More FANTASTIC tinder//texting examples
I included two more tinder convos from Colorado- been here 4 days now. These are, again, really good examples of proper text-game at work. There are a couple mistakes, which I've noted, so I think that's good for you all to read as well.
Me: Hey there
Her: Hey
Me: Whatcha up to rainbow brite
Her: Ha ha that's one I've never heard. I'm having a beer reading the game of thrones book. What are you up to
Me: Just bravin the barbarian hordes
Me: Scavenging for groceries at whole foods
Her: Sounds dangerous
Her: I'm in air conditioning that's so efficient I have a sweater on. This might be heaven plus I don't have to fight for beer unless I want to
Me: Well shit, I might have to seek refuge at your place
Me: There was just a tribal vote for the last oatmeal raisin protein bar
Her: A vote how civilized. I jjust saw a man do the sign of the cross the Catholic one? Is there a better name to describe that action? Over a plate of Chili cheese tater tots that made my day
Her: Oh the cubs are playing the red sox today just keeps getting better
Me: Oh gawd my mother warned me about girls like you
Her: Like me? Explain
Me: Lol messing with ya boo
Me: But if your a Red Sox fan im calling shenanigans
Her: Not a sox fan... I didn't mean that to sound serious I'm just a really curious person in a good way
Me: Lmao whatcha up to
Me: Let's go out in Denver
Me: We can stop crime and beat up bad guys
Her: I'm going to be good tonight but I might fight crime tomorrow night
Me: I'm headin to the mountains tmrw
Me: Plus the bad guys are gonna be out tonight- we haveta stop em!
Her: Oh nice that will be really fun! No way I have been misbehaving for weeks I'm being good tonight
Me: If you're really good, I could even letcha drive the getaway car
Her: Plus is there a sidekick here or are we going to partners in crime fighting. Because I won't want to be the Robin
Me: Puhhlease, we both know I'm batman beb, but I see you as more of a cat woman anyway
Me: Think ya can handle the bat mobile
Her: Ah fair enough I'm so cat woman
Her: I'm not batman too much inner struggle
Me: It's cool obv I can handle it boo
Her: Obvi ha ha what's with the boo thing?
Me: Shit that's right I already decided you were strawberry shortcake
Me: I gotta have a code name for ya- It's how I keep us from gettin caught
Her: Ha ha oh sounds hot and covert
Her: I may need a code name for you and. Where does this strawerry short cake thing come from
Me: Pfft puhhlease we both know there's no cod ename that can handle me
Me: It's cool though, I'll be open for suggestions
Me: As long as you wear a real sleek and revealing cat woman outfit
Me: That way we match
her: Oh you're getting a code name now
Her: I just realized I'm wearing batman earrings interesting... btw if I wear a cat suit so do you ; )
Me: Revealing leather will look sexier on you
Me: Plus I make a cape look hawt
Me: It's cool though boo, I'll make sure nobody makes fun of you [small mistake here- should have said, "It's cool though boo, I'll make sure nobody makes fun of us"- by making it about her in the text I sent, it was just a little combative]
Her: Ha ha oh okay I don't think anyone would have the balls to make fun of me but thanks for defending my honor
Her: I could see the value looking hot on you
Her: Cape
Me: Whatcha up to shortcake
Her: Hey I was out last night causing trouble how''s camping?
Me: Oh geesus girl, you better save the cat woman outfit just for me
Me: I know that's where you store all your super powers
Her: I'm dying im drinking a red beer I need a nap
Her: I'll save it for you don't worry
Me; If your real good, I might letcha drive the bat mobile
Her: I want to curl up ina ball and sleep like a big wuss. Are you in the mountains?
