Need to know my next move, help?
Me: Haha, sneaky :)
Me: It's Brodie by the way
Girl - 1 min later: That I am ;)
Haha
Girl - 39 mins later: By the way
Jacob knows about last night
He brang it up in the car taking me home hahaha
Me - 3 mins later: Oh shit haha. How did that go down?
Girl: He was like
You and fucking Brodie going at it last night
Ad I was like argh fuck hahahah
Me - 3 mins later: Hahahahahahaha, well that could have gone worse.....
Girl - 1 min later: Yeah could of.
He was cool about it so allwell.
He was like I woke up and you two were asleep together and I was like yeah haha
Me - 2 mins later: Oh good :)
Hahaha, yeah that'll do it!
Man that lounge was small
Girl: Oh it really was
I didn't sleep much on it at all
Me - 2 mins later: Me neither :p
Girl - 2 mins later: Haha :)
It was a pretty good night but.
Me - 1 min later: Definitely. Enjoy your sleep :)
Girl - 3 mins later: I havnt really had any haha.
Mum has bacon and eggs. Life's complete haha
Me - 1 min later: You'll probably get it before I do...
Fuck yeah! Love bacon and eggs
Girl: Yeah. I'm thinking about a nap soon.
Same. I'm so happy I came home early
Me - 3 hrs 47 mins later: Did you end up having a nap?
Girl: Yeah I did.
Then I woke up and it was really hot :(
How was the jet skis
Me - 3 mins later: Will that sucks :(
Pretty damn awesome! We had to stop though cause the wind picked up too much....
Are you doing anything later?
Girl - 13 mins later: Awwkay.
Nahh I have nothing planned wbu
Me - 6 mins later: Same.
Wanna come over? We could watch the lion king :D
Girl: I want to but I have motivation
Me: Motivation?
Girl: I don't want to get up haha
Me - 2 mins later: Hahaha, what a terrible excuse :p I have food? Not that I've decided what I'm having for dinner yet....
Girl - 1 min later: It's not even hahaha.
Same
I had tacos for lunch and bacon and eggs for breakfast.
I don't think I'm doing much for dinner I'm so full.
Me - 3 mins later: Don't make me come over and drag you out :p I'll do it.
Jeez, good effort haha. I think ive had a maccas meal and a ham sandwich all day...
Girl: I'll get up soon haha.
Maccas is rank.
Me - 1 min later: Good luck ;)
It was pretty bad, but they were the only thing open.... I was desperate
Girl - 2 mins later: Yeah good point.
I'm getting there slowly. I still have family here
Me - 4 mins later: Awk, fair enough :)
Girl - 9 mins later: Yeah.
What are you doing tomorrow??
Me - 8 mins later: Nothing planned.... Why?
Girl: Because if I can't make it out today I'll come over tomorrow before work
Me - 1 min later: Yeah ok, sounds good
Girl - 2 mins later: I don't start till 5 tomorrow and I have nothing planned throughout the day
Me - 2 mins later: Well then that works :)
Girl: Yep. I'll just leave my work stuff in the car and go straight from you're place.
Me - 1 min later: Awesome. I finish at 8am, so anytime after that is fine
Girl - 1 min later: I won't get out of bed untill like 10 ish haha.
I'll text you when I get up.
Me: Haha ok, no problem.
Girl: What are we going to do all day?
Me - 7 mins later: That is a great question. Any ideas?
Girl: Other than have a movie day I don't know haha.
Me - 1 min later: I do have a lot of movies... Guess we'll go with that for now.
What kind of movies do you like?
Girl: I'll pretty much watch anything. I never pick the movie haha
Me - 1 min later: Oh great, Ihate having to pick the movie. This will be interesting haha
Girl: Haha that it will be.
Me - 16 mins later: Have you seen mean girls?
Girl: Everyone has seen mean girls.
Me - 2 mins later: I've met people that haven't.... We didn't stay friends for very long.
