When you stop reacting, you can start projecting your reality outward. The next thing to blow your mind will be realizing to what extent you actually have control over your environment.
Hmm the vibe I had that night was definitely unreactive she was just swept away in my flow, and I wasn't really reactive to the girls who were really drunk, I just made space between me and them. Not really sure what you mean man can you expand
I don't think it's something to worry about or strive for, just something I noticed.
The more I'm reacting, the more energy is inside my head, analyzing and judging. When I'm grounded and in control, I think of myself as a rapid-fire, heavy-artillery, projection cannon. My ammo is my own self trust. When I have total self-belief, the ammo is very dense and impacts hard. I am out of my head and completely focused on projecting. I guess I think of projecting and reacting as opposites. The more power you put in to one, the less there is for the other. I have at times been amazed how after a few minutes in a room or party I look around and realize that the whole vibe, layout, attitude, feel, who's doing what or who's talking to who etc. was my own creation.