The most important game advice I've learned yet!
I don't know why this has been so powerful for me, its kinda weird.
anyways I was watching some of Julien's videos on RSD nation and he kept on talking about how chicks aren't ready to be closed until the second half of the night. BOOM this shit is genius
I'll show up at parties now and see all these chode's running around trying to impress girls 15 minutes into the damn get together. I will just chill back and observe. It's not that I don't game, I just don't try to push anything ( unless they clearly are ready at the moment) that isn't appropiate at the moment. I play it very introverted, only talking when I feel its needed. As the night goes on, the chode's begin to burn out and lose energy. It's not that these guys aren't fun or funny, they just don't know how to attract the women. These dudes definitely raise the chick's "buying temperature" ( I believe buddhasgames discuseed this a while ago) though. As the end of the night these chicks are ready to. Most dudes are dead, but I'm just getting started. I start to invest more and more and I isolate and hookup with these chicks, almost effortlesly.
I'm going to punch julien in the fucking face. Probably in two weeks when I see him
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I can see how this would conflict with your style..
this isn't julien's style of game.
he doesn't lay back like a chode for half of the night and then steps it up - he acts obnoxious the first leg of the night to loosen himself up, and then ramps up the sexual instinct in the second leg. sooo this is just a misunderstanding.
I'm not trying to rip off anyone's style of game... I'm trying to develope my own. However I perceived this, it is working for me. By no means do I let this advice turn me into some sort of pussy, it has taught me patience which has made me relax a bit more. If you can understand ME
There's two reasons why this particular style of vibing has been put out by Rsd.. first being that guys need to relax infield.. they get too pent up, frantic, fuck themselves up internally. But the real issue there is simply the inner turmoil they turn on themselves.. there are plenty of ways to start off strong, and there are a myriad of reasons why you have to do this, otherwise you fail to get off the ground.
Yes you can wait for regular guys to burn themselves out, and then come in afterwards, and you'll get decent quality that way.. but your skill set will never improve, and you won't get the real gems. I imagine you're going to social circle type scenarios, e.g. people know you. If you tried this at the club where you're anonymous.. expect a lot of lonely nights.
And then there's the second reason which is not so nice.. projecting this whole "girls don't want to have sex the first part of the night" means an instructor gets to lighten his workload, e.g. he doesn't have to be up on his coaching game for the first part of the night, and he can just chill out first half, not demo or push guys, then give a good show of "raising the energy" level of the coaching so that by the end the guys feel like there was an "escalation of force" and they got their money's worth, lol. There's all kinds of stuff like this in the coaching world, believe me.. ;)
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
There's two reasons why this particular style of vibing has been put out by Rsd.. first being that guys need to relax infield.. they get too pent up, frantic, fuck themselves up internally. But the real issue there is simply the inner turmoil they turn on themselves.. there are plenty of ways to start off strong, and there are a myriad of reasons why you have to do this, otherwise you fail to get off the ground.Yes you can wait for regular guys to burn themselves out, and then come in afterwards, and you'll get decent quality that way.. but your skill set will never improve, and you won't get the real gems. I imagine you're going to social circle type scenarios, e.g. people know you. If you tried this at the club where you're anonymous.. expect a lot of lonely nights.
And then there's the second reason which is not so nice.. projecting this whole "girls don't want to have sex the first part of the night" means an instructor gets to lighten his workload, e.g. he doesn't have to be up on his coaching game for the first part of the night, and he can just chill out first half, not demo or push guys, then give a good show of "raising the energy" level of the coaching so that by the end the guys feel like there was an "escalation of force" and they got their money's worth, lol. There's all kinds of stuff like this in the coaching world, believe me.. ;)
okay, okay I feel you.
This probably does work far better in social circle game, which is really all I do being in highschool.
By the way thanks for fixing my account, everything is working fine now :)