nice. sister setting me up
So my sisters friend is down. A lot of my sisters friends are down but theyre usually uggs. This girl is top shelf for sure. Been msging a bit via fb now. She's gonna visit my city in a couple months. ( She's from east coast ) She is a bougie top shelf type chick. Yacht parties, celeb parties etc to give you an idea.
Ive never met her, nor hss my sister. They became good friends through a mutual friend of theirs and now chat all the time lol. 21st century at work haha.
My main concerns are striking the balance and doing right by my sister while doing me. Also, my sister calling her sister in law a lot in social media. Should i be worried that this will place me in a long term frame?
I would worry more about your complete lack of game. There, I said it. Good luck
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I probably should be tbh. But I'm worried about more important shit then that at the moment. So, any other insightful shit you care to drop?
Also this occurred because the girl hit my sister up. I wouldnt ask my sister to set me up. Mainly because her friends arent my type usually.
Holy fuck man. Your sisters friend, whom you have never met....and your sister and her have never met. And you both have been chatting to this girl on Facebook? She says she is going to visit your city in a couple months? And you want to strike a balance between banging this girl but not fucking her over in your sister's eyes?? And your sister is calling the top shelf girl's sister in law a lot in social media?? Your wondering if this will place you in a long term frame from a girl from the east coast??
Just walk down the street and pimp all the girls and dont worry about a long term frame. Sound easier??
You need to reread your posts and edit before you hit the post button.
Hw would tis end up being a long term thing? She lives far away. It's perfect FWB material. Just focus on having FUN and escalate. That's it.
It wouldn't. Not from my end at least. I am just being cautious. Word. Ya the mutual friend met my sister like that as well. All because my cousin used to date the mutual friend. My sister and mutual friend became bffs via IG/FB - which led to her flying out and now she's moving out to live with my sister lol. Long story short, just trust my assessment that this girl will make the trek down here to visit me. I suppose I gave it too much thought since I care about my sister. My sister straight wants me to wife this girl up. Personally Idc and just wanna beat it up. Anyway ya I realized how faggy it must've made me sound considering how weird it is to meet people via social networking lol. I'm still on my grind doing my thing, and obviously still will be.
I'm takin Aquitas' side on this. It's fuckin 2013, not 1850 guys. It kinda pisses me off when people put a social stigma on meeting people on the interwebs. Obviously there are some wierd ass creepers out there, but for the most part, people are really chill.
Aequitas, fuck the hell out of it. Seriously don't worry about messing things up with your sister, cuz at the end of the day, if she REALLY does have such a good relationship with this chick, and things go badly with you, that shouldn't effect their relationship. On the other hand, if your sister is just setting you up and things go bad... OH, THE FUCK, WELL! And that's the worst case scenario.
If I was to give you some advice, maybe stay kindof aloof at first. Like, my situation with my roommate's sister. Also with my own sister's hot friends, I've always played it kindof aloof, and let those chicks make up their own minds, with really good results.
Good luck
I would go for it. Your sister will still love you at the end of the day! I wouldn't lead her to believe it's going to be long term. Just keep it playful, not to serious and I'm sure all will be well :)