MW, do you filter girls out by asking girls to come over?
So I had a date with this chick yesterday, I'm pretty sure I was the coolest guy she was ever in a date with.
We met in a subway (I usually meet there because it makes it easy for girls to show up as everybody uses the subway in my city), then I took her to a bar for icecream (half away from the sub and my house). Spend 1 hour or so there, we had some fun and I did some physical rapport alex style escalation. Then I take her to another place to eat something (even closer to my house), I try to makeout with her on the way there (usually works 90% of the time), she giggly denies, one the way there she is like 'where are you taking me, I might have to go home and study', I'm pretty sure she likes me quite a bit but she is the conservative type. We get there and spend another hour, then I take her to see "some cool grafitti" (that is almost in the door of my building), I'm 100% sure if i say "lets go to my apartament" she will refuse, again I got the conservative vibes from this one. We get there and see it then I say lets play some mini golf (I mentioned I play mini golf in my apartament). She refuses to enter my building says she "doesn't trust people". Mind you, I felt that I was running pretty solid game the whole time, I was just feeling great and said a lot of gold and funny shit
This is not the first time this has happened to me either, sometimes I was able to pull it off, somehow get these girls into my apartament and defuse the LMR but usually afterwards they don't hang out with my again even though they engage me in txt, etc. I suspect they just feel too slutty.
My question is are you 90% close rate dudes filtering out these chicks by asking them to come over or going to their place? My game is not super great or anything but I feel like there is no man on earth that could have laid this chick in the first date. I seem to attract these conservative types like moths to flames lol, maybe I need to filter them out so I don't waste my time
Your game sounds soulless and robotic. What is alex escalation? You need to read some of my lay reports
I think you should worry more about how she feels about you rather than whether you should filter her or not. Imagine a 250 lb gay man you just met inviting you up to his apartment. Would you do it?
You were looking to her for signs that you could take her back instead of just assuming it. You dont see yourself as someone who can fuck girls on the first date so they all feel the same way. Be more awesome
She didn't immediately orgasm during your Alex style escalation sequence routine? What the fuck
^ Lol. No seriously.. Alex doesn't really do physical escalation. So super curious what you're talking about. In fact his escalation sucks dick
^ Lol. No seriously.. Alex doesn't really do physical escalation. So super curious what you're talking about. In fact his escalation sucks dick
He has an article called Physical Rapport. He also put out a 90 minute video on escalation along with his entire method
http://www.rsdnation.com/alexander/blog/natural-instinct-method-here-you
Can you give us the cliff notes. Or at least what the whole thing meant to you.
Can you give us the cliff notes. Or at least what the whole thing meant to you.
its a less intense sort of escalation, he recommends stuff like handshakes, hugs, jewlery inspection, being close to each other, grabbing her hand and leading, a soft style claw (for cold approach)