My Brother - Awesome Game but No Killer Instinct
This is really funny! I just got back home and was chillign with my older brother.
He was recently in germany for a few weeks. I asked him how it was and alluded to girls. He said it was very good in a sort of self indulgent tone implying there was some awesome ass that he ripped up.
Turns out he had three nights where he was lording it at the club. But each and everytime, there was an excuse for why sex didn't happen. I can definitely relate to this mentality. Before coaching with manwhore I was probaly 10x worse than him at this.
It was funny, I basically shot holes in his excuses and told him that he didn't want to fuck these girls. Asked him, why he didn't try to pull right then, why was he letting it drag on? Why did you not try to pull her back to your place or handle logistics? Why did you ask her to come to your hostel, instead of just leading her there?
Why didn't you just try to hook up with her right then and there!!!!
It sounds like I was being a dick, but I did it in a very humorous way and we were all laughing, him, my uncle and myself.
He started to see my perspective. Right now he's drilled into this mentality that girls should be treated like princesses and sex is like a huge deal!!! This is not a productive mindset and it's bullshit.
I told him all these girls are fucking disappointed and went home to fucking masturbate becuase you didn't handle logistics and you didn't express your sexuality and masculinity towards them. Instead you tried to play the role of how you think a guy should treat a girl, and they had to then play there role of not wanting to have sex with a guy quickly....
I gave him teh analogy that his game is fucking great, you're like a fucking running back plowing through the field, juking through the oppossition and then you get to the 60, 80, 90 yard line and then you turn around and start running home.
I know it sound harsh but he was fucking dying of laughter and he started to see that all his excuses were bullshit and of course he wanted to have sex but his mind stopped it from letting it happen. I pulled him into a new reality.
Also mercisly called him a fagola - Zohan style
I really want him to do coaching with John! I know how much of a fucking massive difference it will make!
The probelm is that he broke up with his girlfriend like a year ago but has never really been completely over it. He is still kind of in love with her and is acting gay. He's not trying to meet other girls actively. Instead he's just letting his dating life sag like an 80 year olds tit.
What kind of advice do you have in this situation?
Cut off contact completely to your ex? Or just keep talkign to the ex but fucking man up and meet some other girls.
You definitely wanna start inviting him out to the bars or whenever you go out. You don't have to say you need to meet girls but just have that option.
If he sees you approaching, then he will be more likely to do so. Also, open two sets so he can wing for you. Are you guys competitive?
It sounds like you really helped hiim make the shift. You did it with humor and guy logic. Killer, very awesome.
I'd hit him up in a couple days and bring up some sex story you had where you banged some hottie. Maybe show him a pic or two ;)
Then you can tell him a couple days later that there might possibly be a coach out there that train guys in stuff like this LOL.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
It sounds like you really helped hiim make the shift. You did it with humor and guy logic. Killer, very awesome.I'd hit him up in a couple days and bring up some sex story you had where you banged some hottie. Maybe show him a pic or two ;)
Then you can tell him a couple days later that there might possibly be a coach out there that train guys in stuff like this LOL.
Planting seeds lol
It sounds like you really helped hiim make the shift. You did it with humor and guy logic. Killer, very awesome.I'd hit him up in a couple days and bring up some sex story you had where you banged some hottie. Maybe show him a pic or two ;)
Then you can tell him a couple days later that there might possibly be a coach out there that train guys in stuff like this LOL.
Yeah good call!
I think I may tell him that I actaully hired a coach for this stuff, that way he's a lot more open to it. And I'm very transparent to him and my family so it doens't really matter to me. Besides, smart people, they value their time like crazy. And they aren't afraid to spend money and admit they could use help in a specific area by reaching out to an expert. In fact, sometimes it's hell of a lot more stupid and expensive to try and figure things out on your own.
He's finishing school in a month so I'm going to literally have to turn him into a lady killer. My youngest brother is 16, I helped him drop a ton of fat and gave him a few lady pointers and now he's slaying it with chicks like a boss. So happy for him ahha. I literally got no action in high school haha. I had one girlfriend for a year but that was about it :(
I"m totally going to bang some of his friends when he's 17/18. No question about it.
Good man!
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Nice thread, any crash course on how to bang sibling's friends :) ?