My dick hurts

Holy shit

Is that the whole psychological thing talking dirty to her or is she just super horny? Don't think I've ever made a girl cum without pounding away at her lol                                           

Well its both. I have a sex-expert friend called Alex Allman (check out his youtube) who would call her a "sexual bungee jumper". Basically the thing standing in the way of girls having super intense orgasms is themselves, having the courage to lose control. This girl is very liberated (and horny), she responds very well to direction and suggestion. Tyler touches on this subject when describing an experience he had of making a girl come for the first time. In his story, he was telling the girl to imagine she lived in a trailer and worked at Wendy's etc. installing the idea that she was trash and had nothing to lose. The girl lets go of her hold of her identity and allows herself to lose control. This is one of the ways I approach sex. Trying to break down any walls of protection and resistance between us, coaxing her to surrender. This girl is already starting from a very willing place, its been pretty unreal how far I have been able to take it. Having an orgasm at the same time as a girl with my cock in her mouth is amazing lol.

So it's basically about finding the ways she's holding herself back and coaxing her through it? I'm seeing one girl who can only cum when she's on top, not sure where I'd start there. I think my dirty talk is pretty good, it's just not tailored to what the girl needs to let loose yet. Like I can help a girl get there pretty quickly by telling her "I want you to cum on my dick while I'm sliding in and out of you baby, it's so hot when you shake as I fuck you" but I feel like theres a deeper level to this. I gonna start trying to make it more personal about her unique areas of resistance and see how that goes.

Damn I love that Tyler story

One thing to watch out for is you don't really want the girl to feel like you're trying to make her come. If that makes any sense. You want to see her come because it gets you off to see a little slut like her writhe in ecstasy on your dick, but you dont really care that much if she does. If she feels like you really care if she comes, she'll feel pressure. Focus instead on taking your pleasure, from her, enjoying the sight of her, the way she feels, smells, sounds.. Be very present and patient with her, tune into her desires, put those feelings into her and ultimately you can feel those feelings through her.

Good thread 

http://orgasmdaily.us/2014/02/slow-pussy-sucking/

Damn that article was sexy

Yeah I'm still going thru it myself lol. Great article

Wish she'd use a different word besides "pussy-sucking" lol

Yeah I agree. A nice "Clit-Tickling" would've made all the difference.

Hahaha

No it's got to correlate better but yeah, that didn't work for me lol.

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