Girl: Haha. It is the most quotable movie on the planet.
And step brothers is aswell
Me - 1 min later: Omg yes! And Anchorman. Fucking kove that movie.
Me: Love*
Girl: I watched anchorman. But I fell asleep and I don't remember any of it hahaha
Me: :O
Guess we know which movie is first tomorrow! Haha
Girl: Honnest question but. Are we even going to watch it hahaha
Me - 5 mins later: Since you asked, probably not.... It's good to keep a little mystery though. You never know, you might really like the movie :)
Girl - 1 min later: Haha didn't think so.
Oh I'm sure haha
Me - 37 mins later: Glad we cleared that up!
Girl - 1 min later: Aww yeah haha
Girl - 38 mins later: I just made the best bowl of nachos this planet has ever seen
Me - 1 min later: That's a pretty big claim. What makes it so great?
Girl: I made it haha
Me - 2 mins later: Love the humility haha.
Girl: They were amazeballs
Me: You've eaten them already? Holy shit, you don't mess around haha
Girl: When they are that good there is no mucking around
Me: Did you even chew? Or just swallow them down like a bird
Girl - 4 mins later: Haha ofcourse I chewed them. Or the chips would get stuck. No bird could down All that haha
Me - 2 hrs 11 mins later: Good to hear :)
Girl: Took you a little while to reply.
Me: Yeah I may have fallen asleep...
Me - 1 min later: We aren't all lucky enough to have been able to sleep all day :p
Girl - 1 min later: Aww really.
I actually didn't. I slept a little earlier but it wasn't for too long.
Me - 6 mins later: Yak ok, I'll let you go this time then..
Girl: That's what I imagined :)
What are you up to.
Me - 8 mins later: Well now I can't sleep haha, so I'll probably play with the footage from today and see how it goes.
What are you up to?
Girl - 2 mins later: Neither can I.
Laying in bed. I'm pretty bored.
Me - 10 mins later: I'm thinking of going for a swim, you're welcome to join me. Clothing optional.
Me: I think that came across creepier than I intended.
Girl: I would love to join you.
But I think my mother would be a little curious if I was to leave this late haha
Me - 1 min later: Aw really, that's a bummer...
Me - 3 mins later: Going for a late night swim with a friend is a perfectly good reason to leave the house.
Girl: My parents arnt stupid haha
Me - 1 min later: Aww ok, fair enough. In that case I've got nothing haha
Girl: Yeah. They make everything difficult
Me - 9 mins later: That is true....
Girl - 4 mins later: Allwell.
I'm going to try and get some sleep.
I shall see you tomorrow?
Goodnight xx
Me - 1 min later: You certainly shall.
Night xx
Me - 10 hrs 37 mins later: Morning :)
Girl - 1 hr 58 mins later: Morning :)
Me - 10 mins later: Jeez, nice effort haha.
Girl: Told you I wouldn't get up till late.
Me - 1 min later: Yeah, that's quite impressive haha
Girl: Nahh this is normal.
Me - 1 min later: I'm actually a little jealous. I got two hours last night.
Girl: What. That's crazy.
I'd be so cranky if that was me.
Me: I probably will be tonight :p but for now I feel pretty good.
Girl - 2 mins later: Well aslong as you're alright now.
Me - 2 mins later: Yeah I'm good now.
Girl: That's alright then :)
Me - 3 mins later: Did you still want to come over?
Girl: Yeah. I've just got to have a shower and make my brother some breakfast and I'll be there
Me - 1 min later: No worries. I'm still at the gym, I'll be home in about 40 minutes
Girl - 1 min later: Okay all good.
Me - 1 hr 11 mins later: You know where I live right? I'm the last house on the left, where the tar stops.
Girl - 18 mins later: I've got stuck taking care of my brother. I'm sorry. I was looking forward to it
Me - 3 mins later: Oh ok, that's cool. Another time maybe?
