No Coffee for Faggots
Sun, 04/21/2013 - 23:21
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kZg_ALxEz0
This blond bombshell had her hand on my cock and locked eyes with me like hungry lioness both hunting and seeking to be prey for worthy opponent. Her firm double-Ds were pressed up against my chest, her lips brushing against mine, my hands discovering the lack of panties underneath her dress. Her friend blurts out that they want cocaine.
At this point I was still somewhat in awe of the fact that this was actually happening and was struggling to maintain my composure.
I asked her why she wants cocaine. Her reply:
"Because I want to fuck all night long."
BOOM! I'm standing in the dark tunnel and the light and noise is coming at me hard and fast.
This must be what its like to wake up on the floor of the ring with the lights in your face, someone holding your head up, someone else pouring water in your mouth. Focus slowly returns to your eyes and the picture becomes clear. You done fucked up champ. The headache, maybe some nausea starts to overwhelm your senses again. You see the girls walking away, looking at you with pity and contempt.
Pussy, like coffee, is for closers. No amount of what is usually called "game" will do you any fucking good when sexually confident knockout with a devil-may-care demeanor gives you an opening. You must devour her with no hesitation. Clearly I did not execute.
I'm just gonna go ahead and throw it out there that my "verbal game" is amazing thanks in part to manwhore's coaching and my own innate abilities. Like seriously, with some more practice and time it will be world class.
You think that blond gave a flying fuck about my verbal game last night?
I allowed this girl to shove me so far into my head that I was looking out of my asshole and all I could smell was the overwhelming stench of my own faggotry.
This is from manwhore's article:
"A lot of guys have issues with the super attractive, intimidating women that a lot of other men are chasing as well. And even if they do succeed in getting them out on a date, or alone; they have serious problems with escalation and/or staying present and not letting the girl intimidate them and get in their head.
These two lessons are:
1) You must be RUTHLESS in your physical/sexual escalation with superhotties. No hesitation. They have no respect for hesitation. They respect a dude with a complete lack of self-doubt. Sadly this usually only exists inside assholes, and that is why you see so many of them with these kinds of guys. Plus they don’t have time for pussies, they are used to getting what they want, WHEN they want, and they generally don’t play games. And if YOU hesitate, you have automatically knocked yourself off their dinner menu. They will no longer be into you."
So, basically last night. And, despite what I wrote above, all I feel right now is a flood of gratitude for the opportunity to have that experience.
This blond bombshell had her hand on my cock and locked eyes with me like hungry lioness both hunting and seeking to be prey for worthy opponent. Her firm double-Ds were pressed up against my chest, her lips brushing against mine, my hands discovering the lack of panties underneath her dress. Her friend blurts out that they want cocaine.
At this point I was still somewhat in awe of the fact that this was actually happening and was struggling to maintain my composure.
I asked her why she wants cocaine. Her reply:
"Because I want to fuck all night long."
BOOM! I'm standing in the dark tunnel and the light and noise is coming at me hard and fast.
This must be what its like to wake up on the floor of the ring with the lights in your face, someone holding your head up, someone else pouring water in your mouth. Focus slowly returns to your eyes and the picture becomes clear. You done fucked up champ. The headache, maybe some nausea starts to overwhelm your senses again. You see the girls walking away, looking at you with pity and contempt.
Pussy, like coffee, is for closers. No amount of what is usually called "game" will do you any fucking good when sexually confident knockout with a devil-may-care demeanor gives you an opening. You must devour her with no hesitation. Clearly I did not execute.
I'm just gonna go ahead and throw it out there that my "verbal game" is amazing thanks in part to manwhore's coaching and my own innate abilities. Like seriously, with some more practice and time it will be world class.
You think that blond gave a flying fuck about my verbal game last night?
I allowed this girl to shove me so far into my head that I was looking out of my asshole and all I could smell was the overwhelming stench of my own faggotry.
This is from manwhore's article:
"A lot of guys have issues with the super attractive, intimidating women that a lot of other men are chasing as well. And even if they do succeed in getting them out on a date, or alone; they have serious problems with escalation and/or staying present and not letting the girl intimidate them and get in their head.
These two lessons are:
1) You must be RUTHLESS in your physical/sexual escalation with superhotties. No hesitation. They have no respect for hesitation. They respect a dude with a complete lack of self-doubt. Sadly this usually only exists inside assholes, and that is why you see so many of them with these kinds of guys. Plus they don’t have time for pussies, they are used to getting what they want, WHEN they want, and they generally don’t play games. And if YOU hesitate, you have automatically knocked yourself off their dinner menu. They will no longer be into you."
So, basically last night. And, despite what I wrote above, all I feel right now is a flood of gratitude for the opportunity to have that experience.
