molding relationships

Havent really posted anything in a while mainly cause im still getting used to this whole colllege schoolwork thing, working out, and going out has consumed all of my free time. Any pickup time i have i usually just watching the massive amount of new video content thats being put up everywhere haha, But quite frankly i miss the insights on this forum and I have a topic that i think Jonathan aka manwhore knows alot about ;).

lately ive been going out, cold approaching, and meeting girls through friends and getting alot of results and learning alot about myself and females (bitches).
Ive most recently been stepping back from the whole one night stand thing, stoped drinking for various reasons, and have been really conecting with girls.
This is mainly due to the fact that I want real relationships with the girls I like, so ive been weaving out the random one nighters and focusing on the ones that interest me and basically talking to them molding the relationship into a fuck buddy or some kind of longer term more real connection type thing.

So im doing this with 2 or 3 girls but ill talk about my most recent one cause its quite interesting.
This girl is tall blonde skinny and fine as fuck.
She chills with one of my wings and after a little while of knowing her I hooked up with her.

Basically it happened like this. I start the night sober and go to the bars.
I made out with this girl at the bar so i had some good momentum goin from that.
Then after the bar. My female friend thats friends with her invites me to this party.
I walk up in this still pretty sober with a some momentum goin, made out with this really cute half asian half irish girl, then i was in the zone and made out with her right after.

*Sidenote: This was one of the main things that made me stop drinking other than the health risks and that it physically drains me and makes me lazy. It took me a little while to realize that i was getting my best results and learning alot more while i was sober haha ( pretty stupid ).

Mainly i kept goin back to that other girl cause she was all about it and rubbing my dick and it was going very well.
I see the blonde later that night in her room but she has to catch a bus at 7 in the morning to visit her friend in U of Nebraska or something so we just end it with a lil kiss( yaaay validation!!! )))

So i keep seeing her through social circle and my winggirl chills with her all the time and all is going well and we learn some stuff about each other and all that.
Ive been screening for a lil and find out that she doesnt want a relationship and im all for that, except i dont like the fact that she goes out and drinks but hey, not every girl you meet is gunna go out sober.
I decide that I like her enough and that im just gunna try to have a fuck buddy type relationship. But it gets a little complicated and ill tell you where im confused.

So we all go out again and she gets really hammared we go to this party, im pimpin as per usual. Im workin on this lil cute girl from back home in Chi town that i end up hooking up with later that night and she makes out with some dude which is all good.

I guess she felt i was getting disinterest so she starts texting me and it goes like this.
10 pm
Her: We should smoke together sometime haha
Baller: Yea im down!
Her: Hahaha ok hit me up sometime when your free!
Baller: Yea forsure, I just have one math test this week
Her: Yea same and my Chem exam tomorrow morning

4 days later on like a wednesday she hits me up at like 1am
Her: You up?? lol
Baller: Yea haha. Whats up!
Her: Welll, What you up to?? Lol
Baller: Just watching tv and taking notes. Hbu?? <------ total bullshit i was trying to pass out haha
Her: Ahh well i just finished working out and got some bud today i was wanting to try out lol
Baller: Nice haha, you wanna meet up soon <---- i felt like i should just get straight to the point cause why would she be telling me this if she didnt wanna smoke or meet up
Her: Yea hahaha where do you usually smoke?
Baller: Depends but i have like 4 decent places. Are you in *****?
Her: Yea im in my room lol
Baller: Invite me over :)
Her: Come on over? lol <----- idk if that question mark was a error but whatever i dont dwell on meaningless shit haha

So the night goes like this, i show up, shes a lil drunk cause after she worked out, some chodes texted her and she was like "whatever free liquor", she finishes some hw she was doin, we roll up, go out, walk, smoke, chat, im very physical and all is goin good.
Then i start screening and she tells me how all these dudes are trying to date her and they just dont understand that she doesnt want a relationship lmao

*sidenote: probably because they dont screen and are super outcome dependent and dont listen to what shes saying haha

So we go back and were chillin watchin what i wanna watch which was bball, and i was high so i was a little uncalibrated haha.
Basically what was going through my head was, she obviously likes me and is comfortable but not yet to the point of sex.
And obviously if a girl texts me past 10 to meet up, and on top of that smokes me down, im gunna go for it no matter how she feels, what her situation is, or where we are lol, mainly cause i want the experience, reference, amusement, and i plainly just wanna fuck.
I try to pre rationalize her not feeling like a slut who called me over for a fuck by saying something like "im bored" (which makes sense cause nothing good was on tv), and then trying to kiss right after.
Shes all like, "no no we cant" and starts blushing and gets really red.
Im like, its cool we can just talk n hangout everythings fine babe.
So shes a little flustered but we continue talking and everything is fine
NOW, i obvioualy wanna go in again cause i could tell she was getting way more attracted by the fact that i had the balls to do something.