Her: If you're good I might whip you a little
Me: Aw it's okay boo-go get a nap
Me: If I wasn't in the mountains I'd totally come over and kepnap you entirely against your will
Me: ; )
Her; Oh I might really like being kidnapped
[Caveat here- I'm in the mountains and just met this girl on Tinder, so haven't met up yet- but clearly when I'm back I'll be meeting up with her
Less sexual [Notice how I still am constantly poking at that sexuality, and just throwing little lines out to see if she bites. The second she does- BOOM I jump on it[
Me: Hey There
Her: Hey, happy holiday weekend!
Me: Oh I know right?
Me: This is fantastic
Me: My entire family just blazed and played some cornhole
Her: haha that is amazing. Nothing more American than a good session of bags
Me: Whata up to rainbow brite
Her: Just leaving work! Also thank yo. I would like to change my name to rainbow bright
Me: Aw, good ! Glad you like it, cause if you didn't I was gonna have to beat you up with pillowcases filled with flowers
Her: Haha you are ridiculous! Doing anything fun with your fourth?
Me: Well I was plannin an ice cream truck robbery
Me: Still need a getaway driver though
Me: Bonnie and Clyde style
Her: K I'm your girl. I have pulled off this maneuver before so you just have to follow my lead. Only caveat: dibs on all the Klondikes
Her: Also I would like this to end a littl ebetter for us than it did for b&c
Me: Pfft puhhlease bebk we both know I wouldn't let anything happen to us [Learned from the above convo and made it about "us" instead of "her"- small things that are important]
Me: Plus I haven't even seen a test run from you, so not even sure you're telling the truth!
Her: I guess you'll just have to take my word for it ; p
Me: Oh gawd, my mother totally warned me bout girls like you
Me: Sucha bad influence!
Her: Fast and loose, watch out! Haha what's your story, PottedFlowers
Me: Woh! First rule of ice cream truck robbery- never discuss details ove rthe phone
Me: But if you must know- I fight crime and beat up bad guys for a living... [This was a mistake- I shouldn't have texted this. I should have waited for her to respond, and then depending on her response, then, possibl sent these two texts]
Me: It pays the bills
Her: True that. Acceptable over beer?
Me: That should work - if you're real good I might letcha drive the bat mobile
Me: Don't worry, it has cup holders ; )
Her: Sold
Me: I'm saving the world this weekend but get back Sunday night
Her: Super. Sunday it is
Me: I'm 6'3 so feel free to wear heels
Her: I don't own any heals, so I guesss I'll have to tiptoe
Me: Depends on what we're doing
Me: But yeah, you'll prob have to tiptoe ; )
Also - because logistics here are very difficult.... I'm not going to the meetup in as "hard and direct" of a fashion as I usually do.
But what you also should notice is that I'm not just chatting to chat, or building rapport- everything I'm doing is just building attraction, and edging towards sexuality.
So- First off... always be going for the meetup
IF you are in a situation where the immediate meetup isn't possible- don't be that guyt hat just goes into rapport. Keep her excited and get her horny to meetup with you.
ALSO- In this situation, you obviously want to be actively creating a "loose" atmosphere, where although you haven't specifically gone for the meetup, you've created enough tension, sexuality, attraction and value that the girl will pretty much jump on the first opportunity to hang out with you.
So i just want to be clear, this is after you got the number off tinder?
In the first convo, you used "If you're real good, I might letchu drive the getaway car/batmobile" twice. I am surprised she didn't think it was weird and kinda went with it.
I like how you start qualifying pretty early on. Do you even go for the number or set up the meet on Tinder?
No, all of this is done in the Tinder app itself.
Personally, I don't go for the # because I think it's unnecessary. It also creates expecations, and can trigger mild asd
Also - When I'm texting with a girl, I'm literally creating a fictional "world" that she's stepping into. I just find that getting the # "breaks" the flow sometimes
I get the # when necessary, for logistical purposes.