Girl - 13 mins later: Yeah ofcourse.
Me - 3 hrs 53 mins later: Are you doing anything tomorrow night? If you want we could go see a movie or get dinner or something?
Me - 2 hrs 10 mins later: Actually nevermind, I won't finish work until 5.
Girl - 24 mins later: And I start work at 5 tomorrow.
I can come see you for a while when I finish tomorrow or on Saturday afternoon
Me - 1 min later: Yeah ok, either way.
Girl - 17 mins later: Well it's up to you when. :)
Me - 3 hrs 31 mins later: What time do you finish work tomorrow?
Girl - 2 mins later: 8
Me - 1 min later: Ohk, wanna come over on your way home?
Girl - 1 min later: Yeah.
Or on Sunday I finish at 2
Girl: Saturday *****
Me - 1 min later: Which would you rather? I start at 5 on saturday.
Girl: I'm just going to be super cranky tomorrow that's all
Me - 4 mins later: It's up to you, I really don't mind either way. Just let me know what you would rather.
Girl - 1 min later: I just have to get up early and bake and I'm currently sleeping on my lounge room floor because it's too hot for life in my room haha
Me - 4 mins later: That sucks :( I have air con in my room, you're welcome to come for a sleepover.
Me: And I don't even mean that in a seedy way
Girl - 1 min later: I have aircon in my room too but it's not working :(
My arrangement of pillows keeps moving. And then I end up on the floor :(
Me - 5 mins later: Well that's no good :(
Girl - 5 mins later: I know. It's so hard
Me - 2 mins later: Is it still hot outside?
Girl - 6 mins later: I don't know but it is in my room
Me - 24 mins later: Buggerrr.
Me - 10 hrs 8 mins later: Morning :) so did we decide what's happening tonight?
Girl - 1 hr 4 mins later: Morning.
Dad wants me to come straight home tonight
So it will have to be tomorrow
Me - 5 mins later: No problem :)
Me - 9 mins later: I'm starting to think it was the alcohol talking the other night and not you haha.
Girl - 29 mins later: Haha what
Me - 50 mins later: Haha nevermind, I'm just stirring :p
Girl: I was so confused hahaha.
Me - 1 min later: I was suggesting that you're avoiding coming over. Haha it's all good.
Me - 3 mins later: What have you been up to?
Girl - 25 mins later: Oh hahaha.
Nahh.
Baby sitting my brother. It's pretty boring. Made brownies and he ate them all :/
Me - 10 mins later: Aww what a great sister you are :) I wish my siblings would make me brownies! Haha
Girl - 2 mins later: Haha
My brothers would never do it for me :(
Me - 20 mins later: Well that sucks. I'm sure you could make them?
Girl - 2 mins later: Nahh they suck at cooking
Me: Ahh fair enough. Probably safer not to then haha
Me - 1 day later: Have fun at work? :)
Me - 7 hrs 31 mins later: Hey I have to ask, is everything ok? I hope I'm not coming on too strong, but I had a great time the other night, I thought you did too. If you've changed your mind that's cool, just let me know.
Girl: Fuck I'm sorry.
I had to stay back at work and I completely forgot :/
Me - 11 mins later: Lol all good. Shit happens.
I'm gonna go to the movies tomorrow, do you want to come?
Girl - 1 min later: I have to work again tomorrow :(
Me - 1 min later: Aww that's poo. You must be rolling in it haha.
Girl: Sadly not :(
Me - 3 mins later: That sucks :(
Me - 3 mins later: We should def hang out soon though yeah?
Girl - 3 mins later: If I have the chance. I'm busy all week :( everything sucks.
Me - 6 mins later: Yeah I know what you know. All good, just let me know. :)
Me - 15 mins later: Know what you mean*
Girl: I shall :)
It seems to me like she was interested, but she got bored when we didn't get to meet up. Am I accurate in my assumption? If so is it possible to bring her back :/ I really don't like talking through text for extended periods of time...
