Loosing frame at my doorsteps
I approach her while ignoring the fattie friend and the guy talking to the fattie. We have a good banter, fun times. I tried to get her to the dancefloor, but she wanted to stay. They're about to leave, have their jackets on. I tell her to stay a bit more, while the friends go inside for some reason and I take her number and arrange a date for the next day. We keep on chatting, the friend is back, I tell the friend a couple of minutes and she can get her back. They see I'm cool, and seemingly leave.
Me: text me if you're at home, I rarely guard outside the center with my batmobile.
Me: psst. wake up. I can't sleep anymore
Her: And I woke up exaaaaaaacly now :D
Me: I had to chime in in your dream...
Me: You shouldn't have stuck in the burger king (she asked on the way to mine if there is any nearby - I wanted to disapprove her a bit)
Me: The homeless guy is still praying down there, if he keeps doing so I'll give him some blueberries (we passed by him while walking to mine, call back humor)
Her: You know that homeless people don't like fruits but only it's distillate, right?
Her: and also that we won't get pomegranate/mulled wine neither today :D(what a weird/asshole way of canceling... I think she's just playing, try to tell me she is not that easy...)
Me: I always have disciplinary intention. (muscle)(V) I'll also spank you if you flake on me again
Her: I just flaked once, now :D
Me: Yep, that is why you get away with it for now ;) (she is still cooky, so I think this text is very soft, especially with the smiley)
'k you know what the issue is here, yes? Quite clearly obvious.
Remember, we're physical creatures. Seduction needs to be anchored and chauffered along by a certain kind of "masculine" energy. It's just so obvious reading this it's missing.
What is it?
yeah, the physicality was not on point for the way home part for sure and I could've amped it up more at the door. Having warm clothes on certainly didn't help, but not an excuse for sure.
So what kind of masculine energy was missing? not sure tbh. penetrating (literally for sure haha)
You're fucking fired dude
fuck am I really that slow learner? never considered myself to be one before registering here actually.
I have some ideas from the last session but don't know exactly what can I 'flash out' so to say.
Bro you straight up answered this question in your last session write-up. What should you have "applied" in this situation with her? What was needed.
You mean yang energy I guess, which I did 'apply'. If that's the case, then just incorrectly, too little and/or too late.
Yes that's it. Obviously grossly simplified but that's the deal.
Remember when we "discovered" that what you thought all along was "dominant" was actually sensual? Lol
You're wishy-washy and not sexual at all with girls. Until you fix this it ain't happening
Ya, I thought there must be something else because I 'did' it I thought.
Yeah, wasn't sexual and dominant enough. Makes sense thanks.
She still wants/needs to feel your subtle control at the helm steering course. Subtle but tangible. That takes physical sublimations. Words are not good enough
I can tell such a difference in you from 3 weeks ago just btw you’re explaining how things went down. Good work but its not mature yet. You need to take into consideration rhat the club is closing soon and that means full on beast mode. Hard escalation. Thats how shit goes down in club environments. It should be absolutely clear to both of you that sex is going down. I learned this best when i realized that sex didnt have to go down in my or her bedroom. It can happen in a bathroom, a car, coffee table. You should be so comfortable with yourself and sex that youre willing to get a bj right in front of everybody in the club. Once you actually try to get laid in the club your LMR with future situations will severely decline. You need to be walking into a gas station with the realization that you might get laid in there.
I love talking in code on my own forum. Fuck yes