Mexican Nanny
Got this Mexican girl's # off day game, and I've txting back and forth for a few weeks. She seems down and everything, but when I for go the meetup she goes silent. I think it's cause I did the same thing twice(coffee). Perhaps, a free concert, drinks, or a social night out would be better.
Here's part way through the convo( All of this was translated from Spanish, even my part, so it might seem a bit basic):
Her: Same here, I don’t’ want any now, but a couple years more
Her: What are you doing besides studying? What do on the weekends?
Me: I love. It’s the only thing that I have energy for.
Me: But you can interview me later when we meet for coffee.
Me: I’ll bring my tape recorder.
No response
Next day
Me: What are you doing this wknd? Or do I need to steal you from your kids?
Her: Yes please, haha I am already really tired and happy bc its Friday and I’m goin going to sleep
Her: What are you going to do?
Me: I’m going to get a drink with some friends and tmrw be very lazy.
Next day
Me: Are you free Tuesday? Let’s go for coffee. I need to make your kids jealous ;)
No response
2 Days Later
Me: 2 hrs of sleep, but I still feel lk this..
Me:PIC
Her: Why haven’t you slept?
Me: Sometimes, I get stomach pain, like hrtburn. And I can’t sleep
Me: I think am 80 yrs old. I’m goin to a cane, haha
Her: Poor thing!! Only happens to the young and beautiful haha, you seem lk a grandfather
Her: What’s the cause of this?
Me: I’m not sure, certain foods, stress, nannies from mexico,…
Me: My stomach changed a lot after getting food poisoning from Mexican food, 4 yrs ago :/
Her: Yeah, Mexican is really bad for your stomach.
Her: But so delicious ;)
Next day
Me: I worked in a Spanish clinic today. So tired!!!!!!
Her: That’s why you know Spanish so well ;)
Me: But it was my first time in this type of clinic. And you? When are you going to interview me in English? I KNOW that you aren’t ready ;p
I tried to do a good bait/qualification type thing, by saying she wasn't up for it, was this good? Did I do it the right way?
2 Day Later At Night
Her(In English): I am ready ;)
Her: Just tell me, u are the bussy Boy!!
12:01a.m.Me: Now ;) [really I was joking]
Her: Its really late and raining
Her: What are you doing?
Me: In all seriousness, I’m going to sleep soon.
Her: Me too, I’m already in my bed ;)
Me: Skype date in bed, hahaha
Me: Where do you live, in Boston or a bit outside?
Her: I live 40 min outside
Her: No, I’m in my pjs, and ugly, haha
Her: And you?
Me: I’m my pj’s, but I’m beautiful as always.
Me: Pic of me falling asleep
Next Morning
Me: Sunday. We’ll meet at 6:30. XKJSDF Place in Chinatown. Sound good?
No response
Next day
Me: Yo, how are you?
No response
Let me know what you think. I'll just reengage and ask her out to something different than coffee.
Dude you're fucking up some basic rules reread the 19 rules article. Your meetup attempts are terrible. Is it because you don't know how to converse in spanish that well? Maybe stop kissing her ass and just speak some english to her yo. You're limiting YOURSELF, you're not even taking the high road here in any way.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
"There's a place in Chinatown that ROCKS. I bet you don't stray too far out of Mexicotown so this will be an amazing experience for you LOL"
Are you free Tuesday? Let’s go for coffee. I need to make your kids jealous ;)
That's all pursuing her for your needs. Make it about her.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
You need to show some man prowess. Remind her who she's talking to. Geezez christ just the social/monetary discrepancy inherent here should be enough but you're betraying it lol.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
^ lol i was thinking that just from the title.
I was really just txting back in Spanish not to kiss her ass, but because I actually want to get better at Spanish, it's great practice. It's part what makes me into this girl, she's hot and she speaks Spanish, so I could kill 2 birds w one stone. I do get the point that my meetup setup was shit. Making it enticing to her is also a big thing, instead of enticing to me. Also, she's not a Mexican nanny like poor, just from Mexico to make a living, more like one of those girls who is nannying so she can travel the world. Anyways, I sent reengagement txt in Spanish and she responded back.
Me: I heard that you got your kids drunk, and their parents sent you back to Mexico. Finally....
Her: Hi ;) no, i 'm still a nanny in Boston, hahaha
Her: And how have you been?
Should make her feel guilty for not addressing the priot meetup? Maybe say, " Awesome, but I was at the coffee shop on Sunday with my pet baby dog/pig/seal. He really wanted to hear your english. That's messed up"
Maybe do that one in English so I can show the emotion more exactly.
No you'll come off butthurt you need to challenge her in other ways. Then punish her if she doesn't comply
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Cool. sounds good. But when do you punish them for not going for a meetup? Is it when the date is actually set and they actually flake? I really terrible with when to punish, when push/pull, escalate, etc. Timing is a huge issue is for me. I'm always doing the wrong thing at the wrong time.
I replied to her txt.
Me: Good, wait, do you have to cook for your kids?
I figure I'll make her qualify herself with my favorite dish type thing and then punish her or qualify her after that and from there we'll see
You probably cook for your kids and when they don't like it they put YOU on timeout.
What's this nanny thing like do you get paid well
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male