Mixing in slight humor to my bare bones style
Mon, 01/07/2013 - 06:58
Me: Hope you didn't get kidnapped by any of those pesky hipsters last night, beb ; )
Her: haha nah, safe and sound!
Me: Lmao... what's your schedule look like this week
Her: It's pretty unexciting to tell you the truth. Why, you doing something fun??
Me: Just takin the spaceship for a lil spin but I should be free Wednesday for a drink
Her: You didn't tell me that you're an astronaut!
Me: lol just on the side. I try not to talk about it too much ; ) - What time do you get off work Wednesdy?
Her: I have an audition at 1:45 I think. So pretty much after like 2:30 I'm free
Me: Cool. I get off work at 8 so we can grab a drink around 9
Her: I guess I can squeeze you in
Me: Shut it dork
Me: ; )
Her: hahaha
Her: You have no idea how dorky
Me: Mm that's kinda hawt. Nothing turns me on like a girl who knows her way around a pocket protector
Her: hahahaha. Yeah I forgot my fanny pack the other night but usually I'm rocking one
Her: haha nah, safe and sound!
Me: Lmao... what's your schedule look like this week
Her: It's pretty unexciting to tell you the truth. Why, you doing something fun??
Me: Just takin the spaceship for a lil spin but I should be free Wednesday for a drink
Her: You didn't tell me that you're an astronaut!
Me: lol just on the side. I try not to talk about it too much ; ) - What time do you get off work Wednesdy?
Her: I have an audition at 1:45 I think. So pretty much after like 2:30 I'm free
Me: Cool. I get off work at 8 so we can grab a drink around 9
Her: I guess I can squeeze you in
Me: Shut it dork
Me: ; )
Her: hahaha
Her: You have no idea how dorky
Me: Mm that's kinda hawt. Nothing turns me on like a girl who knows her way around a pocket protector
Her: hahahaha. Yeah I forgot my fanny pack the other night but usually I'm rocking one
Mon, 01/07/2013 - 09:05
#1
Re: Mixing in slight humor to my bare bones style
@buddhagames:
Oh also- this is a small example of running proper push//pull and as a result getting the girl to invest//qualify
I consciously iod'd her with the "shut it dork", after she gave me that slight "test" (Yes, I'm not a robot- I obviously understand that she wasn't actually trying to be a bitch... but regardless- this is still "technically" an iod on her part- although it obviously was meant in a joking way)- which is why I then purposely waited just a second to send the winky face text as a calibrator to show her that "I get it"-
This is what calibration is- I calibrated my "iod" to match the tone, style and intent of her "iod"- lol I could continue to break this SUPER SMALL aspect down but yeah...
And then when she qualified- I gave her validation and then she qualified herself even further... this creates investment
I do the exact same shit in-field.
Oh also- this is a small example of running proper push//pull and as a result getting the girl to invest//qualify
I consciously iod'd her with the "shut it dork", after she gave me that slight "test" (Yes, I'm not a robot- I obviously understand that she wasn't actually trying to be a bitch... but regardless- this is still "technically" an iod on her part- although it obviously was meant in a joking way)- which is why I then purposely waited just a second to send the winky face text as a calibrator to show her that "I get it"-
This is what calibration is- I calibrated my "iod" to match the tone, style and intent of her "iod"- lol I could continue to break this SUPER SMALL aspect down but yeah...
And then when she qualified- I gave her validation and then she qualified herself even further... this creates investment
I do the exact same shit in-field.
Mon, 01/07/2013 - 11:15
#2
Re: Mixing in slight humor to my bare bones style
Very good shit.
Mon, 01/07/2013 - 16:14
#3
Re: Mixing in slight humor to my bare bones style
@buddhagames:
Cheers for the rundown too
Cheers for the rundown too