Sun, 04/21/2013 - 23:40
#1
I'm confused- where/why did
I'm confused- where/why did you fuck up?
Sun, 04/21/2013 - 23:53
#2
When she said she wanted to
When she said she wanted to fuck all night long I froze up and did not know what to do. She said this while making the most intense eye contact I've ever experienced in my entire life. My brain turned to mush and she could see it happening through my eyes and my face. She was searching for weakness or hesitation and saw both. After that the interaction went downhill so incredibly fast.
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 00:22
#3
gotchaaMeditate brah
gotchaa
Meditate brah
You need to be willing to access the entire spectrum of who you are. I really need to throw up some footage of me being "intense" and "focused"... I feel like everything I've thrown up has just been of me being really "happy" and "go-lucky" but that's just one aspect of who I am... I can actually be extremely "scary" to be around.. I mean combined with the fact that I'm a fucking HUGE guy- I've only gotten in 3 fights in my entire life and absolutely wrecked my opponent in every fight I've ever been in- I go absolutely APE SHIT...I also am lucky to have never fought anyone who has any "legit" fighting experience under their belt.
I'm basically really cool and relaxed but if you box me into a corner and you really are about to throw down, it's like I go into a different world- I kinda black out- it's not the best because pretty much anything could happen and I wouldn't know it but it allows me to successfully defend myself, so in terms of evolution- there's a reason why I still have that characteristic.
Anyway- the point is simply that you have to access that full spectrum... if the girl is about to "throw down" sotospeak... you gotta be able to access the "fighter" inside of you and realize that shits about to go down and either you're ready or your not. You can talk all you want but at a certain point, talk ends and blows are gonna be thrown and it doesn't matter how big a game you talked if all of a sudden you run away
Meditate brah
You need to be willing to access the entire spectrum of who you are. I really need to throw up some footage of me being "intense" and "focused"... I feel like everything I've thrown up has just been of me being really "happy" and "go-lucky" but that's just one aspect of who I am... I can actually be extremely "scary" to be around.. I mean combined with the fact that I'm a fucking HUGE guy- I've only gotten in 3 fights in my entire life and absolutely wrecked my opponent in every fight I've ever been in- I go absolutely APE SHIT...I also am lucky to have never fought anyone who has any "legit" fighting experience under their belt.
I'm basically really cool and relaxed but if you box me into a corner and you really are about to throw down, it's like I go into a different world- I kinda black out- it's not the best because pretty much anything could happen and I wouldn't know it but it allows me to successfully defend myself, so in terms of evolution- there's a reason why I still have that characteristic.
Anyway- the point is simply that you have to access that full spectrum... if the girl is about to "throw down" sotospeak... you gotta be able to access the "fighter" inside of you and realize that shits about to go down and either you're ready or your not. You can talk all you want but at a certain point, talk ends and blows are gonna be thrown and it doesn't matter how big a game you talked if all of a sudden you run away
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 00:43
#4
This girl sounds like a bad
This girl sounds like a bad bitch.
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 05:02
#5
Hm Buddha makes a good point.
Hm Buddha makes a good point. You should have boxed her titties Archangel
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Mon, 04/22/2013 - 19:24
#6
buddhagames wrote:Meditate
buddhagames wrote:
Meditate brah
Just answering with respect to this part. I've meditated plenty over the last year or so, and I fully believe that it did not prepare me for that situation at all.
Last night I went out to a loud club, and I despise loud clubs but my friend wanted me to join him. At one point in the night I spotted the hottest girl I've seen in years and she was dancing in a booth. I figured out how to walk up to her and by the time I got over there she was sitting down. Then, after taking a few mins to compose myself, I walked up behind her, put my hand on her shoulder, and was like "Hey you wanna dance." She said, "I'm good but thanks though." She was even better looking up close, but I wasn't intimidated by her looks this time, and she was so polite while turning me down that I couldn't even call it a "rejection."
My approach was weak in terms of body language and not projecting my voice enough, but I still felt this amazing upswell of positive emotions after walking away from her--like I was high for 3 mins and couldn't talk.
The guy who I was before I started coaching with manhorse would never have been able to approach this girl unless we were stuck together in a broken elevator.
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 19:52
#7
How often do you sit?
How often do you shit?
When you were in that moment, were you able to take a second and breathe? I find that really helps. Like the girl says something and it catches you slightly off guard, you're perfectly okay to take a quick moment and breathe and center yourself before responding
I find that, after doing that, I respond so confidently and with such precision that they don't even realize that I took a moment to respond- or they interpret it as sexy
When you were in that moment, were you able to take a second and breathe? I find that really helps. Like the girl says something and it catches you slightly off guard, you're perfectly okay to take a quick moment and breathe and center yourself before responding
I find that, after doing that, I respond so confidently and with such precision that they don't even realize that I took a moment to respond- or they interpret it as sexy
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 20:12
#8
buddhagames wrote:How often
buddhagames wrote:
How often do you shit?
