Luring in a taken Girl
Wassup Fellas,
i havent been keeping up with the forum lately but imma try to be on more. Anyways let me give this background check on this girl im currently talking to. I met her on new years eve at a party went up to her introduced myself after a little while she ended up telling me she was going to start working at a gym through a program. Which the gym happened to be where i work at, anyways we end up meeting up later at the gym as she is going through training and im just working. Time passes and i turn into a douchebag to her being funny and all and after time she ends asking me when i work and wants to start working with me (when we work we are usually alone and are able to talk and all.) So last week she had been snapping me that she was coming in on saturday afternoon to work (which she clearly knew it was my shift being she had taken a pic of the work schedule) so she goes in and im talking being mean, nice, making her laugh bunch of mixed emotions i throw at her. I end up asking her for her number because she had told me about a party shes going to andi actually had gotten an invite to the same party. So at the end of our shift i asked her for her number and she acted dumb saying no she didnt wanna give it to me because "she only had 10 contacts and thats all she wants" whatever the fuck that means, so i said fuck it nvm. So before i continue i also have to mention she has a boyfriend and their relationship is a trip, he goes in at the end of her shift to take her home but shes always feeling annyoed when he walks in and at parties i see her she wouldnt be with him. Anyways Luckily enough later on i get a snapchat from her with her number so i text her up asking her how the party is going and she tells me she hadnt got there yet. So i see her at the party and shes in her group of friend but is looking out at the people, so i swoop in and spark the convo with her and her first response is " oh hey i was just looking for you right now" so we start talking on why she doesnt drink, she gives me some of her water, and i end up teasing her about lieing (told me she was going to come in for one of my shifts) So she ends up going with her friends & i go with mine and i shoot her a text later asking where shes at and no response. So lets skip to yesterday i have the text convo with her but The real question is how i could not get her to meet up at my house. Yea i know its a little tough that im not inviting her out for food or trying to take her out but she has a boyfriend and cant really be seen with another guy. I tried getting her over to my house to talk but shes always doding the question and starts up a different convo. Any tips you guys have will work im just a little confused on what to do
Girl: Are you at work
Me: Yep
Girl: Ima go in a bit ok so don't miss me to much
Me - 3 mins later: please come already im crying for you
Girl - 6 mins later: Ok ok don't worry I'll be there
Me - 7 mins later: You are a square
Girl: Why
Girl - 53 mins later: Put the towels away
Me - 6 hrs 37 mins later: Im ready for my ice cream ok
Girl - 5 mins later: That's cool
Me - 1 min later: Are you watching netflix?
Girl - 2 mins later: No with mi Amiga
Me: Awwww wowz!
Girl - 4 mins later: Sorry your number 0
Me - 6 mins later: I gave you a 9 wow see how you treat me!
Me: No respect
Girl - 1 min later: Haha I'm sorry
Me: Now respect me
Girl - 1 min later: Excuse me
Me: You are excused
Girl - 1 min later: -_-
Me: Party tonight or what ?
Girl: What no
Me: Good stay in! You need tv time anyways
Girl: Rudeness
Girl: Party this Saturday tho
Me: Ewwww
Me: I dont party
Me: How bout you leave your house for once on a thursday night
Girl: Neither do I
Me - 1 min later: Am I mean to you?
Girl: Yes you actually are
Me: Imma go cruisen in my car wanna roll with me just incase I break down
Girl: I'm with my friend
Me: You are the last person I wanna be stuck with ehhhh jk
Me: Its a joke dont cry
Girl: Hurting my feelings
Me: Ill take you out later
Me: Stop crying
Girl - 8 mins later: Ok
Me: Text me later when your friend dips
Girl: Alrighty
Me - 2 hrs 19 mins later: Ready
Girl: You confuse me
Me: How?
Girl - 1 min later: Your mean to me at work and then you text me all cool,
Me: Im nice all the time..
Me: You like to be all mean when I let my guard down
Me: Dont act like you hate it
Girl: I'm not mean at all!!
Girl: "Sure ohkay"
Me: Hmmmm your whole sarcasm is funny
Girl - 1 min later: Well don't worry about me working with you I won't go at the same time as you
Me: I actually like when u go
Me: You are a fun person :)
Me: Im not being sarcastic
Me: Why do you get mad ? Im just teasing you
Girl: What you actually like when I go shocker
Me: Ive told you...