This is what made me realize her situation at least in my point of view and my experience from game.
Now obviously in the game point of view the right decision is to go in again and try to get the kiss and go for the
the fuck.
However after talking and mostly when I went for it i realized exaclty where shes at and hows shes feeling.
My rendition of it was this: She obviously likes me because so many chodes talk to her that are outcome dependent, dont listen, dont show a range of emotions, wanna date her, ect. and im basically like a breath of fresh air ( i know very narcissistic but i actually believe this as crazy as it sounds).
Also the last dude she made out with was really trying to go for the fuck and couldnt just realize that she just wanted to kiss someone cause she was drunk.
And finally she just wanted someone cool to chill with that wasnt a fag and could maybe give her some good dick.
So basically she was at this point where she wants to chill with a cool dude and was tired of guys being to physically aggressive like the last dude but also tired of them being chodes like all the dudes texting her

Now realize that this is not a limiting belief or an excuse to not try to fuck her again this is actually what i believe and for once pushing for sex was not the right rout as pussy as that sounds.
So its 4am and i got a 8am class so i tell her night babe and go to bed.
Only to find out that right after i left some, chode came barging in her room to proclaim his love for her and she was just absolutely DISGUSTED and tooled him.

So i guess it was a good decision to not go in again cause i didnt destroy the interaction which is good cause were in the same social circle.
Basically all is well and i can tell she likes me mainly cause the chodes who are fucking up are doing all the work for me.
I asked my wing about this whole situation that happened and she basically said, yea she just didnt wanna hookup cause all the chodes are wearing her out with their chodeness and basically making her SICK OF GUYS lol.

This is my last conversation of me trying to mold it into a fuck buddy type relationship and it went pretty well, she keeps testing me alot cause i think she thinks im some sort of player cause i still hookup with other girls when were out. Idk if shes even seen it but whatever doesnt matter. I had to cut it short cause i had shit to do. Not really though i just went to workout get high and play FIFA but still haha.

I sent her a funny as picture with glasses that had a dick for a nose and this is how it goes
Her: Durrp? Hahaha dick nose <----- durrp is my name on the picture sending thing
Baller: Its this new style im trying out haha
Her:Hahah and how's that working out for you? Getting you a lot of ladies? Ahha
Baller: Yea who wouldnt want a guy with two dicks! It also makes me the best 69er around
Her: Well i should let you go mingle with all your prospective 69 buddies ;) ahhaha
Baller: Only if they're 180lb and up
Her: Ew, You like to get smushed... A
Baller: I like my women like i lik my popcorn... extra buttery
Her: Bahaha wow greasy... Huh
Baller: Yea if i met a girl whos initials were KFC id probably propose on the spot
Her: Hahahaha I can hunt one down for you!! That'd be so fun <----- Idk if shes trying to be my winggirl or somethin cause her friend is but i chose to ignore
Baller: Well right now im trying to date this girl named Arby and next in line after her is this redhead named Wendy <---- I honestly think she's to slow to understand this joke haha
Her: Oh wow you have them all lined up hah
Baller: Yea im kinda what you would call a romantic
Her: Oh really sure sounds like it me double 69 <--- She ment mr double 69 but im not gunna be a chode and send ? and completly kill the vibe like an idiot
Baller: Isn't that what people do when they're in love
Her: Yea.... Hahahaha
Baller: Point proven
Her: Haha thanks
Her: Love in college in the first place especially freshman year....Eh hahahah <--- this is where i see an opportunity to stop talking shit and be real and try to mold it into a friends with benifits relationship
Baller: Yea im definatly not trying to "fall in love" either but at the same time casual sex is always nice
Her: Haha well hitup arnt
Her: Arby! <--- idk if she didnt understand the Arbys joke or not but either way shes still shit testing
Baller: Thats my main goal
Her: Haha alright may the force be with you
Baller: The force is always strong in my dong
Her: Hahahah does not surprise me
Baller: Yup yup, talk ta ya later im gunna workout <---- idk i hate texting when im smokeing weed and playing fifa after a good workout
Her: K

I guess ill put up my other ones im trying to do the same with but one of them is so fucked up cause shes like a winggirl/friend/hooked up with once or twice/ gets jealous and horny when im with other girls. Basically its so fucked up i dont know how i can put it in words on this forum without writing an entire book about it

So yea this is where im at with this one regarding trying to imporve my friend with benifits molding skills
Please give any insights you might have and try not to troll to hard