Maintianing/creating fuck buddies after sex.... not possible. Here's what you can do

Took me a while and some pain to figure this out, but if you want a girl to be your fuckbuddy or keep one that you already have, thats not possible. Ultimatly it takes two to tango and its up to her if she wants to become a fuckbuddy or stay as one.

If you've fucked a girl and want to fuck her again, sexting is the way to go and theres some great advice here on that. In my opinon the basic jist of it is to be as unapologeticly genuine and sexual as possible while at the same time being very descriptive and painting a picture that gets her vagina wet. But you also need to remember that you should be comfortable around each other already and have some good raport. Whenever i tried to sext a girl i had a drunken encounter with that we only remember 90% of, it didnt really work. But dont let that stop you ;)

The main problem that I had my freshman year was that I would have awsome sex with a girl and great raport but she either didnt want to fuck me again because either some social circle shit or i was trying to fuck other girls and missed the chance on the second fuck and didnt get another one after and sexting was too incongruent after that point.

A good way that that i use to fuck girls that for whatever reason wont comply to me fucking them agian is by creating some drama and cutting her off for a bit then pressing the reset button.

Keep in mind ive only done this to two girls so its not like i have a massive collection of data to prove this will work every time but it has worked the two times i've done it.

Basically what i do is text a girl some dramatic shit like "you're so fake, you never even really liked me, fuck you, delete my number, i hope you liked useing me for sex, you're so selfish"  lmao anything of that sort
Basically just frame it to where you are a little hurt girl who just had your vagina used and heart crushed by a guy haha

After some dramatic texting back and forth and keeping the frame of  "you never really cared, you just used me" I tell her  "delete my number" or "please dont talk to me ever again" hahaa
Then you need to make sure she hears or sees nothing from you for some time period around a week or some shit like that idk it doesnt really matter. This is hard to do in college tho cause you run into the same people alot but if you do run into her just ignore her and keep the frame of "im not talking to you" not the frame of "were not talking" so you dont come across as a little bitch.

Then after some time has passed i either send her a funny picture or text message and shes like "you're talking to me again?". Then i say something like "i liked it better when were friends/nice to each other" and keep some back and forth friendly texting and saying sorry to each other or some shit till the meetup happens.
BOOM reset button pressed, all you have to do after that is meet up at a bar/ party/club whatever

Make sure when you meetup after all this shit that you REFRAME HARD. Thats the whole point of this. When i meet up with her again i usually give her a giant hug followed by a kiss on the cheek or forehead and saying soomething like "hey cutie/gorgeous"

From there all you have to do is spend time and have fun. She will be more complaint to come hang at your place or alone and you dont have to make it obvious that your going for sex you can just use the excuse that you are rekindling a broken friendship lol. Then you can escalate really easily and have a much better chance of fucking again.

There are some key concepts that can make or break this if you try it though

1. You have to be still going out and gameing and having abundance otherwise you will care to much about the outcome and it will come through in the texts and definitly when you see her in person.

2. This is supposed to be fun. If youre doing this as a step by step process in order to accomplish a goal you will most likely fuck up at some point. When i did this i was having so much fun with the over dramatic texts and lauging my ass off that they loved the drama so much that i didnt give a fuck what happened. I thought i had already lost the girl and i was experimenting with drama or "playing with the fire" as Alex would call it, and the reset button part just came to me because they kept texting me back and were very responsive so i figured they wanted to see me .

3. It doesnt matter how over the top you go. I used the "used condoms and abortions line" and used much profanity. Dont be retarded tho, you cant say shit like im gunna kill your family lol. Much of the shit i used like " delete my number" is credit to Julien and you can go on his blog and see the text examples he has, they're pretty fucking outrageous.

4. When you meet up again just be patient and realize that she already wants to fuck you and that youve fucked her before. Use the friendship excuse and fun to easily escalate and add no presure to being alone together.

In summary keep in mind that the dumbass texting is just to create arousal and have her thinking/ spending more time on you cause time+arousal= sex
Main things that come into play are 1. unreactiveness 2. having fun for yourself 3. reframing

I like doing this because it switches you out of the "We've had sex before, now how are we going to make this work" frame into the "We've just met, but secretly we've had sex before" frame
Let me know if you guys know of other dumbass ways to keep girls engaged I'd love to here them cause all of it cracks me up haha :)