My Learning-to-Text Thread
Wed, 04/03/2013 - 21:45
Per Manwhorse's request:
This is from a girl who I actually pulled home in December but, due to resistance, did not bang. She wouldn't give in that night. And then the next morning when I thought I was getting somewhere, her friends started blowing up her phone.
On Sunday I left where I was living and am staying 40mins from where she lives (from Monday until tomorrow morning).
So first text exchange in a month or so on starting on Tuesday (yesterday) morning.
Me: [Blah blah blah about some yoga class I went to on Monday night.]
Her: It's really weird that you just messaged. You came into my mind for no reason 5 minutes ago.
[We bantered back and forth for much of the day. ]
Me: What's your schedule like today and tomorrow
Her: Today is clear. Tomorrow depends on the time
Me (3:53pm): The universe obviously wants us to meet up
Her (4:14pm): Sure sure
Me (6:45pm): When are you not free tomorrow
Her: You know I live in X, right?
Me: Practically around the corner
Her: I have an 11:15 then yoga from 5:30 to 9:30
Me: I don't know what "an 11:15" means. You don't have to work?
Her: I have an appointment at 1115, lasts two hours usually.
Me: And tonight
Her: Friends are about to pile in for pies. Yes, I made homemade pies. Yes, they're amazing.
Her: My 1115 just canceled.
Me: Is your pie good enough to drive to boulder to eat
Her: It's 9 p.m. and I'm not going to be awake in an hour.
Me: Ok grandma.
Her: You're expecting sex. I just gorged on pie, haven't showered today and am not putting forth that effort. I'm going to keep editing photos, then fall asleep on my besties roommate because he'll let me because he hopes to get laid. :)
Me: Lol that sounds like you sweetie-pie [editors note: She does not like being called "sweet" or any variation of it]
Her: Ha! Dick.
Me: And I was expecting pie
Her: That's not what I'd expect at 10p.m., sweetie pie
Me: Promise to take a shower, save me a piece of pie and I might drive over tomorrow
Her: I'll think about it
Me: Or you could come here. Im sure there's something you need to do here
Her: In Y? Nope. You should come to X
Me: I'll have to think about it
Her: While I eat pie.
I did not respond.
This is from a girl who I actually pulled home in December but, due to resistance, did not bang. She wouldn't give in that night. And then the next morning when I thought I was getting somewhere, her friends started blowing up her phone.
On Sunday I left where I was living and am staying 40mins from where she lives (from Monday until tomorrow morning).
So first text exchange in a month or so on starting on Tuesday (yesterday) morning.
Me: [Blah blah blah about some yoga class I went to on Monday night.]
Her: It's really weird that you just messaged. You came into my mind for no reason 5 minutes ago.
[We bantered back and forth for much of the day. ]
Me: What's your schedule like today and tomorrow
Her: Today is clear. Tomorrow depends on the time
Me (3:53pm): The universe obviously wants us to meet up
Her (4:14pm): Sure sure
Me (6:45pm): When are you not free tomorrow
Her: You know I live in X, right?
Me: Practically around the corner
Her: I have an 11:15 then yoga from 5:30 to 9:30
Me: I don't know what "an 11:15" means. You don't have to work?
Her: I have an appointment at 1115, lasts two hours usually.
Me: And tonight
Her: Friends are about to pile in for pies. Yes, I made homemade pies. Yes, they're amazing.
Her: My 1115 just canceled.
Me: Is your pie good enough to drive to boulder to eat
Her: It's 9 p.m. and I'm not going to be awake in an hour.
Me: Ok grandma.
Her: You're expecting sex. I just gorged on pie, haven't showered today and am not putting forth that effort. I'm going to keep editing photos, then fall asleep on my besties roommate because he'll let me because he hopes to get laid. :)
Me: Lol that sounds like you sweetie-pie [editors note: She does not like being called "sweet" or any variation of it]
Her: Ha! Dick.
Me: And I was expecting pie
Her: That's not what I'd expect at 10p.m., sweetie pie
Me: Promise to take a shower, save me a piece of pie and I might drive over tomorrow
Her: I'll think about it
Me: Or you could come here. Im sure there's something you need to do here
Her: In Y? Nope. You should come to X
Me: I'll have to think about it
Her: While I eat pie.
I did not respond.
Thu, 04/04/2013 - 02:18
#1
Like we discussed.. I reframe
Like we discussed.. I reframe and flip the script when a girl takes things sexual. Per my "Text Example #1" that's in the stickied threads, I play the whole "I'm a virgin, I told my mom I'd be good, don't think you're going to take advantage of me, I'm a giraffe what's that" type stuff.
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Thu, 04/04/2013 - 05:35
#2
Reasoning behind that is
Reasoning behind that is because you don't want to get explicitly sexual with a girl over the phone before you meetup. I only do that with girls I've fucked, usually more than once. You risk her not meeting up because 'reason' for meeting up is sex. If you're in a fuck buddy/boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with the girl than feel free to be more explicit but for girls you're less close with you need to keep it fun and playful.
You can tell her she's in danger or you'll kidnap her or anything that relates dominance but don't take it too far..again nonchalant vibe is what you're aiming for.
You can tell her she's in danger or you'll kidnap her or anything that relates dominance but don't take it too far..again nonchalant vibe is what you're aiming for.
Thu, 04/04/2013 - 05:38
#3
Just read your text
Just read your text thread...you're not setting anything concrete. If you're just bantering with her than that's fine. Once you get her schedule shoot her a reply for a meetup and be detailed about it in the simplest way. You want her to able to read it and show up without ever having to text you again..if she agrees that is. Obviously you keep texting afterwards, but making "by ear" plans will always result in a flake. She needs consistency and dominance..not flippancy (is that a word?).