Non-Reactively Calling Girls Out On Their BullShit
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 05:20
So went out last night with katalyst.
We went to one of our normal spots and I was doin okay... kinda been in this zone lately where I'm getting a TON of numbers and that's about it (which is fine- giving me lots of day2 experience)
Anyway- I opened this one 3set and immediately the alpha girl in the group goes, "EXCUSE ME.. we're talkign here" and I ignore and keep talking and then she absolutely FLIPS OUT at me lol... like full-on freakout
So I'm standing there in the middle of this club with this girl going apeshit on my ass. I've been working on not reacting to shittests as much, lately and this was a great example.
In response to this, I just started to laugh... it was just such an overreaction on her part that I couldn't help but bust out laughing. In response she just looked at me and then out of the corner of her mouth, I saw a smile appear on her face.
Then she starts to laugh and I look at her and go, "That was absurd, girl" and she starts to REALLY laugh now and goes, "I know, I'm sorry- you're actually really cool"
The set continued for about 20 minutes. Madeout for a bit, number closed and we'll see where it goes.
But yeah, lately, I've just been using humor to respond to the shit that some of these girls throw at us
We went to one of our normal spots and I was doin okay... kinda been in this zone lately where I'm getting a TON of numbers and that's about it (which is fine- giving me lots of day2 experience)
Anyway- I opened this one 3set and immediately the alpha girl in the group goes, "EXCUSE ME.. we're talkign here" and I ignore and keep talking and then she absolutely FLIPS OUT at me lol... like full-on freakout
So I'm standing there in the middle of this club with this girl going apeshit on my ass. I've been working on not reacting to shittests as much, lately and this was a great example.
In response to this, I just started to laugh... it was just such an overreaction on her part that I couldn't help but bust out laughing. In response she just looked at me and then out of the corner of her mouth, I saw a smile appear on her face.
Then she starts to laugh and I look at her and go, "That was absurd, girl" and she starts to REALLY laugh now and goes, "I know, I'm sorry- you're actually really cool"
The set continued for about 20 minutes. Madeout for a bit, number closed and we'll see where it goes.
But yeah, lately, I've just been using humor to respond to the shit that some of these girls throw at us
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 08:03
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Re: Non-Reactively Calling Girls Out On Their BullShit
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Mon, 12/10/2012 - 08:22
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Re: Non-Reactively Calling Girls Out On Their BullShit
@buddhagames:
how would you guys do this shit PRO-ACTIVELY. Sometimes I don't feel like laughing at chicks. I'd rather flip the finger but unless you're feeling like Johnny Bravo it comes across reactive.
how would you guys do this shit PRO-ACTIVELY. Sometimes I don't feel like laughing at chicks. I'd rather flip the finger but unless you're feeling like Johnny Bravo it comes across reactive.
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 08:31
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Re: Non-Reactively Calling Girls Out On Their BullShit
@Katalyst:
This is where I feel like the line between what's "game" and what's not is sorta blurred.
At a certain point, the line between who you are and what your "natural" internal state is vs. what you're doing because you're "gaming" a girl start to converge and i don't really know where the line is sometimes.
Like have you ever thought about just letting yourself do that shit and seeing what happens? Like fuck it, why not... get it out of your system. You've done way weirder//obnoxious//dick shit because it was "game"... throw that finger in the air baby.
This is where I feel like the line between what's "game" and what's not is sorta blurred.
At a certain point, the line between who you are and what your "natural" internal state is vs. what you're doing because you're "gaming" a girl start to converge and i don't really know where the line is sometimes.
Like have you ever thought about just letting yourself do that shit and seeing what happens? Like fuck it, why not... get it out of your system. You've done way weirder//obnoxious//dick shit because it was "game"... throw that finger in the air baby.
Mon, 12/10/2012 - 08:47
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Re: Non-Reactively Calling Girls Out On Their BullShit
@buddhagames:
Ahh yea for me the lines blur between what's natural and what's game. I've come to realize everyone in my family has a fucked up sense of humor - so sometimes I do weird shit for myself sometimes it's for the girl. I definitely flip the finger a lot - just a great way to blow steam but.
Funny you mention just doing shit. I second-guess myself way too much when I'm starting to realize guys like us know what the right action is. Case in point - last night I was macking on that tall cutie in that white dress (you macked on her too) - I ended up isolating her and she wasn't down with the gameplan so i wanted to open another girl in front of her but my logic kicked in "yeah yeah - don't do that" when in actuality me opening another girl right in front of her would have been the most BOSS thing to do.
Yea throw that finger in the air.
Mann I wish you were with me on the tail end of last night. I stopped being a faggot and shit got kinda fun and almost violent with some finance DOUCHE.
Ahh yea for me the lines blur between what's natural and what's game. I've come to realize everyone in my family has a fucked up sense of humor - so sometimes I do weird shit for myself sometimes it's for the girl. I definitely flip the finger a lot - just a great way to blow steam but.
Funny you mention just doing shit. I second-guess myself way too much when I'm starting to realize guys like us know what the right action is. Case in point - last night I was macking on that tall cutie in that white dress (you macked on her too) - I ended up isolating her and she wasn't down with the gameplan so i wanted to open another girl in front of her but my logic kicked in "yeah yeah - don't do that" when in actuality me opening another girl right in front of her would have been the most BOSS thing to do.
Yea throw that finger in the air.
Mann I wish you were with me on the tail end of last night. I stopped being a faggot and shit got kinda fun and almost violent with some finance DOUCHE.