Love-at-first-sight game?
Sun, 10/14/2012 - 20:19
http://xsplat.wordpress.com/2012/08/09/2956/#comments
This guy has a post right above this one where he talks about "romantic libertine game" and how his style does not so much consist of being "aloof" as much as falling instantly in love with the girl. He said in another post that when you do this she'll mistake your intense feelings for her own etc.
Anyway I was reading this and was curious to see what other people think about it. It's interesting. I find it hard to be aloof sometimes while also pushing things forward. It is a balance that I am struggling with right now.
I took a break from asking for advice for texts for a while because I was just trying to find my own natural banter and settle into my own style. I still am lacking though, and I feel its from my inability to lay down the law with the woman, or show her who's boss so to speak. My shit is still coming off too nice, as MW said I turn it from them chasing me to me chasing them. It's rough getting so many #s with such a low response rate.
I know my game is better than it was a couple months ago, but still texting is like.....
I cant tell if the girls stop responding because they can sense some sort of insecurity coming through in my texts,
or if they're just stupid/scared/dumb to hangout with me. I would prefer to believe the second option because that's when I do my best. My in-person seems solid, and many of the girls who are now ignoring my texts, I either already pulled/kissed/ had them following me around at parties/ or theyve been like visibily nervous and shaking when I met them and got their #'s
Just putting my thoughts down and curious to hear others' opinions about that article.
This guy has a post right above this one where he talks about "romantic libertine game" and how his style does not so much consist of being "aloof" as much as falling instantly in love with the girl. He said in another post that when you do this she'll mistake your intense feelings for her own etc.
Anyway I was reading this and was curious to see what other people think about it. It's interesting. I find it hard to be aloof sometimes while also pushing things forward. It is a balance that I am struggling with right now.
I took a break from asking for advice for texts for a while because I was just trying to find my own natural banter and settle into my own style. I still am lacking though, and I feel its from my inability to lay down the law with the woman, or show her who's boss so to speak. My shit is still coming off too nice, as MW said I turn it from them chasing me to me chasing them. It's rough getting so many #s with such a low response rate.
I know my game is better than it was a couple months ago, but still texting is like.....
I cant tell if the girls stop responding because they can sense some sort of insecurity coming through in my texts,
or if they're just stupid/scared/dumb to hangout with me. I would prefer to believe the second option because that's when I do my best. My in-person seems solid, and many of the girls who are now ignoring my texts, I either already pulled/kissed/ had them following me around at parties/ or theyve been like visibily nervous and shaking when I met them and got their #'s
Just putting my thoughts down and curious to hear others' opinions about that article.
Sun, 10/14/2012 - 21:30
#1
Re: Love-at-first-sight game?
Sure, and I run that style as well from time to time. Went up to this beautiful chick yesterday at the mall who was walking with an older lady.. she was talking on the phone I did not give a fuck I walk up and I'm like, "You're just beautiful". She blushed and could barely make eye contact even though she was a stunner. She got off the phone, she's tells me this is her mom, etc. She's pretty much just in the moment with me being a little shy but responding really well. I asked her who she was on the phone with it was her husband, haha! She hung up on him to talk to me. Her and her mom were enthralled.
You do have some soulful bambi eyes I imagine you do a lot of damage with those with your eye contact ;). We'll discuss this style your next sesh.
You do have some soulful bambi eyes I imagine you do a lot of damage with those with your eye contact ;). We'll discuss this style your next sesh.
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Mon, 10/15/2012 - 19:09
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Re: Love-at-first-sight game?
@Alex123:
Did you end up getting her #?
I was thinking more yesterday/today about this. And perhaps, since I have been flaked on so much, there is something in my subcomm, even when Im grabbing her # and having that good interaction, that shows that I dont COMPLETELY believe we will follow through. Somthing in my eyes/body thats showing that if we didn't follow through and see each other, I wouldnt be surprised.
I think it is NECESSARY to have 110% belief that we WILL see each other again and enjoy it, in order to play into the love at first sight angle, or even just regular game, so that needs to be more apparent. Also, I feel like I CAN be icy at times, and able to mean and whatnot.... I have that capacity. I think the underlying problem is that I'm not getting girls to invest enough, and qualify themselves, and therefor I'm not allowing myself the opportunity to be mean
Any tips on getting girls to invest, qualify themselves? I know MW and RSD dont advocate routines but i think this could be a huge leap for me if i could get something that i do in every interaction to elicit qualification from her/investment from the girl to automate that process
Some advice on this would REALLY be appreciated
Did you end up getting her #?
I was thinking more yesterday/today about this. And perhaps, since I have been flaked on so much, there is something in my subcomm, even when Im grabbing her # and having that good interaction, that shows that I dont COMPLETELY believe we will follow through. Somthing in my eyes/body thats showing that if we didn't follow through and see each other, I wouldnt be surprised.
I think it is NECESSARY to have 110% belief that we WILL see each other again and enjoy it, in order to play into the love at first sight angle, or even just regular game, so that needs to be more apparent. Also, I feel like I CAN be icy at times, and able to mean and whatnot.... I have that capacity. I think the underlying problem is that I'm not getting girls to invest enough, and qualify themselves, and therefor I'm not allowing myself the opportunity to be mean
Any tips on getting girls to invest, qualify themselves? I know MW and RSD dont advocate routines but i think this could be a huge leap for me if i could get something that i do in every interaction to elicit qualification from her/investment from the girl to automate that process
Some advice on this would REALLY be appreciated