and had a number of giggles.
Told her about Russian pancakes I made earlier, she got all curious. Told her she would be taking over and making them for me in the kitchen.
I said something about meeting up near a Starbucks on the college town, that i'll give her the headstart to hide so i come looking for her. She lolled and said she was terrible at hiding anyways because I apparently see her every weekend.... Right... She must have been checking me out, I never noticed her with my lack of attention.
Wish me luck!
Getting her out for a D2 tomorrow.
It's a matter of me practicing and internalizing "get her face-face asap"
Couple of factors were holding me back but fixable:
- Make-up work ; I'll be away from school for a couple of days and i'm busy planning my 1st driving trip alone lol.
- Inexperience getting girls out on weekdays and figuring bounce locations; this is a result of me settling for numbers and being complacent.
ME: If it's thumbs war you want, not having it missy!
HER: I have no idea what you're talking about,but i would so own you in a thumb war (; lol
ME: Girl i'm taking you down with me, I don't play fair ;D
HER: Hahaha :P
ME: With that being said i'm always up for a challenge :) What's your schedule looking like the next 2 days? I'm out of town after that
HER: My schedule tomorrow is pretty chill, I get off around 1
ME: Fair enough :) I'll call you in 5 mins! Pick up ;P
Called her, she picked up and had a number of giggles.
Told her about Russian pancakes I made earlier, she got all curious. Told her she would be taking over and making them for me in the kitchen.
I said something about meeting up near a Starbucks on the college town, that i'll give her the headstart to hide so i come looking for her. She lolled and said she was terrible at hiding anyways because I apparently see her every weekend.... Right... She must have been checking me out, I never noticed her with my lack of attention.
Wish me luck!
Tue, 02/05/2013 - 21:01
#3
I agree with jove - i have
I agree with jove - i have the same issue. Maybe this playfulness is too much might be setting too much of a friendly vibe.
Wed, 02/06/2013 - 04:28
#4
lol she's qualifying you..
lol she's qualifying you.. but anyway, that doesn't really matter
I have a little story for you:
So there's this guy at my company who builds incredible relationships with his leads and gets them to really like him and spends a lot of time with each one.
I'm not that guy.
He spends probably on average about 2-3 times longer, per call than I do.
I am the top seller at our company, across both San Francisco and New York (Despite San Francisco having more than DOUBLE the POTENTIAL leads than we have out here in New York). over 60% of our client base in New York is a direct result of my action, I recently closed spotify, quirky and twitter- all of these are billion dollar "startups"- and the founder of the company recently promoted me to "Head of Sales" for the entire company- with an accompanying raise.
Over the past month, I came 4 clients away from doubling my quota (A quota set by the founder of the company who has UNREAL expectations). Now, the guy who I mentioned earlier, who spends all of this time talking to his leads and building a relationship with them, well, he came up to me and asked how many proposals I send out in a day.
I showed him my numbers and he was in shock. He's been struggling to hit 50% of the quota. This guy is 29 years old and has over 5 years of sales experience. I am 23 years old and graduated college last year and have 6 months of sales experience.
So what's the difference between him and me?
1. I understand our product on a level that probably rivals anyone else in the company, minus the founders
2. I am able to take this information and create an EFFICIENT sales cycle based around this understanding of the product.
3. I don't waste time creating a relationship because it's not necessary for THIS product. If it were necessary, I would create a relationship that was JUST the amount needed- not a drop more
You see the difference is efficiency and understanding what the "Minimal effective dose" is. The goal is to get as close as humanly possible to that minimal effective dose as possible.
He doesn't get that 80% of what he's doing is inefficient, repetitive or just flat out unnecessary.
These are the same EXACT issues that most people have in texting AND in-person game
I'm cranking out shit faster than he thinks is even possible because he just doesn't get what's actaully necessary because he doesn't have the "Higher Level" understanding of the product and sales cycle that I have.
it's the same for most of you all and your texting (including myself, at times)
I have a little story for you:
So there's this guy at my company who builds incredible relationships with his leads and gets them to really like him and spends a lot of time with each one.
I'm not that guy.
He spends probably on average about 2-3 times longer, per call than I do.
I am the top seller at our company, across both San Francisco and New York (Despite San Francisco having more than DOUBLE the POTENTIAL leads than we have out here in New York). over 60% of our client base in New York is a direct result of my action, I recently closed spotify, quirky and twitter- all of these are billion dollar "startups"- and the founder of the company recently promoted me to "Head of Sales" for the entire company- with an accompanying raise.
Over the past month, I came 4 clients away from doubling my quota (A quota set by the founder of the company who has UNREAL expectations). Now, the guy who I mentioned earlier, who spends all of this time talking to his leads and building a relationship with them, well, he came up to me and asked how many proposals I send out in a day.
I showed him my numbers and he was in shock. He's been struggling to hit 50% of the quota. This guy is 29 years old and has over 5 years of sales experience. I am 23 years old and graduated college last year and have 6 months of sales experience.
So what's the difference between him and me?
1. I understand our product on a level that probably rivals anyone else in the company, minus the founders
2. I am able to take this information and create an EFFICIENT sales cycle based around this understanding of the product.
3. I don't waste time creating a relationship because it's not necessary for THIS product. If it were necessary, I would create a relationship that was JUST the amount needed- not a drop more
You see the difference is efficiency and understanding what the "Minimal effective dose" is. The goal is to get as close as humanly possible to that minimal effective dose as possible.
He doesn't get that 80% of what he's doing is inefficient, repetitive or just flat out unnecessary.
These are the same EXACT issues that most people have in texting AND in-person game
I'm cranking out shit faster than he thinks is even possible because he just doesn't get what's actaully necessary because he doesn't have the "Higher Level" understanding of the product and sales cycle that I have.
it's the same for most of you all and your texting (including myself, at times)
Wed, 02/06/2013 - 04:46
#5
I dun'
I dun' goofed...sorta.
Miscommunication issue.
Last night I DID tell her that I would call her before meeting up but she showed up at 1PM anyways.
I didn't tell her it was because I would be on my way back from school by that time.
At 1:25PM she texted: "Well I waited for like 20mins and I got cold, so rain check?"
I immediately called her but she wouldn't come back out. Postponing for next week when i'm back from my trip, it's going to be her birthday week too.
Birthday sex anyone?
@Buddahgames
So you're basically saying you weed out the unnecessary bullshit and cut straight to the point, thus resulting in better efficiency?
It will admittedly take some time for me to recognize patterns but I think i get what you're saying
Miscommunication issue.
Last night I DID tell her that I would call her before meeting up but she showed up at 1PM anyways.
I didn't tell her it was because I would be on my way back from school by that time.
At 1:25PM she texted: "Well I waited for like 20mins and I got cold, so rain check?"
I immediately called her but she wouldn't come back out. Postponing for next week when i'm back from my trip, it's going to be her birthday week too.
Birthday sex anyone?
@Buddahgames
So you're basically saying you weed out the unnecessary bullshit and cut straight to the point, thus resulting in better efficiency?
It will admittedly take some time for me to recognize patterns but I think i get what you're saying
Wed, 02/06/2013 - 04:53
#6
Yup.
Yup.