Yeah you completely fucked this one up with some horrible text game.
You basically let her know that youre not capable of giving her an orgasm so she dropped you.
I would not text her for a few weeks. In that time you can work hard on your text game so when you re-engage 3 weeks time you wont fuck it up again.
So that's it, all over? I was thinking maybe leave it a few days then try and start fresh. I know how to work it, I just choked big time before haha.
Woops just got your reply. Cheers, will do.
Holmes this is crazy you totally had everything going for you here, she was chasing you to meet up, then you killed attraction by acting butthurt about it not happening yet. Crazy. Her attraction took a shit on the spot.
You also weren't working hard enough to just make it work. When she gave you an excuse it was just a shit test. Stuck with her brother? Tell her to hang him in the closet till she gets back, tell her to make him watch Twilight until he sparkles in the sunlight.
The whole "I don't really care either way" is NOT the way to go in instances like this. It really never is but in this case it just kind of put a damper on the whole thing
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
A few things
Your texting is very very boring and flat.
Youre not stepping up and making solid plans. You would constantly put the ball in her court and women HATE that shit. eg. she asks you what you guys will be doing all day and you respond by saying "That is a great question, any ideas?" Thats some super weak shit.
Youre backing down everytime you make a ballsy move eg. you said to come for a late night swim and clothing is optional. then immediately sent a text saying you hope that doesnt seem creepy. Woman also hate that shit and you come across as having no balls.
Then at the end you start sooking and caling her out for not coming to see you. That was definitely your biggest mistake among alot of bad ones and probably what ultimately killed your chances.
Yeah I had that coming. I was too afraid of messing it up. So if I wait a while and try again for a meet-up, will it be all good?
Impossible to say homie
Ok what if I send her this tomorrow.
"Saturday night, 8:30pm. You, me, (home town) cinema. Surely you won't be busy then?"
Didnt she just say shes busy all week? Id give this chick some space for a while and hit her up in a few weeks.
Also never say stuff like "surely you wont be busy then"
Yeah true, I thought maybe that could be a blow-off. Few weeks it is. Thanks for the help.
Oh yah it was totally a blow off haha. Its different to a shit test.
She basically lost her attraction for you and its going to be damn hard for you to recover it over txt with your current level of txt game. Thats why I think your only option is to give her a bit of space.
There's achance she might re-engage you before you re-engage her. Don't go back to your scarcity paradigm when this happens. Keep it cool but also push for the meet in a genuine fashion. Also, use less questions.
In addition to what everyone else said, there's just far too much texting going on. My text game is much better but even now I try to keep it at a minimum so I don't make mistakes. Better to err on the side of being mysterious. Also, even when you had the meet up nailed down you kept talking to her and the followed up in the AM to make sure she was still coming. Better if you do it through a statement (I'm gonna be 15 minutes late.) instead of a question (hey, are we still on?)
You guys giving advice in this thread are champs. Awesome
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I agree, you guys are legends. I'm actually beginning to feel confident about this working out now
I agree, you guys are legends. I'm actually beginning to feel confident about this working out now
that's great and all but in the mean time, text more girls! Start living through that abundance mentality now so when the girls you do want are available, it will all come naturally.
Just wait a couple days and be like, "Holy shit. I'm going to get a pet monkey"
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Even if i'm not that interested G-money? I've had a fair bit of success lately, but this girl is one I'm actually really interested in. Which I think is why I choked so bad.
I like the idea of that mentality though.
Haha MW, that works?
Ofcourse it will work, it might not for you but there is no one way. It will not matter that much what is your ''first'' opener what you send cos the next texts are gonna be all you, your mindset is the KKKEEYY mate.
Unless you pay someone to do the texting for you. You feelin me brodie?
See the mindset behind the text more and make it fit your personality if you are doubting that particular set of letters and make it your own.