New girl + Running business
Hi guys,
I got out of a 2yr relationship about 6 months ago, I learned alot about women, also I started a couple of busines ventures while i was in a relationship so It was a growing experience for me.
For the next 6 months I was just playing the field, getting my man juice all over multiple females until at some point it became boring jumping from one female to the next. I saw a decreased in my ability to concentrate, I was drinking and smoking more, overall I was spending more money and time hanging out with so many girls different days that I was literally losing money instead of making it.
Now about 2 or 3 months ago, I've been seeing this girl that I have good chemistry with, we went to a couple of raves, did some fun party type stuff and obviously destroyed each others genitals almost weekly. Here is my predicament, now that we have this sex bond established, I see my self craving her constantly but i don't bring it out too much bc that's weak sauce af.
So now my question is I know I'm becoming more attached to this chick because of all the sex and time we spend together, i've decided just to work focus on my business, workout and spend time with her which is fine with me.(see her as a potential gf). She is not the most expressing type of gal, or lovey dovey person, or even a good texter but whenever we meet we always get along and talk for hours.
Question is:
Should i leave her and just focus on business 24/7?
Am i being a needy bitch?
Judge me hard pls.
You're not being a needy bitch but you're acting scared. If you connect with a girl really well, what's the harm in wanting to see her? If you guys are meshing that well she's feeling the same way. Let it happen man. Ofcourse don't let your priorities slack like business and health but you should have no problem managing that with a new girl on the side.
What makes you see her as relationship material? More so than talking long for hours. Hows the intimacy? How do you two interact in public and amongst your friends together? Whats the current status of your relationship with her? Fuck buddies? Open relationship?
Give us more details on this girl and yourself.
Also, are you open for a relationship right now? And are you still banging other hunneys out there?
Answer these yo - We gotchu here
Lulz at the last part :D
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Well I'll tell you what mang, it sounds like you're doing quite well so happy for you in that regard. As far as this particular situation I think you should just play it out but keep your options open. If you meet a girl that makes you want to fuck her, do it, otherwise just have fun with this girl. But I don't think you should move in with her or anything. Clearly she's not quite hitting on all levels, lol.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Btw Chris, where's your MW training review?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
What makes you see her as relationship material? More so than talking long for hours. - She's very level headed, maybe a bit young 21 but pretty social and well calibrated. She happens to be in a town where im moving in the next week to grow my business so its a perfect fit. Plus she is also a really good person from what I have experienced and the way she handles herself.
Hows the intimacy? .- Sexual intimacy you mean? sex is insane with her, every time it gets better than the last one. After sex there is really no further conversation, we just pass out.
How do you two interact in public and amongst your friends together? - We've been to a couple of events together, always holding hands like a couple and overall pretty good. Have only met a couple of her friends for a brief moment at a rave so Im not too much in tune with that, maybe that's why she hasn;t introduce me to her best friend yet, I haven't either bc we live kinda far and only plan days to meet up and either do dinner, smoke or go drink together or anything random.
Whats the current status of your relationship with her? Fuck buddies? Open relationship? - As of right now, we are being exclusive, I brought it up because we were boning at some point and the rubber broke and we just kept on doing it, so ever since then we kinda just raw dog it but shes on the pill.
Also, are you open for a relationship right now? And are you still banging other hunneys out there? - I feel pretty open to a relationship right now with a healthy person, so far she seems good and no I haven't banged any other chick since we started seeing each other more and more, we agreed on being exclusive.
And to follow up with your first statement, I think I am scared about this, on one hand i feel the need to say what's on my gut ( that i have feelings). Ive learned that saying what I feel helps me stay congruent with my personality but I might also risk taking an L and losing her for being too eager to push a something she might not be feeling.
What are your thoughts on takng the lead the expressing how you feel? She seems the kind of person who lacks intimacy talk and gets nervous when I say we gotta talk.
Lots of information you shot out here, awesome man.
A few things - Nothing wrong with taking the lead in expression and intimacy. That’s our fundamental role. You like her a lot and there’s nothing wrong with that. Its great when you find someone you’re really down for.
However, I don’t suggest being the first one to tell her how you feel and wanting to be exclusive. She should be dying to snag you from amongst the crowd. That being said, I don’t think a condom breaking and her being on the pill is a good segway to exclusivity. I know its not your reason for it but it still isn’t safe territory to be in.
Sounds like you guys are relatively early on in the relationship. You haven’t met close friends or family yet and haven’t gone on any trips together etc.
I think you should continue to build intimacy with her. Don’t spill your heart out but instead be comfortable with taking the lead in creating romantic moments with her. Sex is your best start hear. I highly recommend pillow talk after you guys fuck. Get her crying. That always seem to do the trick ;) Lol kidding but you know what I mean. You should work to solidify the emotional connection between you two.
I would also say you should go fuck some other chicks. See if what you feel is 100% real AND it’ll help level you out from going head over heels for her before the time is right so to speak.
Found your training review:
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Why not include her in the business by giving her a personal position to the boss man and a job description as a actual employee in the business that way she can invest her time money and energy in assisting u on building the biz remember everyone wants to be apart of making something big happen bring her in your business world to see if she can compliment your mentality