Yeah, I used it twice, but it was like a day apart, and honestly, you can't think of this stuff logically- she was in a totally different emotional state the 2nd time, so while the words were the same, the emotional context behind the words was entirely different, which is why she went with it (and in all honesty probably has no idea I said it twice)
Also- if she did call me out on it for being weird- My textgame is good enough where I can handle anything she would say
Yeah, that "qualifying" was actually just more "sexual bait"- and then when she doesn't take it, I just go with the flow of the conversation. My goal is to just not put up blocks, go with the flow of the conversation, and while going with that flow, constantly be suddely directing it by throwing out pieces of energy for her to play with.
And like I mentioned above- I don't really go for the # on tinder until it's logistically important
Also- one more thing: It is absolutely CRAZY how fast//easily you can escalate, as long as you just use inuendos.... like you can go so fucking sexual just as long as your subtle about it
Obviously, there's a time and place to be real direct, and then also there's always a threshold (usulaly I let the girl cross it first) that once that threshold is crossed, all bets are off and you can say anything
Good stuff mate. You kind of know the patterns and I'm pretty sure they repeat with most chicks if not all. I am a beginner myself, so I can't relate to much of what you said.
Do you always go into fantasy land/me and you bubble very early on? How to do go sexual in a subtle fashion? I tried the whole "double meaning" stuff with the last girl I was texting and blew it up. Worse thing, she was a 6.
Let us know if you end up meeting up with these girls. These are great examples of tinder game for all us trying to get better. I find myself refering to all the texting examples instead of coming up with my own stuff at the moment simply because my brain isn't good at it yet. Thanks!
Good stuff mate. You kind of know the patterns and I'm pretty sure they repeat with most chicks if not all. I am a beginner myself, so I can't relate to much of what you said.Do you always go into fantasy land/me and you bubble very early on? How to do go sexual in a subtle fashion? I tried the whole "double meaning" stuff with the last girl I was texting and blew it up. Worse thing, she was a 6.
I'm not even joking man- you need to read Manwhore's text-game ebook. He recently gave me 3-4 chapters of it just to look over, and it completely changed my text-game. Brought it to a new level. My shit was pretty good beforehand, but basically it just connected all of the dots for me.
But yeah, there are absolutely patterns, but more importantly, for me, it's almost like the patterns appear and are easier to see, becuase I've already had a mental shift. Like after just a couple chapters of the E-book, I started to see a new way of interating with women. It's actually crazy, and I don't know if everybody will have this intense of a mind-shift, but it was like the E-book triggered something in me, and I startd to just operate on a level I hadn't operated on before, in terms of how I was choosing to interact with women.
Also- what's interesting to note is just how extremely high-value this shit is. It's unbelievable. It's particualrly high-value because I'm able to navigate the entire conversation, exactly how she wants it to be navigated. Like do you guys see that? This form of texting, which Manwhore literally just fucking GIVES AWAY in his ebook, is literally how girls want you to text//socialize with them...
This is no joke- and the reason it works so well is because it's everything they want. It's funny and playful, while also being masculine and dominant. I know how to navigate the sexual inuendos with skill and ease, and she appreciates that. Every chick out there wants to get laid. It's insane. But the thing is that they are like flowers- you gotta watter them and make em' feel good before they'll blossom open.
If you just go on Tinder and match with the most DTF girl in the world, and message her right off the bat, "Let's bone"- it's going to fail (okay you might get that like 1 in a 100 chick or wtvr but that's not the point). But that doen't mean that girl doesn't desparately want to fuck.
Imagine a dude who hasn't fucked in liike 2 years, but has had tons of opportunities with like the UGLIEST of girls (like a complete 1 on a 1-10 scale), even though he's desparate to fuck, there's a chance he won't do it with the ugly chick because it's justl ike..... no....
That's what girls go through. And the girls who don't sexually flirt back with inuendos etc.. it's not that they "don't want to fuck"- it's that they are shy, or perhaps sexually inexperienced.... but at the end of the day- they wanna fuck. You just have to make it easy for them to say yes.
Your question about the "bubble" just shows a lack of understanding.
