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ruk
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Hey guys,

Im new here and heard that this is the most awesome forum for text game (and probably many other areas :))

Recently I met a girl on a double date. Was not so good, but we double dated again. I got her number from her friend and texted her.

Me: Hey, its me Daniel !! Sophie gave me your number :D I forgot to ask you last time...

Her: Hey Daniel

Me: What are you doing?

Her: I am still at work, what are you up to?

Me: I am also at work.. What are you up to for today?

Her: Later I will go to my hairdresser and after that I will meet a friend and u??

Me: Wow someone getting ready for her bday ;) which day is your birthday? (when we met she said her bday is next week)

Me: I will go out with a few friends later :)

Her: Haha you remembered it nearly perfectly :-) its on the second of septembre

Her: Have fun later

Me: You never said anything about the day

Me: Show me a picture of your new haircut :)

Her: Ok

Her: But you have to help us first with the bet ? :-) (They have a bet on instagram who gets more like on a picture)

Her: How was your food?

Me: Send me a link to the instagram post (she never sent it to me)

Me: We are still out, but it is very good until now

Her: Sounds good i have to go there as well :-) the place is in XYZ isnt it?

Me: Nearly.. It is in ZYX!

Me: Did you do a pub tour with your friend?

----- Then she answered me this morning:

Her: We only went for a short time to Pizza Hut

Her: :-)

Me: You forgot to sent me my picture ;)

Her: Didnt forget it directly

Me: Is your haircut so bad?

Her: Yes

Guys, as you can probably see the convo is quite bad... Can you please give me some advice what I should answer?

And would you ask her out in the next message?!  Maybe you also have some general advice for me :)

I appreciate every answer :-)

Thank you

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Me: Hey, its me Daniel !!

Me: Hey, its me Daniel !! Sophie gave me your number :D I forgot to ask you last time...

Her: Hey Daniel

Me: What are you doing?

Her: I am still at work, what are you up to?

Me: I am also at work.. What are you up to for today?

^ Terrible. The fact you didn't even have the balls to get her number but got it from a friend instead. Then you double down on the "What are you doing?" is SO value sucking. Clearly you don't have a lot of conversational skills but this is about as fucking boring as it gets. There's no point helping you as even if we write you texts you'll just fuck it up the second you start trying to text yourself. You need conversational skills. You need to understand that texting is simply the written form of conversing. 

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