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My journal to Becoming a True ladies man and a Alpha Male

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Hey let me tell you about my self before i get into this Journal. I am 19 years old i had a girlfriend for 6 months broke up with her right before college to hook up with girls ( not a great reason but life to short to care) I am huge into fitness and working out ( have a 6 packs and look pretty strong which helps my confidence) I am in college right now and am very new to the pick up and bar scene. but i want to be a Alpha male and have success with woman. this journal is mainly for me to keep track of my progress of how I'm doing and also so people can help me improve faster. I have a huge social circle with a lot of guy and girl friends so when i go out i see them a lot which shows value but also makes it hard to be with my wing all the time. My Biggest Goal out of this is to be able to have a good time sober or drunk as well as pulling girls and getting strong.

Goals: 1. Go to the bar 5 nights a week and get amazing at picking up girls
2. getting bigger and stronger than i already am
3. maintain a 70 average in school or higher

one thing is don't critic me about my grammar because i don't care and don't give a fuck.

went to the gym did squats and other leg exercises then killed abs felt great before goin out

Night 1 Wednesday - me, my wing and my friend who's a natural are all goin to this awesome college bar

tonight the quality wasn't bad at all the there was more girls then guys which was awesome

at the bar getting beers ( wasn't planning on drinking tn but i cant refuse free drinks). A girl comes and starts chatting to me i was kinda surprised but i talk to her for a bit it doesn't go to far so i just end the convo. first interaction of the night.

my friend just came off a bad break up with his girl so tn i wanted to wing the shit out of him and help him get back on his feet.

approach 2 girls one a 8 other a 6 talk to the 8 find out she has a bf so i move on

my friend see this hotty walking around with her friend but is to nervous to approach her so i said fuck it and did talk to the girl and basically told her my friend think ur attractive but is to nervous to talk to you because he just broke up with his gf the girl came with me to my friend they talked for a while, while i winged him with her friend who didnt want anything to do with me cuz she wanted to leave, they actually were leaving when i grabbed them and pulled them back in hahaha. my friend got her number and was pumped.

i approach this 3 set of girls and it going really well was talking to them about the last thing i did for my friend and the girl was lovin it she was holding my hand the entire time and smiling my wing was with her other 2 friends, i asked her to dance she said she was leaving make sense since they had her coats on. I went for the number, Got it. texted her Ur cute :) no response

approach a couple more girls goes no where

my wing approaches a 2 set of a 8 and a 5 i was to nervous to wing him so i left for a couple minutes then said fuck it walked back and started talking to them stole the 8 of my friend and started to talk to her it went no where ( ran out of thing to talk about)

do more approaches don't really go anywhere then my wing leaves to go home

my and my natural friend and another guy we know head to the Dfloor start to dance these girls come up to us 2 of them are 7 and a 8 and the other a 3 were dancing with them and the 7 starts moving her ass towards me and slowing starts to grind on me a little but before i could decide what to do my natural friend grabbed her hand and moved her to him she grinded with him and i left for a bit i was to nervous and he beat me to it.

basically that all that happened tn few more approaches here and there but not much

positive
got a number
winged well for my friend
had no aa when approaching


improvement
got nervous on Dfloor
didn't lead well
didn't push the interaction forward enough

going out tn will pst back tomorrow
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What's your step by step
What's your step by step process for getting laid. What's your plan. E.g. do you know from any given point, what the next step is with a chick, to take things closer to fucking.
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my step by step goal would be
my step by step goal would be to talk to her for like 3min pull he to dfloor dance get the makeup continue dancing for a bit then lead her to the bar get a drink then back to dfloor than try and pull her home or somewhere i can fuck her..... is that how you would do it as-well
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Ok that's adequate. That's
Ok that's adequate. That's what you need to be doing when you go out. Not floundering around like a tossed salad.
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Thursday night out
did shoulders today upped my max weight

went out to the hottest night club in town got their late because a bunch of my friends also decided they would go their as-well waited an hour in line complete sober while my friends were wasted then, when i got inside i did about 15 approaches between talking to girls and the floor and got rejected by every single one of them i didn't have a great mind set tn and got very frustrated by the end i told my wing i was done for the night after those approaches and left him to hang with my social circle friends it was a brutal night... hopefully tomorrows better.
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camh12 wrote:did shoulders
camh12 wrote:
did shoulders today upped my max weight

went out to the hottest night club in town got their late because a bunch of my friends also decided they would go their as-well waited an hour in line complete sober while my friends were wasted then, when i got inside i did about 15 approaches between talking to girls and the floor and got rejected by every single one of them i didn't have a great mind set tn and got very frustrated by the end i told my wing i was done for the night after those approaches and left him to hang with my social circle friends it was a brutal night... hopefully tomorrows better.


You did good tonight, you approached even though you didn't want to which makes you a champ.
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Take a break if you need to
Take a break if you need to and chill out with your buddies for a bit, don't get so disheartened that you leave, there's no point. You can have a bad night all night, but it only takes one girl...

