The "OK Cool" text message
So rather than engaging when does something not cool like trying to start drama or bait me or something, I have started just responding with: "Ok cool."
Example:
Her: The lawyers I'm working with are so eye-fucking me right now. I look good today.
Me: Ok cool.
I've found that girls typically reengage and are better behaved when I do that. They will reengage and ask me about my day or actually try to have a decent conversation.
My question: I don't understand the psychology behind this move. It seems to work, but I'm not sure why. Can anyone explain it?
Youre just dismissing her frame completely. She has no choice but to re-engage because she knows you won't do it.
I would have replied "Pics or it didn't happen"
it negates her frame and you can usually get some hawt pictures out of it.
"Ok cool." Works I guess but on a very primitive level. It honestly makes no sense contextually lol
That makes a lot of sense. Thanks! I'm trying to figure out the psychology behind it (and improve it, if possible), so that helps.
Did she text back after your "ok cool"?
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Did she text back after your "ok cool"?
In this specific case, yes she did about half an hour later, and that let to us setting up a date that I literally just got back from. Ended with a nice blowjob.
But I've discovered that with girls in general, the ones I have a really solid interaction with in person, the "OK cool" text works really well, but if the interaction wasn't that solid, there isn't any reinitiation on her part ever, and it's hard for me to turn it around by reinitiating a day or two later.
Right so why do you think that is for the girls you had a good interaction with, vs the ones you didn't. And in what particular circumstances did you use it. Patterns tell teh tale
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male