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So it's the same day I posted how I need to 'practice intimacy'. 

 

I was out in a club when she returned my super like. 2 am. Nice, that's a good sign, so I immediately filtered her availability and let her know I'm available but also was not watching porn at home in my loneliness. 

 

Me: Someone is up past her bedtime

Her: So i’m not the only one as I can see

Me: What you up to, I was meeting a friend

Her: I’m in bed, getting ready for sleep

Me:If you see a ladder in your dream, don't use it, it's a trap

Her: Ok, I’ll try to remember

Her:Good night 

6/1/2018 8:03 PM

Me:Hope you didn't screw up haha

Me: What's your XY Story, u live here

Her: Screw up what?

Her: I came to visit my cousin whose livin here. I live in Paris

Me: Big city girl doing all the tourist stuff...

Me: How long are you here for

Her:Up until Monday

Her: And you? What’s your story

Me: XY countryboy here, better bring your A game ;)

Me: Kicking ass in the gym after a long day, wyd

6/1/2018 9:08 PM

Her: Nice!! (Had to google A game )

6/1/2018 9:45 PM

Me: Willing to learn, that's a good sign haha

6/1/2018 10:33 PM

Me: So what's your agenda pumpkin, partying through till Monday? 

Her: I’d like to go to XY beach tomorrow or Sunday. And you, what’s your plans for the weekend?

Me: That's chilled I thought I need to steal you from the cousins' packed programs ;)

Her: Apparently it’s not that kind of cousin 

Me:Alright, come meet me for a drink then.

Me: I'm also gonna kick your ass in a game of thumb wars ;)

Her:When?

Me:I'm free in like 20.

Her:Ok

12:01 AM

Me: Let's meet at XXX, it's easy to reach. 

Her:Is it far from XYY?

Me: Nah it's pretty close, just 2 stations by XY

Me: Let's talk over WhatsApp, it's better

Me: XXX - XXX -XXX

 

 

So then we moved to WhatsApp, it was just logistics, I kept it super simple it's Friday night, she's down it's on me not to screw up. I made it once again clear in my mind ( as I forgot it several times in the past, duh...) that she's coming for the D.

 

About texting:

As she might be really busy or leaving the town on any day I was trying to be more aggressive with the logistics, without being too boring.

I'm a bit unsure if that 'A-game' thing made sense. What's your take on it? I liked this 'stealing away' theme so props to the forum for that and for everything else that helped me unconsciously get her out.  

 

She's looking great, has a light summer dress on, I like what I see. We walked to the bar really close to my place, finding out that it's been already closed for the night. It was not a big surprise to me, and made it very easy to just directly go to my place. In this case, I'm pretty sure we could have just go to mine but I like to keep it safe. 

 

From here it's pretty standard, it's just on me not to fuck it up. Some wine, music and chilled talk. I bring her in for a light kiss. We go out to smoke on the patio, I point out the attic of the building and say how it's totally empty, like a haunted place. I see she's enjoying it, so I suggest we check it out with some dim phone light for some extra adventure + emotional spikes. Of course, I also want a BJ up there. 

 

As surprising as it might sound, I was playing with the lights a bit, bringing her in by her hips in the dark. It got really hot, in no time my dick is out and I also play with her clit. I tried to push her shoulders down, but she says she doesn't do that for guys she doesn't know. So I told her my name again, just in case lol. 

 

We get back to mine and switch gears. She had a really great slim body, I liked exploring it. Her BJ rule was not related to the dirtiness of the attic, as I tried on my carpet as well, plus she almost crawled off the bed while I was mountain climbing lol. I came quite quickly but kept pounding her a bit more, she was pulling me as my erection went down, was cute haha. 

 

In the second round, I picked her up and put her on a table while making out. I told her I'm going to fuck her there, you could see her eyes lightening up. I realized how much girls like it, enjoying the variety they rarely receive. As she was lightweight I picked her up completely at some points, one of my favorite positions. After sex, she agreed that it was sexy af. 

https://imgur.com/wCJib8P NSFW

 

I definitely want to improve at dirty talking, I couldn't really open her up in that regard and it made me also a bit stifling. It's not the first time like this, I need to lead this more. I made her ask for my dick and besides that just a couple of sexy comments from my side. Any tips?

 

I let her sleep over, which I rarely do, but she was quite cool and I wanted to spank that ass in the morning as well. 

 

I regret not making her talk in French to me during sex, I find it so sexy. Anyways, she's around for a bit more, so maybe I get to enjoy that. 

