OKC Fierce Stunner Gorgeous
Hi so I've been out of the game for awhile. Got back in contact with MW a few weeks ago and then been getting back into all the text game. Literally just everyday learning as much as I can to get my game back in shape. Huge credits to MW, BG, and Patrick.Bateman as I grabbed bits and pieces from many of their convos. Also bought the ebook so yea grab it as it's been a big help.
So here's a girl that I found on OKC Sunday, saw she visited my profile and I was like DAMN. Besides being hot, sexy, whatever, she's got that fierce look where you know that she knows that she's sexy as fuuuuuuu. So yea. I won't post pics here but hit me up on facebook if you'd like to see.
Please give me some pointers here, point out where you would have answered better, what you would have said instead, etc. all help is appreciated. My opener is horrible I think, I'm literally learning a lot each day lol, just listened to both teleseminars today before the Monday messages went down.
Also I went for a run around my town while the monday messages were going down. Thanks teleconference!
Sunday:
Me: Hey there MrsMcKnight but you arent really a mrs right
Me: But seriously I know you get hounded on here so shoot me a message some time when you get tired of the same old BS (sunglasses emoji lol)
Her: Hi, what's your name? I literally just reactivated my account last night impulsively. I'm not a Mrs. But I just got out of a relationship. It was a short one but definitely affected me more than any other breakup.
Her: Just to be straight up about where I'm at. :)
Her: I like your outfit in your second pic. (<--- I ignored this. Good? Bad?)
Me: You can call me Jeff, (my OKC name) is my stage name. I take cash or credit lol jk
Me: Sorry to hear about the bad break up. How's your day going otherwise
Her: Yeah and you have to pay to change your name on here, hence the mrs. My name is Hannah :)
Her: And my day is good just slow. I'm going out with my parents right now for dinner.
Her: How's your day goin?
Me: Well with my name its just another day in the stripper life. Tips are slow today. Jk gawd that would be the worst job ever
Me: Anyway nice to meet you Hannah, I can be a bit sarcastic and fun (at least I think so at times) so just a heads up boo
Her: You're funny I like it.
Me: Thanks, if you're a fun girl and like to laugh then we should kinda get along
Me: So are you a night owl
Me: Actually this app kills my batteries. Text me sometime XXX XXX XXXX (<--- lol fail I was like hmm let's see what happens. Won't be doing this again lol)
Monday Night:
Me: Watcha up to rainbow brite
Her: Haha whoa someone used to call me that when I had pink hair and wore bright clothes (LOL)
Her: I am laying in bed with a fan blowing on me and an ice pack on my head. Lol (lol didn't really know what to say to this)
Me: Hahaha I knew I saw you from somewhere ;p
Me: Your situation sounds dangerous.
Me: At least you don't have to fight off the hoards for the last batch of fresh skinny asparagus
Her: Haha what??
Me: Yea you know seattle and their need for fresh foods. Just had a tribal vote for the last chocolate peanuy butter protein bar.
Me: Stick with (her city). It's too dangerous out here. I might have to seek refuge at your place
Her: Hahaha sounds rough, my friend
Me: Yes. Fighting over asparagus are not my typical monday evenings. I usually save that for thursdays
Her: I'm glad to see you're so passionate about something though, ya know? I'm just glad you were fighting over mushrooms (think she meant weren't*)
Me: Oh I know right?
Me: I'm just glad nobody got hurt
Me: I mean things could be much worse, it could be 100 degrees but seems like you're dealing with that problem and not me (angel emoji)
Her: Oh I dealt with that problem. I'm feeling perfect now. Like a dolphin at sea world.
Me: Aw good! Have you learned any tricks yet like the double back flip or jump thru the fiery ring if death
Her: Yeah I'm actually jumping continuously through the fiery ring of death as we speak
Me: That is ridiculous! You need some ice cream.
Me: I've gotten decent at robbing the ice cream trucks but I need a getaway driver
Me: You could be my girl for this. Bonny and Clyde style.
Her: Only if you swear you'll never tell anyone
Me: Nobody needs to know. It'll be our little secret
Me: If you tell anybody I'll beat you up with a pillowcase full of flowers
Her: I like.
Her: If you tell anybody I'll lick your face
Her: You just made me want to tell someone (obviously she went sexual but I didn't really know how to go with it. Would love pointers here I went a different route but I guess it worked out?)
Me: Don't worry beb, we both know I wouldn't let anything bad happen to us
Me: My neighbor is going to wonder what happened to her flowers.
