More Frame Control: A Detailed Breakdown of WHY you need frame control: Attraction vs. Comfort- Gaining Compliance

So here's a little piece of forwarning- If you are going to start inviting chicks to your place before you go out on a date... You WILL get resistance, even if they are super into you and receptive.

Even the ones who say, "Yeah, sounds good", at first, will later come back and text you and say, "Hey can we meet somewhere in the middle"- That's the other thing... If they are into you- they are always going to suggest somewhere that's "In the middle"- maybe even slightly closer to you... but the key is that they are trying to resist full-on compliance.

That's an interesting concept to note about "Female/Male Dynamics"- it's a testament to the difference between "Attraction" and "Comfort"

No matter how "Attracted" the girl is, she's going to resist, if there is not enough "Comfort": So the question becomes, "Do you need to add more comfort?"

For getting a girl to meet up at your place? No... All you need is "Frame Control" - it gives her plausible deniability and makes it really awkward for her to say "No"

So, the way I see it- as far as compliance is conerned... Frame Control can take the place of comfort, for certain things... as far as why that is, or where the line gets drawn- I'm unsure.... Like can you frame control a chick all the way to the fuck- with zero comfort?

Me: Standard Hipster Followup Text
Her: some response
Me: Lmao.. what's your schedule like this week beb
Her: You made me add drinks with you to my calendar for Tuesday. Remember? : )
Me: Haha yeah just makin sure you weren't bailin on me beb, so drinks Tuesday. When do you get off work?
Her: It varies, but Tuesday will be a late night
Me: Lol thursday would actually work best for me. 9 work?
Her: Can we do 930 on Tuesday?
Me: Actually yeah that works. I work late on Tuesdays. Perfect
Me: There are some awesome bars in my neighborhood. We can meet near here and walk
Her: What's your neighborhood
Me: xxx address- right next to xxpark
Her: Hey, would you mind if we went somewhere a little further south than xxpark? Do you know of any fun places?
Her: I work in Midtown and live in Queens, so that's a long hike for me
Me: There are really fun bars around here. Plus, I specifically requested they bring in a petting zoo for our super romantic date.
Me: Also- I know the bartender at one of the bars so free drinks. Next time Ill go to queens!
Her: Ha, well how could I turn down a petting zoo? Peacocks and giraffes are my favorite. Got any of those?
Me: Mm that's kinda hawt... Nothing turns me on like a girl who knows her way around an animal farm

BAM- this girl is straight up coming from queens lmfao