 

You can say she was DTF, and you're right. But I had other girls like this when I fucked up at some point so it probably wouldn't have happened I haven't internalized things I learned from MW and you guys here on the forum, I'm really thankful for that. 

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Lmaooo!  One of the best LR's

Lmaooo! 

One of the best LR's I've read in awhile.

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Thanks for posting, nicely

Thanks for posting, nicely done bro. Also, lol at the gif 

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thanks guys, just a little

thanks guys, just a little update on this.
 
So wanted to her to come over again on Sunday, she said she's tired, so I went F&F and demanded an address ;)
 
Her: Thing is, as I told you, I’m too tired to fuck
Her: I’m in that kind of mood *some random pic about her laptop with a movie on*
Her: But maybe next time I come, or if you’re planning on visiting Paris 
 
So I call her and joke about her being a starfish when I go over. She's something to do in the morning tho but has time after so we agree that she's coming over after checking out of her hotel. 
 
My dirty talk quest kinda backfired, she not only didn't speak in French to me but said she'd leave if I don't stop teasing. So yeah, definitely much to learn in that department.
We vibed quite well, had lunch together. I definitely made her trip a bit more memorable ;)
 
Later that day I had another girl (the second date, couldn't get her back to my place on the first date) come over. She was also reluctant to give me a BJ as she doesn't know me yet. Maybe just a coincidence but rather that dick prizing needs to be improved as well haha. Anyways, she enjoyed every inch of it and told me she regretted not coming up the first time. 
 
That was the first time I fucked 2 girls on the same day, which together with the fact that I haven't even left my apartment, definitely made that day memorable. 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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Bro, wtf?? Is anyone else

Bro, wtf?? Is anyone else confused after reading this? This reads like one of these fucking liberal-marxist "news" articles I'm forced to read nowadays where everything is deliberately confusing. Lol

bonobo wrote:

thanks guys, just a little update on this.

 

So wanted to her to come over again on Sunday, she said she's tired, so I went F&F and demanded an address ;)

 

Her: Thing is, as I told you, I’m too tired to fuck

Her: I’m in that kind of mood *some random pic about her laptop with a movie on*

Her: But maybe next time I come, or if you’re planning on visiting Paris 

 

So I call her and joke about her being a starfish when I go over. She's something to do in the morning tho but has time after so we agree that she's coming over after checking out of her hotel. 

 

My dirty talk quest kinda backfired, she not only didn't speak in French to me but said she'd leave if I don't stop teasing. So yeah, definitely much to learn in that department.

We vibed quite well, had lunch together. I definitely made her trip a bit more memorable ;)

 

Later that day I had another girl (the second date, couldn't get her back to my place on the first date) come over. She was also reluctant to give me a BJ as she doesn't know me yet. Maybe just a coincidence but rather that dick prizing needs to be improved as well haha. Anyways, she enjoyed every inch of it and told me she regretted not coming up the first time. 

 

That was the first time I fucked 2 girls on the same day, which together with the fact that I haven't even left my apartment, definitely made that day memorable. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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It's a follow up on the first

It's a follow up on the first post, not sure what's confusing but yeah I tend to get into details assuming everyone can read my mind lol

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It's deliberately misleading.

It's deliberately misleading. So what actually happened 

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It reads like you didn’t get

It reads like you didn’t get any but you close it with how you had sex with two different women without leaving your place. At least that’s what’s confusing for me 

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Yeah, it is confusing lol,

Yeah, it is confusing lol, not deliberately tho 

So yeah I banged the Paris girl again but couldn't make her talk to me in French during sex. This was something I wanted the first time as well and mentioned in the first post. And that I'm pretty clueless with dirty talking.  I was teasing her with my dick and basically, there was a point where she was she would just leave if I don't give her the D. So I just stopped my verbal experiments and went discovery channel on her. 

Then had another girl come over, she gave me the same 'excuse' for no BJ as the first one, but we did have sex after. 

It's a memorable day because I haven't fucked 2 girls the same day before and I didn't even leave my apartment the whole day.

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? Why did you stop your

? Why did you stop your "verbal experiments" when you went discovery channel on her. 

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I did a little bit of talking

I did a little bit of talking myself after but didn't try to involve her again that way. Plain comfort zone I believe, could've got more creative for sure. It's hard for me to sense where she's at.  She likes it just doesn't feel comfortable enough to talk on her own, or my way of talking wasn't really her thing or I 'gave up' too soon, maybe the tonality was off. 

It's a pity most people (me including haha) are clueless about it, it's powerful :)

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