Her: You better not steal your neighbors flowers for me
Her: I love romantic gestures that ruin someone else's day ;)
Me: That's great! I was going to hold back on stealing a little boys balloon for you but now I know it's cute (balloon emoji) ((is cute the right word here??))
Me: But I haven't seen your skills yet so I can't just bring you in as a partner just yet! (decent?)
Her: Thanks, I'm happy you like to steal things for me (balloon emoji) it makes me feel like a god (lol this girl)
Her: I don't like to brag
Me: My mother totally warned me about girls like you -_-
Me: Such a bad influence!
Her: my mother warned me about nothing
Her: (straight faced emoji lol)
Me: So you really are a criminal. I like where this going. I gave up fighting bad guys years ago (meh response I think, should have said kinda* like)
Me: I get it. It pays the bills (bag of money emoji)
Her: Good guys, bad guys.. Who knows there difference anymore. So let's see a better view of your face (woot)
Me: Promise you won't report me to the federales? (lol showing her i'm not gonna just jump out and ask for number)
Her: Pinky promise
Me: I want to see your criminal face. Text me it XXX XXX XXXX and Ill send you my most criminal face (I sent her my number instead of asking for hers. Figure it's a little more investment on her part)
MOVE TO TEXT
Her: Texting you, let’s see J
Me: I DID say you first didn’t ;)
Me: Didn’t I*
Her: I’m not messing around as you can see
Her: (sends me a sexy as hell duck face lol of her in her room, gawd she’s fierce and gorgeous and knows it)
Me: That’s pretty gangster. I’m going to kinda keep an eye on you
Me: (sent her picture of me with a Pikachu doll on my shoulder. So gangster).
Her: Just one? Cause I’ve heard that’s hard to do (referring to my eye comment)
Her: I’m calling you J, by the way
Me: Someone’s gotta keep an eye on the bigger prize. Like the box of Klondike bars
Her: Pikachu looks good on you
Me: You can call me J and I’ll call you darth vader kitty
Her: Wow that suits me perfectly. You have an eye, J, I’ll give you that. The eye that is kinda on me that is.
Me: Just make sure you don’t show up to our jobs wearing booty shorts. Those things distract me (tried to sexualize, not sure if it was the right move?)
Her: You wouldn’t fail a mission over boots shorts though
Her: booty*
Her: This kitty is gettin sleepy
Me: Of course not I’ll pull thru but it doesn’t mean I’d lose some of my concentration
Me: Yea I’m going to finish up some work here. Goodnight kitty kitty
Her: Goodnight J
So that's that, would love pointers as well as where to go with this next besides obviously the meet up (eventually). I'm leaving in a few days for over a week so would like some longer term texting advice as I probably can't get a meet up until I'm back. She lives pretty far but I still want to see this fierce kitty kat and I don't mind making the trip. But I want to figure out logistics with the vacation and all that.
You QUEER how'd you ignore that butt comment lol
What do you think that you did right so far? (As far as your vibe you presented and what do you think were some good texts you sent in the convo?)
What would you text next if you had no one here to help you?
You QUEER how'd you ignore that butt comment lol
What do you think that you did right so far? (As far as your vibe you presented and what do you think were some good texts you sent in the convo?) What would you text next if you had no one here to help you?
The silly/fun vibe is obvious here. I basically want her to know that her beauty doesn't override me to the point of logical/serious guy which has always been an issue for me. I preordered the Manwhore ebook so he sent me a few chapters and I spent a lot of time going over his conversations. Like I've probably read them 100 times so I could really understand what's going on between the lines and such. Obviously I got a lot of work to do, it's only been a couple of weeks but this one conversation alone is better than any I've had in the past few years. I also have another 3-4 conversations going on that are with some cuties so this stuff works VERY well.
If no one is able to offer help, I think the next text is just a simple reengagement following the same vibe I've been doing. This is important, I think every girl is really just looking for a guy that will bring her into their world. MW talks a lot about how we need to get up off our butts and not be stagnant, to get outside, away from the screens, experience new things, etc. this is all lifestyle stuff that's important. A lot of girls live these stagnant lives where they follow the same routine daily. So I think most women, especially quality women, want a guy who's world is bigger than hers. I think ecosystem is a good word here, as a guy just have an ecosystem that's interesting, fun, attractive, bigger, etc. And yea I think MW book, text game he teaches shows that you're an interesting, diverse, experienced, fun guy. I think there's a lot of interesting guys out there they just have no game lol so this stuff really is vital.