Me: Duhhh
Girl: Hey you never told me what you were going to tell me
Me: Go cruising with me and ill give you the spill
Girl: So tell me
Girl: Just tell me
Me: Hm nah! Walk over herr
Me: Its too long
Me: Its life changing
Girl - 1 min later: What's it about
Me: Uhhhhh! I told you what you gotta do
Me - 1 min later: Sweet dreams
Girl: Uhhhh night
Me: You shoulda cooperated
Girl: Should of could of but I didn't, oh well
Me: *shrugs*
Me: Tear tear
Me: Sniffle sniffle
Girl: ��
Me: No need to hurt feelings
Girl: Just like you hurt mine at work today
Me: I woulda made it up to ya! Im too nice like that. But...
Girl - 2 mins later: Just tell me yea or at least tell me what it's about
Me: Why are you like soo afraid of going out? Im like not a kiddnapper lol
Girl - 2 mins later: For all I know you could be a kidnapper
Me: Nah I broke my arms Imma have to take a month off
Girl: -_-
Me: Im just being helpful for both of us! Thinking of someone else !! Being "Nice"
Girl - 1 min later: Idk when I should go into work know should I go in with tony or Jorge? Who should I annoy
Me: Well its up to jeeww!
Girl - 1 min later: Ima go Saturday at 1:30 with Jorge
Me: Wow im soo tired
Me: I did alot today
Me: I folded towls
Me: Charged people
Girl: You only folded two towels
Me: Nah I actually did alot before
Girl - 1 min later: Sure you did, you hurt my feelings by now wearing my homemade bracelet
Me: You ripped it. Didnt even show love
Girl - 1 min later: You took it off, I made it with love
Me: Lets not joke around here. You ripped it off the notes
Girl: Haha what no that's nonsense
Me: Haha you are a careless monster
Girl: ��
Me: Why so angry?? Be nice and a good girl
Girl - 1 min later: I'm always a good girl...well most of the time (:
Me: When are you not huh? Dont lie
Girl: It's a secret
Me: No secrets..
Girl: Ok so how about you tell me then
Me: Well idk its kinda rude when you are bout to say something and dont. See now were having srs convos like u asked for at work
Girl - 1 min later: You were going to say something first so go on and tell me what you need to say
Me: Actually you go. And then Ill add to it
Girl: No come on you first
Me: You first nd then ill tell you something #mindblowing
Girl - 1 min later: What was I even going to say?
Me: That you are such a good girl and you walk old ladies across the street?
Girl - 1 min later: Ok?
Me: Idk and you were good sometimes?
Girl: I'm good all the time
Me: All of a sudden?
Girl: Haha yes so now your turn (:
Me: Nope haha be on topic lets here this bad side?
Girl - 1 min later: Well since you don't want to tell me ima go TATA✌️
Me: Kinda rude...
Girl - 12 mins later: Night steph'a'n
Me: Ready for me to tell you?
Girl: I don't like to play games nite
Me: Its not really a game
Me: How bout you stop playing and listen up
Girl: I have an idea how about you just tell me
Me: Well what do you want to know? Be clear and stop beating around the bush
Girl: I just want to know what you wanted to tell me
Me: Nvm then goodnight
Girl: Ha thought so
Me: Night!! ��
Girl - 1 min later: ��
Me:
Just letting you know now mang I'm not going to read a wall of text like that.
My bad! Ill shorten it up! Let me jump on my pc
Or just break it up into chunks.
Girl: Party this Saturday tho
Me: Ewwww
Me: I dont party
Me: How bout you leave your house for once on a thursday night
Girl: Neither do I
Me - 1 min later: Am I mean to you?
Girl: Yes you actually are
Me: Imma go cruisen in my car wanna roll with me just incase I break down
Girl: I'm with my friend
Me: You are the last person I wanna be stuck with ehhhh jk
Me: Its a joke dont cry
Girl: Hurting my feelings
Me: Ill take you out later
Me: Stop crying
Girl - 8 mins later: Ok
Me: Text me later when your friend dips
Girl: Alrighty
Me - 2 hrs 19 mins later: Ready
Girl: You confuse me
Me: How?
Girl - 1 min later: Your mean to me at work and then you text me all cool,
Me: Im nice all the time..
Me: You like to be all mean when I let my guard down
Me: Dont act like you hate it
Girl: I'm not mean at all!!
Girl: "Sure ohkay"
Me: Hmmmm your whole sarcasm is funny
so i pretty much am trying to pull her out of her house and have meet up with me (she lives a couple blocks away). But like i said shes balways dodging the question. The thing is i think its alot tougher trying to make a move on her at work because of alot of members always being around and me having to get up and charge members while she sits and watches me
So you work with her and she's taken? That's a long long convo can you copy and paste exactly where you're trying to get her out and she's dodging