MW Drills Aren't Just For Tha Ladiezz, They Are For All Aspects Of Life

I had just recently touched base with MW on doing some sessions because I've been dealing with some family issues that have broke me down a bit. I am human in a process to better myself, and am presented with these obstacles for a reason. So the story goes like this:

I have been doing the drill on my father whenever he would do something to intentionally poke at me. I did it EXACTLY the way you told me to do it. Basically showing that I am the EVALUATOR. He did not like one bit of it. He would make comments walking off more the more I did it (I would only do it when he would intentionally poke me) and eventually it blew up yesterday that he threw a tantrum about how I was evaluating him. He would say I was looking down at him. Basically describing the dynamic I would create and how he did not like it. So this continued for basically a couple of hours going off on my mom and saying how she influences my actions. My mom would try to end the fight (and pacify my father) by trying to get me to admit I am wrong. I know one would think my ego is involved in this situation, but I knew if I were to give in, my father would continue to have blowouts like this and he would believe it's ok. Soon after my father comes upstairs and my brother is defending me because he knows how my father has been acting has caused some unneeded tension in the house. Eventually my dad goes and picks on my brother's recent depression and talking about how he is suicidal. My brother goes off and says "I'd rather kill myself than be around you". That drew my mothers line and basically she realized that my dad is being an emotional baby. A lot of bs goes on and my dad walks out of the house for a good 20 minutes. I was pretty pissed for some time. I really wanted to move out. So i channeled these emotions and started writing into my journal. I started to think to myself, if I move out, I am running away from my problems the same way my father does. It won't solve anything. The only way to deal with this as a man is to fix the problem head on as a leader. So I go up and talk to my brother about what went down. This is were the drill came in. I started talking him up saying how he has so many things going for him, and opening his eyes to this opportunity we have called life. I didn't even force this. It came so fucken natural I put myself in awe. At that moment I realize what a leader is suppose to be. Not what is written in the forums or in articles I read, but true mother fucken experience. So after this my dad heads back in and we try to talk to him. He gives us some ordeal how he is getting a divorce. It's not true because he has done this in the past when fights like this happened. It's all talk so he feels wanted and chased. I basically talk to him about how this needs to end and we butt heads a little more. I go down into my room and do some drills and clear my head. I come back up and talk to him. He starts to open up about his rough childhood where he had two crazy parents. A lunatic mom who was hyperactive and had screws loose. And a father who only showed anger, even going off on him and giving him 18 stitches. I felt him at that moment and wanted to cry for him. I would usually tell him beforehand he needs therapy but he would always say he is normal. At this moment I inspired him to start meditating. I've mentioned this stuff in the past but at this time my dad actually went on to do it today. My mom even asked to do it. After I spoke to my mom and she was talking to me about myself. She said something along the lines that when I enter a room that I command presence and all eyes come on me. This is a first I ever heard this from my mom. This morning my mom comes into my room again and asks when did I get so intelligent....this was the first time I realized the dynamics in the house have changed and now I've taken lead.

We may have tension and see differently from time to time, but MW's determination and will to see a better, more true me is worth well more than what I pay for. I can't thank you enough for this progress MW.