When you were in that moment, were you able to take a second and breathe? I find that really helps. Like the girl says something and it catches you slightly off guard, you're perfectly okay to take a quick moment and breathe and center yourself before responding
I find that, after doing that, I respond so confidently and with such precision that they don't even realize that I took a moment to respond- or they interpret it as sexy
I was shitting 2x/day for 15mins for the last month or so. Before that 20-25mins 5 out of 7 days a week.
I've been practicing breathing and meditating enough that I'm able to be mindful throughout almost all of my day. I can center myself within a few seconds most of the time unless its doing this stuff that slams me face first into my deepest fears.
I've been approaching a lot this week and besides this girl in the original post there were only maybe one or two others who put me in my head--and one was a redheaded Italian 9 (absolutely amazing combo by the way) who was walking super fast and kept saying "Momma mia!" when I was trying to get her to slow down, lol. Part of the reason why I was in my head with her was that I was trying to walk backwards through a crowded place very quickly while talking to her and I was trying not to trip or knock anyone over.
The biggest thing about this girl in the OP was that she was oozing sexuality and confidence. If I hadn't fucked it up, my friend and I would have pulled these girls within 10mins of meeting them and they were bad bitches. When she looked at me that way I became paralyzed by fear. That's what it was. It wasn't so much that I was looking at her as much as that in that instant I had to confront deeply held fearful beliefs and insecurities. Meditation helps with this to a certain extent, but I believe--especially now--that nothing less than forcing yourself to face those fears through taking action will ever train yourself to get over them.
Maybe if you're some 69th Level Meditation Master then you can do the work while sitting, but as someone who has tried to do that without forcing myself to take action that would lead to growth and change, I can say that in my experience it won't get you all the way there. Sitting and mindfulness have provided a foundation from which to operate, but the core-level issues that I'm dealing with right now must be forced into the light to be dealt with.
I feel like I am so incredibly close right now. Between the work I did on my own plus Manhorse's drills and coaching, I feel like I'm 95% to where I want to be as a man at this stage of my life, but that last 5% is the most difficult. And that last 5% will not be taken without decisive action followed by reflection. Pushing myself further and further until the shit is handled.
Mon, 04/22/2013 - 20:23
#9
Totally man- I don't think
Totally man- I don't think anyone legit really claims that meditation takes the place of action.
But at the same time- meditation def. does allow you to confront your fears, in a different way than action does- equally productive but different, so both are necessary.
For example- meditation has allowed me to do things like, if I am scared- in a super confident way, maybe do something like whisper in the girls ear, "You scare the shit out of me, beb"
hahaha YO- that would have turned her the fuck ON... and it would have been SUPER authentic- BOOM
But yeah man- it looks like you're doing everything right- it's always possible that this just wans't meant to happen, right now- learn the lesson from it and push forward.
You're solid man.
But at the same time- meditation def. does allow you to confront your fears, in a different way than action does- equally productive but different, so both are necessary.
For example- meditation has allowed me to do things like, if I am scared- in a super confident way, maybe do something like whisper in the girls ear, "You scare the shit out of me, beb"
hahaha YO- that would have turned her the fuck ON... and it would have been SUPER authentic- BOOM
But yeah man- it looks like you're doing everything right- it's always possible that this just wans't meant to happen, right now- learn the lesson from it and push forward.
You're solid man.
Tue, 04/23/2013 - 00:31
#10
buddhagames wrote:Totally
buddhagames wrote:
Totally man- I don't think anyone legit really claims that meditation takes the place of action.
But at the same time- meditation def. does allow you to confront your fears, in a different way than action does- equally productive but different, so both are necessary.
For example- meditation has allowed me to do things like, if I am scared- in a super confident way, maybe do something like whisper in the girls ear, "You scare the shit out of me, beb"
hahaha YO- that would have turned her the fuck ON... and it would have been SUPER authentic- BOOM
But yeah man- it looks like you're doing everything right- it's always possible that this just wans't meant to happen, right now- learn the lesson from it and push forward.
You're solid man.
Thanks broseph. I need to remember that one for when I approach the turbos. Talked to this little baby doll italian-american classy guidette today. saw her and her friend out of the corner of my eye and make the decision to approach with no hesitation. once i was talking to her my brain slowly realized how smoking hot she actually was and I ejected immediately. I feel like I need to keep pushing myself to approach the turbos and after a few more this won't happen again
Tue, 04/23/2013 - 03:00
#11
I agree. I have trouble with
I agree. I have trouble with those girls that know exactly how to make me unpresent. I always go off on weird unrelated tangents that fuck up the entire process. Moar focused meditation for me.