New to this, any advice?
Sat, 10/20/2012 - 22:17
Basically my friends are pressuring me into getting this girl so i would rather not fuck this one up. Ill just give a quick backstory on everything.
I think 3-4 weeks go i met her first in the cafeteria line , I have a of friends in the most popular sorority on campus and i remember her being with some of them once so i just simply started the convo by asking if she was in blah blah blah. She said yes then suprisingly said "Your AestheticBrah arent you?" I then said yes and asked how she knew my name. (I have no facebook or twitter ect). She responded saying my friend (also her roommate and in her sorority) -insert name- talks a lot about you. I asked if she saying postive things and she said yeah very good things. I then got her name and said it was nice to meet her as the two girls i was talking to prior broke up the convo and i had to leave and that was it. I should also note that her friend that she said talked about me a lot is probably the most popular girl on campus. Shes the student body president, just won homecoming queen and is hot as ****.
Now last week saturday im at the homecoming party and saw her i said hey she said hi and i hugged her. After that I made no contact of any sort with her for almost 2 hours then all of a sudden while i was playing beer pong she walks up to me and says "I have a big big serious question to ask you" (exact words word for word." So I asked what it is and at the same time another sorority friend butt in and started talking to her introducing her boyfriend to her. After that convo i asked what was it she wanted to ask me then she started to blush and smile (so she obviously did remember) and say "Im sorry i dont remember!"
So whater the night went on until the party got busted by cops and everyone fled. A small group of us went to another girls house (like 10 of us total 5 guys and 5 girls) And somehwo she ends up there. Wont go into too much detail about everything there since i have already typed a lot but she ws my beer pong parter and she was getting really physical with me hugging me everytime i made a shot, wrapping her arm around me holding me and stuff and we talked lot but nothing happened. Saw her on monday on campus she hugged me asked me when i got up the next morning blah blah and we exchange numbers.
Text her on monday with "hey there!" sinc ei didnt want to overcomplicate things with the first text and got no response. THen saw her on campus the same day and was just gonna ignore her but she said heyy and initiated the hug so i did and she then said i saw text 4 hours later after shegot up from a nap. and said shes so sorry (shes very apolagetic im noticing). I just said it was no big deal dont worry about it.
Texted her friday morning with:
Me: Just saw something that reminded me of you
Her: Lol whats that? (18 min later)
Me: It had the prettiest, most innocent eyes ever! You'd need to see a pic :) (31 min later)
(Thought about going with "A bum lying on the street... ;)" here but couldnt make up my mind and eventually went with that feeling regret right after but guess it didnt turn out too bad)
Her: Your such a doll lol i need to see a pic! (3 hours and 28 min later)
Yeah after the long time it took for that reply i just didnt even respond after.
I want to meet up with her but at the same time the problem i have right now is that i have the flu bad. Coughing my guts out every 3 seconds, runny nose, sore throat. Even worse now woke up this morning with my voice almost comepletly gone. Was over at my friends room last night who is next door to her and he was outside the room bouncing basketball and told me she just walked of her room with roommate and went to the convenience store which is right next to us too and then went back to their room after. Said they were in sweats so they werent out that night which was good since that meant she wasnt somewhere partying but sucks since i should have capitalzied on that
Okay long ass text but i just wanted you to get the background of everything to know exactly where i stand. I basically want to keep attraction and her interest while stalling till my flu goes away s i can meet up with her and i need help doing that
Thanks a lot in advance
I think 3-4 weeks go i met her first in the cafeteria line , I have a of friends in the most popular sorority on campus and i remember her being with some of them once so i just simply started the convo by asking if she was in blah blah blah. She said yes then suprisingly said "Your AestheticBrah arent you?" I then said yes and asked how she knew my name. (I have no facebook or twitter ect). She responded saying my friend (also her roommate and in her sorority) -insert name- talks a lot about you. I asked if she saying postive things and she said yeah very good things. I then got her name and said it was nice to meet her as the two girls i was talking to prior broke up the convo and i had to leave and that was it. I should also note that her friend that she said talked about me a lot is probably the most popular girl on campus. Shes the student body president, just won homecoming queen and is hot as ****.
Now last week saturday im at the homecoming party and saw her i said hey she said hi and i hugged her. After that I made no contact of any sort with her for almost 2 hours then all of a sudden while i was playing beer pong she walks up to me and says "I have a big big serious question to ask you" (exact words word for word." So I asked what it is and at the same time another sorority friend butt in and started talking to her introducing her boyfriend to her. After that convo i asked what was it she wanted to ask me then she started to blush and smile (so she obviously did remember) and say "Im sorry i dont remember!"
So whater the night went on until the party got busted by cops and everyone fled. A small group of us went to another girls house (like 10 of us total 5 guys and 5 girls) And somehwo she ends up there. Wont go into too much detail about everything there since i have already typed a lot but she ws my beer pong parter and she was getting really physical with me hugging me everytime i made a shot, wrapping her arm around me holding me and stuff and we talked lot but nothing happened. Saw her on monday on campus she hugged me asked me when i got up the next morning blah blah and we exchange numbers.
Text her on monday with "hey there!" sinc ei didnt want to overcomplicate things with the first text and got no response. THen saw her on campus the same day and was just gonna ignore her but she said heyy and initiated the hug so i did and she then said i saw text 4 hours later after shegot up from a nap. and said shes so sorry (shes very apolagetic im noticing). I just said it was no big deal dont worry about it.
Texted her friday morning with:
Me: Just saw something that reminded me of you
Her: Lol whats that? (18 min later)
Me: It had the prettiest, most innocent eyes ever! You'd need to see a pic :) (31 min later)
(Thought about going with "A bum lying on the street... ;)" here but couldnt make up my mind and eventually went with that feeling regret right after but guess it didnt turn out too bad)
Her: Your such a doll lol i need to see a pic! (3 hours and 28 min later)
Yeah after the long time it took for that reply i just didnt even respond after.
I want to meet up with her but at the same time the problem i have right now is that i have the flu bad. Coughing my guts out every 3 seconds, runny nose, sore throat. Even worse now woke up this morning with my voice almost comepletly gone. Was over at my friends room last night who is next door to her and he was outside the room bouncing basketball and told me she just walked of her room with roommate and went to the convenience store which is right next to us too and then went back to their room after. Said they were in sweats so they werent out that night which was good since that meant she wasnt somewhere partying but sucks since i should have capitalzied on that
Okay long ass text but i just wanted you to get the background of everything to know exactly where i stand. I basically want to keep attraction and her interest while stalling till my flu goes away s i can meet up with her and i need help doing that
Thanks a lot in advance
Sat, 10/20/2012 - 23:49
#1
Re: New to this, any advice?
Well working with what you got here, you need to just tell her to meet up with you for ice cream. Drink a beer beforehand to settle your nerves.
Just shoot her a text like "I'm sick as a dog. Think I contracted something from my beerpong partner. She owes me ice cream when I get better"
Just shoot her a text like "I'm sick as a dog. Think I contracted something from my beerpong partner. She owes me ice cream when I get better"
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Sun, 10/21/2012 - 00:50
#2
Re: New to this, any advice?
Sent the exact same text changing ice cream to coffe and she replied 15 min later saying "Ahh shit ill get you two! Im so sorry :("
All the im sorry is starting to annoy me tho lol.
All the im sorry is starting to annoy me tho lol.
Sun, 10/21/2012 - 01:09
#3
Re: New to this, any advice?
What are you talking about. You don't even have the balls to get a girl that likes you, and you're tripping over a girl saying she's sorry?
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