my situaation and some questions.
hi, i have known the community for agbout 3 years, i came from a very religious background, first i learned to get numbers, then kisses and makeouts, then later i decided i want a gf, since i have had no gfs never, none.
so i sat down and write down the characteristics of my perfect gf, however i havent found it. maybe i have high standars, i become very screener, go figure.
now im seeing that maybe i should become a player, after all some say is fun, havent tried to lay girls at all yet. is woth it?
butt again what if i decide to become a player and along the way i get a fantastic gf, that would be like not accomplishing my goal, very scarcity because i know there are a lot of good girls for me.
im still a virgin, but since i got away from my religion conditioning and all i have done i dont feel like myself a failure, but more like a winner.
so thats it...is hardcore playing worthy?threesomes, 9s and tens etc.
mnaybe i should find for mayself
well thanks for readio9ng, looking forward to meet you and have a good time guys.
ivan.
its just about improving yourself dude, of course its worth it!\
Yes you want to start banging girls as regularly as you can. Until you get some sexual experience under your belt you probably won't be worthy of the girl you actually want to end up dating. Not saying you're not a man, just saying that to hold onto a girl a guy's got to know what fucking's about.
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@Until you get some sexual experience under your belt you probably won't be worthy of the girl you actually want to end up dating.@ never tought about that
thanks
I feel you Ivan. I came from a similar situation. Hardcore catholic. When I was a kid my dad literally made us get up at 5AM to go to church. Every day.
The problem I have is that religion puts so much value on sex, when it really has little value. They teach you (and especially girls) that you lose that value when you have sex.
The polar opposite is the people who make this "PUA" thing all about sex. It's not. That leads down a pretty dark path. I say stay away from that.
It's about improving YOU. I think in addition to your "perfect girl list" you should make a "qualities you would like to see yourself as list". It's almost paranormal how when you're working at the "you" list the "girl" side of it almost happens by itself.