MW, can you discuss your car pull game and giving her a sense of security
I am referring to this article above, you mention that you carefully calculate your game so the girl feels like she "has a way out" if she chooses.
I have been trying to pull a lot in my car lately. I just got back from a tinder date, this chick drove 45 min in a snow storm to see me lol! My car was snowed in so she picked me up. We ended up going to walmart to buy ice cream haha. When we got back in the car I escalated and was about to take my dick out and she LMR'd. I started prizing myself and asked her if she really thought she could handle my dick anyhow, well she said " yes :)" and then corrected herself with a "maybe not "because she didn't want to be a slut. We got in this back and forth prizing diologue and I wasn't sure if taking my cock out was too aggressive of a move so I didn't do it. This was a toss up because it was clear that she was on the fence about the whole situation, totally turned on but logically stuck in anti-slut mode as well. I did not know how to express that I was going to take my dick out, BUT she had a choice to do whatever she wanted with it.
You need to supply more information dude. You said she "lmr'd", wtf does that even mean. Until you qualify your statement you can't expect a proper response from me. Otherwise you're just trying to get me to give you blanket permission to whip your dick out on a girl any time you feel like it. Uhh pff no thanks buddy.
So you took her to Wal-Mart then tried to fuck her in the parking lot. That was your "date"? Did you have any indication that that was the direction things were going in? Or did you just try to dick wing it out of the blue.
My bad I was trying to make it as short hand as possible, that was stupid!
We planned on going to grab a coffee but everything was closed so we decided to go people watch in walmart and grab a pint of ice cream! We were making out in wal-mart and it was obviously a very exciting experience for her, she just got out of a 5 year relationship. We got in the car and there was a lot of sexual tension so I told her that I wanted to see if she tasted as delicious as the ice cream. She starts making out HARD almost jumps into the passenger seat with me, then pulls away even harder. She starts with some objections about it being the first date, being in a parking lot, blah blah blah.
I start playfully prizing my dick, "you're just a lil girl not sure if you could handle it anyways." She tells me that she can handle my dick and her eyes light up, then I go to take my dick out and she looks down and says "ughhh maybe not actually." We go into this back and forth diologue where she is almost accusing me of being a player, then immediately apologizing. Meanwhile, I am disqualifiying her as a weirdo that kidnapped me and brought me to walmart to seduce me. She gets turned on and we kiss again but she pulls away again. She makes a comment that if my dick comes out we will have to have sex and she's not sure about that on a first date. I tell her that she can't have sex with me anyways because i'm a virgin. Throughtout this entire diologue she was getting turned on and expressing that she wanted to fuck me, yet she was talking herself out of it at the moment. She even commented how hot and cold this interaction was!
We chllled out for a bit afterwards and my belt was undone and my shirt kept on popping up a bit because I was reclined in her seat just hanging. She kept on fixing my shirt claiming that I was distracted her, this was an excuse for her to lean over and touch me. I told her to fix my belt and she said she couldn't because then things would turn sexual. She was sexually baiting me then holding herself back. I knew that I was the the one that had to take things to the next level, but I felt that she might freak out big time if my dick came out. Is there a way to make the dick less of a big deal? I have no problem with not having sex if a girl isn't ready but I would like to have some fun at the very least :). I remember Bateman went through a phase where he wasn't great at first date lays but he was getting blowjobs/handjobs at the very least.
She kept on trying to qualify herself on the way home too! Telling me she's not lame and that she's hooked up in a library before or something lol.
Okay, I just took some time to think about my last tinder lay.
I did not modulate my physicalness and verbals together properly here. After the LMR, we pulled away from each other and were speaking from a distance (as far as you can get in a car.) The right way to do some dynamite foreplay escalation is to continue to smooch her and speak in her ear while still escalating!
Ok yeah now that you've spelled out the whole thing yes you were just being a faggot. ;) Lol
ahhhhh fuck me!! still interested in your car game though.
Oh I'm sure you are. Every motherfucker is