I think a lot of guys make the complaint/excuse of 'If only she knew me, she'd like me'. Well without the skills, she won't even glance at you or give you a chance to show her who you are. So as mayweather always says, the skills pay the bills. We all gotta learn these text game skills since 99% of people are glued to their phones. This is, in my opinion, the most important skill. You can go out and focus on in-person skills, but the text game skills are just as important I believe. Those post-sex MW transcripts are amazing as well and serve a huge purpose getting the girl to solidify her commitment even more. So yea the ebook is the bext investment yet
I think you went to far in the beginning giving your number out so quick without building enough rapport. Seems legit though. I think I woulda left it off more with a meetup than to just have left it hangin like that. Me personally I feel like reinitiating is always harder but that could just be me. Other than that seems like a solid interaction
You got the Ebook already? Was this released yet. I bought it a while ago but didn't receive anything in my inbox. Please help as Ive been waiting to read this.
Dude somehow I thought she said she liked your BUTT in your 2nd pic. Derp
I think you went to far in the beginning giving your number out so quick without building enough rapport. Seems legit though. I think I woulda left it off more with a meetup than to just have left it hangin like that. Me personally I feel like reinitiating is always harder but that could just be me. Other than that seems like a solid interaction. You got the Ebook already? Was this released yet. I bought it a while ago but didn't receive anything in my inbox. Please help as Ive been waiting to read this.
Yea lol that was a dumb move, I only did it because I was thinking 'This girl is really hot, let's see if she likes my ballsy move and texts me...' NOPE didn't work, lol. I won't be doing that anymore. The reason I didn't go for the meetup is because she lives far away and I'm leaving on vacation in two days. So I possibly could have said something like 'I'm going on vacation next week to fight some bears in the woods but when I'm back let's get together and plan our robbery' or something.
Jeff, I was asking what you think your best texts were and what you would text next to get a feel for your natural style. If I now that I can do my best to give you a text that matches you instead of a text that I would use for me to express who I am.
So, which texts of yours in the convo did you like the best and what would you text her next?
Jeff, I was asking what you think your best texts were and what you would text next to get a feel for your natural style. If I now that I can do my best to give you a text that matches you instead of a text that I would use for me to express who I am.So, which texts of yours in the convo did you like the best and what would you text her next?
Not sure man, there are a lot in there. Give me some ideas where I could have done better, I'm just getting back into all this so yea feel free to dissect the convo.
As for the next text, the situation is that I leave on thursday for 10 day vacation so I won't be around to plan a meet up. So yea I guess something just to keep the 'spark' alive or at least have me on her mind while I'm gone, I can also text her while I'm on vacation so yea I'm interested in more of that longer term game here. Not sure where to go. I don't want to text her with no goal in mind.
Text her whatever you feel, do not be afraid to lose her, and learn from it regardless of the result
Keep us updated
I think that you did well teasing and joking around with her. You were a little all over the place with your text sometimes, missing that centeredness and coming off a little try hard, but you shall grow out of that with time as you become more centered in your game. I would focus on getting good at what you do well first and then ironing out any wrinkles in your game. Some wrinkles iron themselves out with time, so no need to get tunnel vision on that. It makes game not fun when you are just trying not to mess up.
You had some good stuff in there, dude.
It's more like how to keep her as a prospect long-term. Like I'm going to be gone until the 20th, how do I keep her interested during that time? Sure I got the number and all that in the first convo, but I can't meet up soon. Do I need to discuss this fact? Find out if she even wants to meet up in the first place? Can I just send a reengagement text when I get back, send random photos every other day or something? I've got three girls I've met in the last week that I want to keep as prospects for when I get back. So yea just wondering what you guys do. I suppose I could add to facebook but I've made the mistake in the past adding a girl then not wanting her anymore lmao she got mad.
Do you see the issue? It's like okay I can't meet up for like at least 10 days. So what's the strategy for texting right now? Solidify plans for a meet up when I'm back? And then go back to fun texting? Or just do nothing until I get back?
I feel like I'm texting with no purpose. Cause I can't meet up at the moment. I'm leaving. So I feel like the girl is going to get that same vibe, a 'why is he texting me' vibe especially with no social media action going on to fill in the time. And then it'll just slowly die a slow death
Just bring attention to it in a funny way, even accusatory, it'll put things on the emotional backburner, you won't lose anything and can pick it up when you get back.
"I'm so emotionally traumatized from your text bullying I'm going on a family trip for 10 days. I'll take my revenge when I get back!"
You could probably craft that a little better but I need a break. Derp