Observation//Question- what do yall think?

So this thought popped into my head and I thought it was really interesting. I love thinking about like the super high-level theoretical shit, just cause it's so fun (I was a psych major in college).

1. So let's say that you you've aroused the girl (I'm sorta starting to assume that this is happening because when you know how to do it- you literally can do it with ANYONE- the only limiting factor is your own limitations)- basically, if you are calm and relxaed and not trippin balls AND you talk a lot, the girl will get aroused, it's actually weird how simple this is (and TRUE!)- oh and just make sure you're saying lots of positive and negative shit- EXPRESS YOURSELF

Arousal: (Buddhagamesified alex method)- How I interpret his rules
1. Be calm
2. Express your emotions verbally
3. Spend time

Then you say something like, "You're cool, let's be friends" and she responds, "We already are"- THAT is a HUGE ioi in my opinion... HUGE indication of her real thoughts.

Can any of you guess why? or what it is? Even for me, at first it was just a "feeling" but I trust my intuition like a god damn MOTHER FUCKER and so I'll take my intuition and break it down and see if it makes sense- and yupp this one makes sense

2. If you give a girl a GENINUE compliment, about something other than her looks and she doesn't say anything but "Thanks"

For example, I was talking with a girl on the phone today and go, "You were the only person last night who cared about my friend. You and me were the only ones who understood what was going on, fuck everyone else"

Her: "I Know you and me were the only ones!"

Me: "Yeah, that was really cool, I liked that about you" (I had already told her earlier on in the phone call that I had initially thought she was a weirdo because she approached me out of the blew- but it was okay, there was a reason for it and I qualified it properly)

Her: "Thanks"

That "Thanks" is the equivilent of "Quiet and Attentive"- she doesn't know what else to say- it was SUCH a genuine compliment that it took her a little off-guard. Another IOI

3. Me: Are you tipsy?
Her: I don't know

HUGE ioi- she doesn't want to potentially scare you off by saying she's hammered but she also doesn't want to admit to herself that she's entirely sober because she wants to be able to lie to herself and say, "I'm not a slut- I was just drunk"

Also- this "I don't know" could easily just be that she's so CONFUSED that she just can't answer any question- she's very aroused and confused by it so she just giggles and says, "I don't know" because she doesn't know anything at that moment- this is a good thing lol