LR: 20yr old from PoF--Persistence and non-reaction

This chick messaged me on PoF.  She has a hidden profile so there was no way for me to contact her first.  I disqualified her right away telling her that most girls her age are immature and I can't deal with their shit and asking her if she's chill.  She replied that she's only ever been with older men.  Ok good. 

Meeting up was a challenge because she was super aloof in texting and apparently had had some bad experiences in the past with creepers so she was hesistant.  

I found some crappy diner downtown that has a liquor license and went with it.  She was late.  I gave her shit.  She was playing with her phone and I gave her shit.  It was non-stop little tests from her second message on PoF until I lead her up the stairs days later. 

She had come across older guys who would get butthurt when she would shut them down, make fun of them, deny their attempt at a kiss, or get annoyed when she didn't let them touch her boobs, etc. 

Unlike any other girl I've ever come across she was testing me at every step of the way to see if I would lose my cool or resort to passive-aggressive behavior or pouting. 

At the diner the first night she had coffee and I had a few cocktails.  I then decided to walk around the city.  Her body language was very closed and distant.  The only thing that gave me a clue that she was into me were her eyes and the fact that she didn't leave.  I walked her to a park and then had her take my arm old fashioned style.  Then 15mins later I took her hand.  Then a half hour later I spun her around and started impromptu dancing in the center of the park. 

This was the SLOWEST escalation of my life.  But every time I would get in proximity to do anything she would lean back, step back, turn her head, etc. 

She said she was gonna take the train home and I knew it was over if that happened.  I pushed her a bit to find out where she was staying and then "convinced" her to let me drive her to her friend's house. 

When we get there the friend isn't home and she invites me in "for tea."  Its 1am and I'm like whatever I have to do this.  Finally after an hour of this chess game I get in position to kiss her.  I can tell she likes it but then she backs off immediately.  This would become a pattern with her.  She kisses me back with passion and then just lets her tongue die waiting to see if I'll get mad. 

The house was fucking freezing cold because her friend doesn't turn the heat on so it was legit in the 40s inside the house.  So I couldn't get an article of clothing off without her freaking out about the cold.  The bedrooms upstairs were all locked.  Ended up leaving at 4am with some kissing and heavy petting but not so much as a nipple in my mouth or finger in her vadge. 

Got her out again last night.  She wanted to go walking in the city.  I took a water bottle full of wine and drove down to the river.  I stopped at different places to make out but each time she let it die and tried to make me lose my cool. 

Tonight was warmer so when I got her back to the same friend's house with no heat it was easier simply because it wasn't freezing inside.  It took me pressing her up against the counter and pushing my boner into while reaching under her sweater and pulling her tits out for her to finally feel her start to become turned on.  She refused to put her hand anywhere near my crotch so finally I just pulled him out and pressed him into her until she reached down. 

There was a bunch more of this back and forth until she finally says "we can't, I don't want anyone to see us."  At some point she had told me she got the key to her friend's bedroom.  A light went off in my head.  I basically pulled and pushed her upstairs.  Her mouth and body language said No, but the look in her eyes was begging me to make it happen. 

Once we were in the room I turned the lights off and the clothes came off too.  Turns out she's an incredibly sensual/sexual woman.  Her afterwards was like night and day compared to before.  Warm, sweet, eager to please, no more cold aloofness.  She was complaning when I left because she wanted a third round but for fucks sake it was 330am..