Number close on stale tinder convos ... thoughts?
Uhm so I just used this exact same number close on two conversations on tinder that had gone cold. In both cases I got a response with their number. Sent this text in both cases about a day after the conversation went stale.
context: both conversations were ones where there were def highs in the interaction and I just hadn't number closed when I should have and instead kept the convo going for some reason
whatcha guys think? Is this a fluke or maybe it's got some legs to it?
"Oh I guess I shoulda asked for your number before the conversation died. Kinda meant to do that lol :)"
Keep testing it and keep us posted, depends on how convo. It's at the very least genuine
Dude when you reach the point when you feel like closing the # go for it but don't ask. Send them ur digits instead in a value giving way and be non-chalant about it.
At the end of the day it's just a number. I find asking for the number is way needier than sending her yours.
I've closed many numbers saying "Beb, tinder sucks, (number) text me instead"
remember if you've generated enough attraction she will text you or if not at the very least still respond to you on tinder in which case you're still in the game
Asking for the number is needy? Hm never thought of it like that. I always viewed it as just knowing what I want and getting it.
but ya I def should have just gone for the number in the moment- lol I was going to say that this line is almost like spraying febreeze after you fart. It may help a lil but it's still gonna smell a lil haha
Yep I always just send the num. All ten digits if ya know what I mean, ;).
I stick to:
"losing wifi whats your #"
"This app is draining my data whats your #"
"notifications on this app are gltichy whats your #"
Very boring, I know! In my experience anything too drawn out and gamey for a numbe close scares them away. Never sent my number tho, will try it out.
Did this text come across as gamey?
Nah brotha! Like someone said above it's geniune. I wouldn't say it's high value but it is a halfway descent reengagement text. Manwhore gave some similar samples in the membership under "first texts" but his examples where a bit more extreme.
hey girl drinks at the mansion here is my number if you got a flip phone don’t bother xxx-xxx-xxx
Haha I love that one meow