Oh JEEZ. Fuckbuddy maintenance.

OK. This girl is in a long distance relationship. However she's my fuckbuddy/hairstylist lol. I love her to death. But lately I've been sensing some discomfort on her end. I don't know if I'm right about it or not, but it almost seems like she chickens out or something when it comes to seeing me and/or hooking up. As of today it's been about 2 months since I last saw her.

Her: So when I leave for Texas, you won't be able to text me or anything ok. It will really upset Arik. He is a jealous man lol

Me: okkk. When are u leaving?

Her: Tomorrow at midnight

Me: Right on! When are you back?

Her: I'll be back on the 16

(After she gets back. She calls, we talk)

Me: Yo. I'm taking a shower and coming up

Her: ok

(I show up, we watch a flik, I escalate and we're making out on the floor. She starts acting all wierd and adamantly tells me we can't have sex because she's on her period)

Me: (a few days later) I'm cooking. Come have dinner with me

Her: I can't :(

Me: (a few days later) yo. You did a really fuckin good job with my hair last time... would be down to cut it for me again??

Her: Who us this?

Her: Oh wait its Infinity!

Me: Deleted my number. Ya deuche :)

Her: I had to

Me: I know... I was teasing ;) u deleted ur fb too

Me: Hey listen. I'm not sure, but I'm sensing that you may think I'm going to push you to do things... I don't expect anything. We're friends K

Her: Oh, yeah I know that. No worries

Me: Right on! I'm going out tonight if you feel like coming

Her: Oh no thanks, I'm gonaa stay in tonight. Thank you tho

Her: When do you want your hair cut?

Me: tomorrow

(dead air)

Me: (a few days later) I'll make you food if cut my shaggy friggin hair

(no reply)

Me: Ur gayyy :)

Her: I'm in Texas, Won't be back til Sunday. I can cut it for you then

(This Monday, about 2 weeks later, she calls and leaves a message saying hey)

Me: Hi, I got a message from u but didn't see u on caller ID

Her: oh lol thought you hated me

Me: Psshh, why would I do that? figured you'd hit me up when u got back from tx.

Her: I'm back, I've been back lol I'm at work right now

Me: Cool let's hang out!

Her: ok, when?

Me: tomorrow

Her: I work tomorrow

Me: So when's good?

Her: Thursday?

Me: Thursday's good. You should come down here. I have walking dead season 3

Her: I've seen the 3rd season already lol, it's on Netlix!

Me: You should be ashamed of yerself... Watching without me tsk tsk tsk

Her: lol Sorry

Me: Just kidders. I watched it too heehee

Her: oh hers making me feel bad lol

Me: Yup! haha. Seen any of the new ones?

Her: No I don't have cable

(thursday, tonight)

Me: Hey, I was doing a favor for a friend. You still wanna see my ass?

Her: I'm sick with Strep Throat. Not a good idea today. Rain check <--plausible if it wasn't turning into such a commonplace occurance

Me: Ohhh nooooo! I love how you capitalized stre throat. Makes it sound serious

Her: lol

For a while there I was seeing her almost every night. Now it's been 2 months. I don't really think it's much of a problem, just thought I'd put this up to see if anybody had some advice dealing with fuckbuddies...