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Love systems table guys getting annoying, how to deal with them?

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They lurk out until they see you open, then come into sets and lead girls away with 'come to our cabana'. 

I've been thinking of just pointing them out preemptivly. Or if I don't see him whispering something like 'i know that guy. my friend went to his table once. worst table she's ever been to'.

They been doing this to like all the RSD/immersion guys btw, for like weeks lol. 

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Haha! Well it's good they're

Haha! Well it's good they're doing it to the Rsd guys, those girls need rescuing. How are they doing it? Are they that able to outcompete you? There's got to be more to it than that

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They obviously see you as

They obviously see you as someone they can fuck with, which is half the issue here. You're putting off weak subcoms. But once this guy comes up you still shouldn't be losing the girl that easily. You are obviously doing the wrong shit. You've been talking to this girl apparently, spitting game or whatever it is you call what you do ;), how does some random guy coming in manage to topple that? 

Your focus should remain on the girl. If some dude comes in and you immediately turn to him or let your awareness focus on him too much you're not doing your job. 

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Out of 4 attempts (1 last

Out of 4 attempts (1 last week 3 the other night), they only been successful one time. Come to think of it, the only time he succeeded is when I lost my cool and confronted him. 

The guy comes into the set and is like 'come out our table!' and tries to grab their hand and lead them away. 

He seems to be most successful when the RSD guys are like an minute or less in. I'm trying to think of a way not to only tool him when he's in my set but fucking with my friends too. I could just confront him when I see him walk to my friends set, it's not like they loose value if I confront them. 

Hmm,  a lot my sets are lukwarm at the beggining, so it's easy for any guy to bribe them with a table (what really annoys me is the same guy doing it over and over, to me and my buddies). So the root is weak game. Also weak subcomms which would make me a target for those guys like you mentioned, doesn't help that I'm like 130 lbs. 

None of the Immersion guys seem to be doing anything about it besides letting it happen. I figure someone would have mentioned it to Luke during debrief. 

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Dude you need to learn to

Dude you need to learn to assert yourself over your environment. Lol

Hopefully Luke comes up with something for you guys ;) 

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Manwhore wrote:Dude you need

Manwhore wrote:
Dude you need to learn to assert yourself over your environment. Lol

Hopefully Luke comes up with something for you guys ;) 

I have a feeling none of them will bring it up. They're too passive about it lol. Luke probably could enact is ceasefire cuz I suspect he's in contact with them, I've noticed that immersion and LS are never in the same venue whenever there's two major options ie Marquee/XS. 

I think August might be the worst month for pickup here. There's summit, and summit spiked immersion from like 15 to 36 students so they're going to be around all month. There's the 10-day LS bootcamp and apparently a 30-day LS project rockstar. And then there's the LS summit next week. Also SquattingCassinova and his wing jacked my set the other day. A weak set but it definitely doesn't make me happy regardless haha

Never thought about the concept of asserting myself over my enviroment, gonna have have to think that over. 

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This reminds me of a nature

This reminds me of a nature documentary I saw recently. Some minor predator would locate some prey, then a bigger predator would come in and take it from him.

It's kinda the way things should be no?

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If the girl leaves for

If the girl leaves for promise of a table within two minutes of meeting you she didn't hook properly or she's just that kind of girl. You're in Vegas - on to the next. There's literally cool girls looking to have a good time everywhere. Wouldn't worry about one you just met ;)

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It's about "subtle

It's about "subtle intimidation" ...as opposed to "overt intimidation." A lion is "subtly intimidating" just by it's bearing and the fact that it's a lion. Scavengers don't even think to step in front of a lion. These Love Systems guys are scavengers, period. They wouldn't even think to step in front of you if you had that "subtle intimidation" subcommunication.

The best example of this dynamic being portrayed (in my opinion) is Tom Hardy in Lawless...

 


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ClubberBang wrote: This

ClubberBang wrote:

This reminds me of a nature documentary I saw recently. Some minor predator would locate some prey, then a bigger predator would come in and take it from him.

Animals are incredibly simplistic. Hardwired black and white. But there are plenty of smaller size "predators" that stand up to and overcome larger predators all the time. 

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For instance.. the honey

For instance.. the honey badger ;) 


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Honey badger doesn't give a shit. 

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Honey badgers take on lions,

Honey badgers take on lions, hyenas even cobras. 

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Not sure what's up with the

Not sure what's up with the YouTube vids I'm looking into that immediately. 

But looking at things from a "predator" standpoint isn't healthy or helpful. In fact it's base even destructive and quite clearly win/lose. 

I was lone wolfing (no pun intended it's just the term for it) it walking through a nightclub here in Vegas one night when some guy tried to grab my drink out of my hand as I walked by. I look over and then up, and realize it's some 6'4" handsome German guy. In fact there's two of them. Both tall as fuck, good looking, quite dominant figures. But I just saw them as people, people to enjoy. I laughed and was super open and exuberant with them and we made friends. Now it may have started out as this guy trying to amog me! I don't know but I didn't care! This is my experience I'm not going to let it be defined for me. They had a few other Germans with them, one of them being the sexy princess of the group. She'd seen this whole thing (and remember I'm not a big guy so she's watching these two guys TOWER over me as we interact) and she gets very drawn to me. I start talking to her just a little bit, lean in as I say something and she tries to make out with me. It's surprising it came out of nowhere. So I lead her by the arm a few feet away and we start kissing. But she's an awful kisser. Truly terrible. Which I tell her and then start giving her lessons. She doesn't learn much let's just say that much. Anyway I take off and I see one of the German guys making out with her later.

Another night I'm talking to a sexy Italian French girl, then take off for other parts of the club. 15 minutes later I see her standing and talking to what can only be described as a tall, good-looking doppelganger version of myself. Like literally this is the tall handsome version of me. And I can see they're having a really good time and I'm not going to interfere. Well then homey starts acting sleazy.. starts acting like he's the shit and this girl's on his dick and blah blah. I see this and immediately switch my stance on this situation. I walk in and stand there looking at her like the cat that swallowed the bird. At first she's super resistant to me because she's very much into this guy. I don't give a shit I'm gonna box this fucker out of the situation. So she looks at me with a weird "go away what are you doing" look and I just continue to stand there, forcing her to move a few inches so she can hear what about I'm to say. I expect some sort of fight or resistance from this guy, but pretty quickly after her and I start talking he just fucks off. What a puss. I take her home and fuck her.

You've got to assert your reality. 

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Dude. You have a post on your

Dude. You have a post on your blog called "Predator vs. Prey." Being disrespectful is not my aim here, fo sho... I just want to make a point, like bro, I was 6'1" at 130 lbs... (I was really skinny. )

I build my body up to 190lbs.

My point is, people definitely treat me differently now compared to then. I used to get into a lot of fights and have situations like the OP where dudes would think it's ok to AMOG me or steal my girl. But since, I don't get hardly any of that... like they are scared. I carry myself different. Especially in the neck and head. That's what I was trying to point out. I don't try to OVERTLY intimidate, but it just happens. Dudes don't fuck with me, and it is strange because I am used to being small. I've brought this up in other forums like RSD or Reddit and they  basically told me I was bullshitting. But I was trying to explain something that I had experienced personally..

What's your take on that?

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Haha! I appreciate you

Haha! I appreciate you explaining and yes I understand your point. A man absolutely must develop his warrior skills. It is so easy in today's day and age

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