As much as it pains me to say it...
If I'm going to get good at this shit, I have to let my ego go.
I'm currently studying and applying a style that quite honestly, is going to take me a very, very long time to master. Probably many years. My reasons for wanting to learn it are bigger than just getting women, because to be 110% honest, I could just throw on Flawless Natural again, go out for a whole week straight using just those principles and probably have 3 or 4 or even more new cute girls added to my notch count. No, my game as it were isn't the reason. I suck. It's just that Flawless Natural is that good of a program and I execute.
So what are my reasons?
I want to be a better influencer, and this particular style contains elements that are already showing a slight benefit to my life. I can better lead people at work, friends and yes girls to go the directions I want them to go into. Yes, it's slow progress and it's going to probably be a VERY long time before I can make this style work to actually get me laid. On that path though, I will definitely learn alot of cool things and do some cool and beneficial stuff as well.
As long as I'm out in the field (and off of Tinder), the game and the field will keep me honest to myself and accountable and realistic.
My ego has to be 1000% out of the equation. This is big boy stuff here and I cannot afford to be a little boy trapped in egoic fantasies and soothing lies.
The style itself doesn't require, but DEMANDS that I fucking not have ANY ego about this shit. It's also a style for very hot girls so theres going to be alot of internal change that needs to happen before I can think about pulling any of this shit off. It's not just the style but my entire way of thinking and being in this world actually has to change too. I think that the journey to mastery will be the catalyst to this change. I'm going to fail 99.99 percent of the time, for a very long time, but I've accepted it. Tolle will keep me from killing myself.
NO MORE hitting on girls below a 8.5. This style is for very hot and confident girls. Having executed this on girls below an 8.5 results usually in the girls being confused/offended.
NO MORE going to scrubby bars and shitty clubs, where I have to rely on BT spikes and excessive physicality and the girls are 6's. Maybe I won't always be able to get into the super high end places at first, but I'll definitely be able to get into high end enough places where there are very hot women around who can actually keep up.
NO MORE hiding behind ego. If I'm going to do this, I have to be real and vulnerable to getting fucking spanked in the field. I have to go into the most challenging situations I can so I can extract the lessons, regardless of my self image or if it hurts.
This is going to fucking suck, but it's going to be worth it, and then it's not going to suck.
And of course throughout all this, Tolle will be my constant companion. There can be no other way.
Time to go make the 1,000,000 mistakes lol.
There's definitely a point to the ego in all of this. In that, Tolle is slightly off. We weren't born with such a thing without there being a purpose for it, a divine purpose. The ego isn't to be killed, it's to be purified. Honed into its more perfect essence. It's what drives you to achieve things, become things.
What does that mean in this particular area of life? It means becoming a man that women actually like. One that's compelling and arousing to them, actually enticing. Rather than having to resort to cheap tactics that undercut both the romance and the point of intimacy, just to bullrush a girl's sensibilities and get her pants off her in a moment of weakness. E.g. harsh negging tactics meant to lower a girl's sense of self worth so she's more pliable and hence sexually receptive.
I mean seriously dude, how does a girl shit test you so hard within the first 10 seconds of a phone call that you have to call her a hoe? Fuckin' derp.
Not to say that yeah there aren't plenty of girls are in essence screaming to be put in their place, or that want to be made your sex toy, your little fantasy fuck doll.
But y'all play at that shit, you don't walk the talk in real life. You got nothing to offer a woman but emotional tricks and cheap dick.
And so when you step to a girl that's got any sort of self worth going on that shit falls flat on its face and you're left facing the absurdity of your awful intentions, "Uhh.. durrr here let me try to insult you into taking your panties off."
And this isn't some weird, fucked up Rsd liberal "woke bae" type fake fairy nonsense either.
There are some fundamntal skillages and upgrades to be had. Know-how and proficiency that cancels out the need to be a cunt. Or to get treated like one lol.
That's ^ a bit of a peak there ^. (see what I did there)
Anyway, if you want real training and guidance, shit that will put you in the zone, start saving up for my coaching program. I'd train ya. You've demonstrated a lot of perseverance, put yourself out there in a big way, received criticism appropriately, made your own points and tried to hold your own, etc. Those are all telltale signs of an aspiring and successful student. Clearly you've got drive and stamina, and that's all fine and dandy, panda. But mayhaps it's time for a lil kungfu
I can learn all of that, in 3 months?
Yep, usually. A lot more actually
You? Would kill it.
Unless you end up being a plant either from some other so-called dating company, or some media institution doing dig work. At which time I would kill it.
I don't know what that means but if you're trying to say I have potential and that I would kill it with your training, I'm quite flattered.
I’m only about half way into training and i can vouch for the fact that those topics are directly addressed. They are also done so in a digestible way that give you actual things to practice each day / week so you show improvement in each area
Ya mang .... time to revamp and upgrade who you are. The learning doesn't stop at the 3 month mark either lol. You'll make a fuck ton of progress during those 3 months.... but the crazy part is that's just the beginning.
Ask Meow, Niv, Daddyjihad ... all of them made a ton progress, but then made even more progress even after training lol.
Save up man ... I wish I had done this 5-6 years ago instead of having just now taking the training... would've shaved so many years off the learning curve for me. You'll enjoy it dude, it's a really fun process and before you know it, you don't really recognize yourself anymore (in a good way) haha.
Not just for game either, but for life. Truly working on yourself and all of the deep down conditioned bullshit we have dragged around with us like an ankle shackle for our entire lives is one of the most rewarding feelings ever.
Yes both these guys are active members in the program lol. Even though Aquitas has been posting on here for years and years
I think we should start having another podcast/teleconference if you want Aquitas. I bet it would rock now
I’m super down.
I have some cool girls who would be down to hop on too. I think it’d be really fun.
What kind of podcast did you guys have going?
I've had a couple shows over the years, first one with Brian P. the dude who made Pandora's Box, another one with Jessica Vajayjay a female dating coach. Had a few forum teleconference calls as well but the guys never really contributed much and I'd get bored lol
Aequitas and I were recently talking about doing a one-off conference.
MW, see you've been training some new guys that would be a good sit-in as well
Slick here's the first ep we did without J
Totally cool if you guys do a "game" teleconference but keep all links and details for it on the forum. And any linking you do outside the forum make sure it routes back here.