Obervations on "Naturals"
Other things that most have in common, but not shared by ALL--
This is almost exactly my experience too. One of my natural friends said almost verbatim what you just wrote, "If I don't get laid in a while I start going crazy." They will fuck just about anything, but they also bang some REALLY hot girls too.
Funny story about that... he pulled this 40-something year old cougar one time. At the time I was crashing on his futon. Another friend was crashed on the floor in the living room. This cougar had this stupid crazy chihuahua that she brought with her. I was asleep and was woken up by a strange noise and I look over and this chihuahua is humping my friends face in his sleep.
But yeah, naturals are very opportunistic and predatory by nature. To the point were they can be a huge pain in the ass sometimes.
Thats, describing me completely, except from the Drug Part, but who knows what i am gonna do in the future.Selling drugs might be a good idea after all, haha ;)
I'm just wondering about this, but Trt you said you are a "natural" and you asked how normal guys get all haywire...
One of the things I've noticed is a lot of naturals had some chaos in their childhoods. My one friend, I've known since I was 12, and he only ever once mentioned his childhood. He was talking about the scars where his mom and her boyfriend put cigarettes out on his back.
I'm just speculating, but I think that may instill in them a distrust... Like there's a lack of parental support and they realize at an early age that they have to rely on themselves, not authority figures or society. With the naturals I know, there is almost this closed off, defensive, ego shell. For them it's kindof a double-edged sword, because on one hand it makes them social badasses, but on the other they don't know how to connect. Basically, they attract people like flies, but tend to drive them away just as fast.
On the flipside, I think "normal guys aka chodes" are slaves to social conditioning. They're sorta like programmed robots. Super predictable and they hate unpredictability. As kids they were raised in relatively stable environments and "following the rules" was the means to success, IE "be a good boy, do as you're told, don't raise your voice." Which carries on to adulthood as, "Go to school, get a good job, get married, have kids, retire" paradigm. They're constantly following the social rules. Which is why they get pissed, for example, at women/other men for NOT following the rules. There's this social reward/punishment system in place for following the rules and being a "good boy." Don't believe me? Try talking about "game" on Facebook and see what happens... Just prepare yourself for the Axes and Pitchforks.
One observation Ive made is that they are almost always undisciplined in all other aspects of their lives. Its almost like they wing everything else, while their subconscious is locked-in on pussy, making it very easy for them to get because every part of their being is helping them do it.
Interestingly enough I had a decently traumatic childhood but I was also raised with a lot of empathy, and started out that way. And I always did damn good in school. I'm an outlier for sure. I get along real well with scumbag "naturals" but was at one point considered a natural myself, even though I think the strict definition is sort of annoying.
I know naturals who had stable backgrounds and naturals who had fucked up backgrounds. Ones who had stable backgrounds had tended to have more empathy and could relate to people who were "weak" , where as people with backgrounds had more of a you're strong or weak mentality. Small sample size and this is just anecdotes. Just what I've seen.