My take on *Sexxxting*
I visulize what I want to do to the girl and what I want her to do to me, and then I text it to her. (girls I've banged before)
It works best when I'm texting her the shit that turns me on, NOT texting her what I think would turn her on.
I've talked to girls about this and it can be a huge let down if a guy is a sexting wizard and creates this amazing fantasy, but then can't deliver. If she's into you, it doesn't take much and you just keep it simple. Also, work on your dick game so you'll last.
I've used this sexting opener with two girls and it worked great, here's one:
Me: You'd fit under my desk
Her: What?
Me: There's room for you on your hands and knees
Her: Do you think you can keep working while I take you in my mouth
Me: I should be focusing on my work but instead I'm looking into your big hazel eyes looking up to me while you've got my hard cock in your mouth, alternating between teasing the tip and taking the whole thing down your throat
Her: I'm sucking just a little bit hard on the tip, then take it out, watch you want it and then take the whole thing until I gag
Sometimes (like with my ex) the girls are fucking amazing and they will tell you in detail their fantasies, what they want you to do to THEM, and stuff they enjoy in bed that you haven't done yet. My ex and I had on exchange that was pages long and went on for days. She came to it several times before coming over and getting it for real. Sexting was like a cheat code to their inner fantasy world.
Other girls aren't so skilled or take a little more, but its fun nonetheless.
One of those girls:
Me: I want to unfold that long body of yours, stretch your arms out, and pin them above your head
Her: You can't get me all hot and bothered right now, I'm at lunch! Lol
Me: I wanna stretch you out, hear you moan as I grip your throat and slide one hand down the front of your pants
Her: Anddddd I'm wet
Gawd I'm having so much fun
Fucking awesome
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
It's little things like this that I intrinsically understand but forget to make explicitly clear when I'm writing.
I visulize what I want to do to the girl and what I want her to do to me, and then I text it to her. (girls I've banged before)It works best when I'm texting her the shit that turns me on, NOT texting her what I think would turn her on.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yea man this is money.
A lot of the time I don't even wait to bang a girl first before sexting anymore. Just always reading where she's at while simultaneously oscillating between moving things forward and knowing when to ease up. I definitely just express myself fully now with no hesitation, and this has actually translated in the bedroom.
I.e. talking about girls gagging on my D/cumming on their face via text has made me realize just how down right dirty a lot of girls enjoy getting. In real life this has translated to me acting with full entitlement and authority to not only cum on girls faces and stuff but making her beg for me to cum on her face. This stuff is powerful and for me helped me understand that chicks fully enjoy this type of shit.
Yea man this is money.A lot of the time I don't even wait to bang a girl first before sexting anymore. Just always reading where she's at while simultaneously oscillating between moving things forward and knowing when to ease up. I definitely just express myself fully now with no hesitation, and this has actually translated in the bedroom.
I.e. talking about girls gagging on my D/cumming on their face via text has made me realize just how down right dirty a lot of girls enjoy getting. In real life this has translated to me acting with full entitlement and authority to not only cum on girls faces and stuff but making her beg for me to cum on her face. This stuff is powerful and for me helped me understand that chicks fully enjoy this type of shit.
Yeah I've been making a point to bring this up in conversation with attractive girls, obvi it helps if its after we've fucked, but I've also brought it up with co-workers and other girls.
They're almost all into the combo of hair pulling, ass slapping, choking, and light bondage. I have found some variation of course, but the one that seems to be not universal is dirty talk. A few of them told me they feel bad if you call them a slut or a whore, even in the context of fucking. Also, dominating them and tossing them around like a rag doll.
I'm not into buttstuff so I didn't ask much about that.
Aequitas wrote:
Yea man this is money.A lot of the time I don't even wait to bang a girl first before sexting anymore. Just always reading where she's at while simultaneously oscillating between moving things forward and knowing when to ease up. I definitely just express myself fully now with no hesitation, and this has actually translated in the bedroom.
I.e. talking about girls gagging on my D/cumming on their face via text has made me realize just how down right dirty a lot of girls enjoy getting. In real life this has translated to me acting with full entitlement and authority to not only cum on girls faces and stuff but making her beg for me to cum on her face. This stuff is powerful and for me helped me understand that chicks fully enjoy this type of shit.
Yeah I've been making a point to bring this up in conversation with attractive girls, obvi it helps if its after we've fucked, but I've also brought it up with co-workers and other girls.
They're almost all into the combo of hair pulling, ass slapping, choking, and light bondage. I have found some variation of course, but the one that seems to be not universal is dirty talk. A few of them told me they feel bad if you call them a slut or a whore, even in the context of fucking. Also, dominating them and tossing them around like a rag doll.
I'm not into buttstuff so I didn't ask much about that.
So yea dirty talking def depends cuz they're always hella worried that you'll judge them. Lol I had a dating app date tonight and this girl was sooooo aloof, I could've sworn she wasn't into it. The whole time we were texting leading up to the meet up ( started texting less than 24 hours ago) she was telling me how I wasn't her type AT ALL and how she likes sensitive guys - my response: wait so if I cry and shit that means I'll get laid?
She put on a "face" for how she wanted me to act and for how she wanted me to perceive her. Once I dropped that line this legit changed her resistance and she just knew I was gonna give her dick. Ended up dirty talking about threesomes and shit before meeting up tonight. Didn't fuck her but I got a BJ and came on her face twice lol. She even texted me once she got home that she's not into casual and there might not be a second date. Simply texted " up to you, no biggie. "
Yeah that's chick logic. Pure and simple. Makes NO sense except in their heads. "I'm not into casual sex so I'm not going to see you ever again because then it'll be casual sex and I'm NOT into that so I'm not going to see you again."
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Yeah that's chick logic. Pure and simple. Makes NO sense except in their heads. "I'm not into casual sex so I'm not going to see you ever again because then it'll be casual sex and I'm NOT into that so I'm not going to see you again."
haha yea. This girl was batshit crazy - artist who paints about her family history and how they owned plantations. The story she's trying to convey is that her family didn't treat slaves THAT bad . . . Lololololol
Fucking love this. I've been doing the same and it's working wonders. I also find it helps with my sense of entitlement and helps with the sense of authority I use to carry myself. Fucking dope.