It's not that I'm like actively creating some unique like "bubble" as much as it is that simply by being play//funny and dominant in a way that she doesn't get that much (if at all)- there is naturally a "bubble" that is created. So yes, right off the bat I start engaging with hard hitting value.
But that being said, there are absolutely tiems when I bring it back down to earth. Like I'll be super playful and funny and then maybe I'll switch to a much more minimalist approach.
Post up the examples where you were using the inuendos... I have a feeling you probably just either weren't elequent enough in your wording, or were misuing them or something... so def. post those up
Here's the link boo:
https://gumroad.com/products/kbAgg/
Yeah I sent out a few of the chapters early to Pottedflowers (Buddha- I don't know what to make of this pottedflowers crap) and Patrick.Bateman
Patrick.Bateman just had a threesome with two 9's off Tinder. Buddha jump on later I need to show you something..
Jesus a threesome with 2 chicks off tinder is unebelievable.
Seriously.... how does that even happen, logistically haha holy fuck.
They were both in the final throes of being on their way over and he was tripping out on Facebook hitting me up practically in hysteria. My advice was, "Fuck you. Handle it"
;)
I will talk to Jon about it tomorrow. Pottedflowers is Buddagames, right? Thought I saw your profile on rsdnation somewhere. I also gather that you have been working with Jon for quite a while now. So I don't understand you needed the ebook (which came about a month or so ago?) to get you at that level in terms of text/online game.
I am under the impression that you and couple other guys on here have been good at this shit for some time now.
I will talk to Jon about it tomorrow. Pottedflowers is Buddagames, right? Thought I saw your profile on rsdnation somewhere. I also gather that you have been working with Jon for quite a while now. So I don't understand you needed the ebook (which came about a month or so ago?) to get you at that level in terms of text/online game.I am under the impression that you and couple other guys on here have been good at this shit for some time now.
Yes you're right and that's a good point. But his "training" up till now was all basically informal. I'd help him with his texts or we'd hash things out in certain conversations. Also this was all two years ago he took a pretty decent break from the whole thing. But what the book does is not only give the examples and the templates, but explains the theory/reasoning behind everything. I'll tell you right now, it has been an excruciating process putting my brain and experiences and reasoning on paper, but I have succeeded in ways I did not even think about before. I am immensely proud of this book. Buddha basically has a lot of structural blueprinting now. Plus I shot him some stuff on styles he didn't have a lot of experience with.
They were both in the final throes of being on their way over and he was tripping out on Facebook hitting me up practically in hysteria. My advice was, "Fuck you. Handle it" ;)
Hahha great advice!
Yeah it doesn't really matter how much time potty has put into it over the past two years when that e-book comes out. I mean just look at the sample chapter. I can only imagine of the power of the full thing. If you started fresh with it when it came out you will be able to get WAY faster with way less 'effort.' Thats not a rag on mw's and pottys work on the forum the past two years but rather me trying to empathize how killer the ebook will be. gawddamn
Tinder made me realize HOW BADLY its needed in and out of the community. Like what was mentioned above, SO many dudes young and old have trouble getting laid off tinder to the point where I've seen like a FUNNY COOL JACKED DUDE at work delete tinder from his phone because he couldn't get laid from it. wtf I barely put any time into it but just from what I stole here I've been laid five times off tinder.
If tinder gave every dude the ebook and they actually tried to apply it the resulting pregnancies would shadow post-ww2 baby boomers
I know I am (kinda) joking here but honestly, tinder is such a perfect hook-up app for both men and women but just most dudes have ZERO text game
Her: Oh the cubs are playing the red sox today just keeps getting better
Me: Oh gawd my mother warned me about girls like you
Do you think she was baiting you into suggesting going over to watch the game with her?
Her: Oh the cubs are playing the red sox today just keeps getting betterMe: Oh gawd my mother warned me about girls like you
Do you think she was baiting you into suggesting going over to watch the game with her?
Yeah, probably