No room to chase
Thursday I ran into a girl that used to live in my building and hadn't seen since summer. I instadate her and invite her to come to the club with us tomorrow.
I have her come over to my place last nigh, and I'm being playful/accusatory, teasing her about all kinds of shit. We meet my friend at the club and start drinking at our table. The whole night I am totally un-stifled, telling her what I like and dislike in women, screening her and she's fallen into my frame, even though theres a kind of funny vibe to it and she says she cant take me seriously, but shes all giggly around me and whatnot. I'm pretty much in her space the whole night, feeling her up and stuff and she just giggles and bats my hands away. I have her give me a scalp massage
At one point my friend and I go outside she was following us then she just disappears. I find her maybe like 10min later talking to some dude. I'm chill about it, and dont really mind I start talking to a chick next to me, then I look and see he's got her hands holding her head and I just wait to see what she does. He grabs her face and makes out with her, and she just doesnt stop him, I shove him off her and take her hand and walk out with her
I ask her if she knew him from before, and she didnt. I call her for doing that shit in front of me to make me jealous, and she's all denying about it, telling me she didn't like it and she wished he wouldnt have. I tell her if it had been me and I didn't want someone kissing me I would have shoved them off me, not acted the way she did
anyway we get back to my place and she instantly wants to leave, even though I had told her she should stay and sober up first while we were driving back
I tell her that it's fucked up that she came to my table, hung out with me all night and then makes out with some random dude infront of me, only to leave instantly when I give you a ride back. Basically I was implying that she was using me and then she calls me "emotional"
At this point I say something to the effect of "If you want to call me being real with you about this situation 'emotional' then I have no desire to hangout with someone who like that, and I could care less if I see you again
Just wondering what you guys think about this. In my opinion this is reminiscent of a post I made about a Swiss girl who came to meet me at the club, was sending :)s in every text and then accused me of "following her around"
****I can remember times in school before I learned about game where I had this super aloof vibe with girls, and they fell head over heels in love with me. This one girl used to break into my house literally and be there when I'd get home from class. We had several wrestling matches but every time I tried escalating she'd "shut me down" eventually i told her if she didnt want to be more intimate that she had to stop coming over. She cried a lot and that was the end of that
it's like, I realize that I didn't "give her room to chase"....? But I felt that was conveyed in my vibe, of me being the prize, since thats definitely the vibe i had with her.
Anyway this is pretty much why I took a break from game the past 3 weeks. I have been pulling consistently and probably getting the best overall results Ive ever had, but most of the girls arent fucking, and it just feels like I'm being pimped for my time
Oh yeah when we were back at my spot she also threw in some comment about me "being all over her all night" which was annoying.
Yes, I was, but she was liking it, and I was doing it in a way that was so un-needy, and would push her off me and stuff.
I dont know. In my honest opinion I thought my physicality with her is what made the night fun for the both of us, and I women "complain" about stuff all the time that they actually like (guys being assholes/ dominating them etc)
Wondering what you guys think. Thanks
I almost lost a girl to a guy the other night, a taller better looking version of myself haha. At first I was like oh alright gonna let her do her thing, but then I see him start running some pretty smooth physical escalation on her. Starts dipping his head in while talking in her ear, then dips his face in and sort of runs it along her neckline. I was like.. this fucking guy. Haha. Hell no. So I just go in and stand there and look at her, she looks at me like, "Yeah?" And I'm just standing there solidly then start talking to her. This forces her to come in and talk to me, he actually fucks off very quickly without even putting up a fight. I take her to my place and fuck her, lol
Also one thing I do and this is sort of the continuation of the boss frame, is I prize the HELL out of myself sexually. Like it's not even that I think I'm that good in bed, but it's like.. yo you ever fucked God? 'Cuz he's standing right in front of you and he could give you some dick.
Gotcha. What kind of backhand do you give a girl when exhibits this kind of dumbass behavior?
Like say this had ended up happening to you in that situation, how would you handle it?
I leave her at the club.