Lost momentum
Ok so i had to study for my final exams so i ive just been working out and studying since january/february. Anyway i have no more exams and my friend will let me sleep from my apartment whenever i want so i don't have to take a 40 min cab back home to my parents after a nigh out, so i'll start going out consistently now, lol.
I know this is some faggot shit, but i've lost alotta social momentum and got into trouble that made me depressed and sleepless for some days, lol. So my game SUCKS right now. Should i just go out and act like a newb again or what...
Just go out and talk to girls dude. What's the issue. Yes you start out from wherever you're at
Just go out and talk to girls dude. What's the issue. Yes you start out from wherever you're at
haha yeah man - I'm in a similar boat. Was with one girl sorta-ish for a while, focused on work etc. etc. - just do it up man. Drop the ego, be honest about where you are currently at, and start approaching- those are the three single biggest things that will get you to where you want to be, based on where you're at right now (I'm right there with ya man)
I literally was out the other night, approaching girls and in those moments where you do somethin weird, or if you feel uncomfortable, you can always just be honest... iono it was actually a lil interesting. I would go super direct on girls, chat for a bit, escalate, and then literally just be like, "By the way, I've been in a hole for the past couple months, and haven't talked to many girls- so I'm prob not gonna be very smooth" - they don't freak out at that shit man. Plus it might make you more calm and relaxed, because you don't have to feel like you're trying to live up to something you're not right now.
Anyway- those are just things that help me. I'm in your boat- just hit hit hit..... do it to it baby.
Ok i went out solo. didnt pull but i had a good night. Lol i was pulling this russian girl and some of her friend comes and drag her away out of nowhere, i didnt even have time to react. But i just now realize going solo is the shit.