Also, when you just relax and stop giving a shit your best side comes out.
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Basically last night was a
Basically last night was a write off didn't end up going out becasue somehow i got food poisoning shitty

killed arms yesterday and abs awesome workout

today im hitting a sorority party or a kegger to try and work on some social game but I'm going in a lot less direct than at a bar
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went to the kegger and it was
went to the kegger and it was awesome. i didnt pre drink mainly cuz i didnt have any booze but luckily for me i new the person running the keg so he alway filled my cup up first. hit the dfloor and grinded with this chick for a couple songs but never really tried to go for the make out of anything. then left chatted up this other chick who was in my program for like half an hour then the party got busted so i went back to her res with me and my friend but once inside i couldlnt figure out how to disarm her friend and my friend left by himself so it was just us three. i started to get shy and be alot less touchy and shit and by the end of the night i couldn't see it happen so i left

at the kegger because i knew so many people their and showed such high value i would be chattin with one girl and another would try and steal me it was pretty fuckin awesome hahaha

last night i went to a rave it was amazing didnt pick up or really try their just wanted to have a great time did grind with a chick and another chick gave me a hand job well we were dancing. i was picking girls up and putting them on my shoulders they were lovin it

overall both night were alot of fun.

i need to work out being less and shy and goin for what i want
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unreal night
so i havent posted on this for a little bit now because im been busy with my life but last wednesday i went out to an event called the bunny hop and it was unreal. I got super drunk my confidence must of been though the roof becasue i danced with about 10 girls and made out with 5 of them i could have gone home with 2 of them but for some reason i was having way to much fun bouncing from girl to girl all night. gonna be going out monday night will tell u how it goes
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Getting back at it

So i went out sober tonight, which i havent done for quite a while. it was like relearning how to game. my wing is great going out sober he can go out and have a amazing time and kill it. I was quite nervous tn but still went and approach like 5 sets the only really memerable thing that happened was a girl called me out for being nervous which im going to fix by going out sober alot more, when i get drunk i am very confident and can escalate talk to girls and have a amazing time 

going out tm as well hopfully it goe better

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Better night

went out sober again night went better ... did a few solid sets where i was physical and eye contact and everything went pretty well... the Biggiest issue im having is getting the converstion exciting 

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went out yesterday for canada

went out yesterday for canada day with my friends..... unreal night i was doing well or better 

( when i drink i do bettter trying to kick this) 

talking to woman and getting to come around me 

i was physical but they were not being to physical back.....not sure if thats really a big deal i was leading 

after me and my friends got the hottest girls in the bar to come back to my house but lodgistics were not so it didnt work out well at my house 

so we drove to an after party but by this time the girls wernt feelin it

sticking points 

comming on to strong

maybe be less physical they allow me to move them grab them lead them but they arent really touching grabbing me if you no what i mean 

i think im comming on to needy which i need to kill that!

going out tn sober let see how it goes 

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So went out on wednesday it

So went out on wednesday it didnt go to great got blown out alot 

the girls I wanted to go with left with her friends 

overall wasnt a great night ..... going out tn for 4th of july hope it goes better

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Amazing weekend had lots of

Amazing weekend had lots of fun went to a pre drink on with my friends bunch of hotties there and one ugly girl all from my highschool... great time 

idk i dont really remember to much except for i was chatting up these to russian chicks with my friend my buddy was telling me my body langauge and eye contact was their but the shit i was talking about was unintesting and boring .... not to work on that .

saturday I went out with my friends we ended up getting 7 bottles which i didnt have to pay for one.... my friends are good with girls they know so i went and got a bunch of sexy girls to our table so we could all have girls to talk to...... my issue this night was i was having way to fun talking and not escalting and being man to woman which fucked me over for when i wanted to go home with one of them..... she said i was too much of a Player for her idk if it was cuz i got a bunch of girls to us or i just wasnt socailly calibrated 

gonna go out a bit this week my try and stay sober but it kinda depends on logistics 

I need to get laid Soon its been about 2 months now 

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improvement

so went out friday and saturday my game is slowly getting better 

friday night went to a club frends got bottles again i met this one girl we hit it off really well im really into edm music it seems to be like an amazing thing to talk about with girls cuz most girls love it 

doing good with her showing sexual intent and everything was goin great then after her friend leaving us her friend came back 20 minutes later and said she was leaving and would drive home drunk if the girl i was talking to didnt come.... hahah fucking girls ehh 

saturday.... when out with my friends was going to go to the best club in town but got their too late and there was a 2hr line up so we went to the club beside it which was good approach a few sets of girls talked with them for a bit then i  got into state and found this one girl by talk to her .... she came with 2 guy friends who were chodes and were pumped that got a number from some chick tn hahaha i went along with them pretty good job.... after isolated her starting making out then pulled her to a food place where i thought we were both gonna eat she wasnt hungry so i ate for the sack of it then pulled her to my place ........ it was a good night finally !

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great Weekend  went out on

great Weekend 

went out on friday and saturday 

friday girl from socail circle came over never hung out with just her before .......... closed are it was a easy and great night

saturday a girl i picked out a couple weeks ago came out with me to a party and was super clingy and i knew i was golden went home after in the night and closed are as well