Okcupid bdsm hot chick
a few days ago i start talking to this hot redhead on okcupid....she is 5 yers older than me and she is into bdsm....she is a shibari model(the art of being tied up wirh rope in kinky ways)....she is hot as a hell but i dont really know how to deal with her....i can tell she finds me interesting(she told me she has an amazing ass when i told here in some context that she is the baddest bitch i ever talked to...unfortunately she lives like 500km away from me...in another city...i m at the moment in my life where any new shit gets my attention...this doesnt mean that i want to pe butt fucked by her by any means:)))i never did bdsm and probably never want to be wipped and shit like that...I want your POV on this one guys...maybe u dealt with this kind of situations before
PS:i would like to get her fb...she told me she could give me her fb but for now...we should stick to okcupid fucked up chat without photo sharing(fuck them)
Post the convo so far mang.. that'll really help. Obviously you're doing something right, or she just likes your pics lol. As far as "handling" her, honestly nothing to be nervous about. You can dominate a girl in a thousand different ways, just do what YOU want to do to her. They want the uniqueness not the professionalism lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
i would have posted the convo already but i spoke with her in my native language so i would have to translate it for u guys...i will do that and i will post it today if i can
ME:Death never looked soo good
HER:Moldova humour(it’s the region of the country from where I live…she is from “the big city” if you will…my region is more like “country side”
ME: between my humour and yours…I prefer mine all day long…but its fine,its never to late to learn to be funny
ME: maybe if you are a old perverted 60 years old guy with a cute profile searching for new victims is too late for you to learn new things(yes…I stole Jon’s line here…)
HER:You are a bit young…are you scared?
ME: no…I can run faster than a 60 years old perv….i stay in shape digging graves and harashing naïve girls
HER:this can be a hobby for some persons
ME:what are your hobbies?playing backgammon?
HER:shibari
ME:aww…interesting…for how long?
HER:2 and a half years
ME: cool...that means you are not an amature...i never knew that in our country there are people practicing this stuff...
ME:for you ,this thing is “the shit”? …I mean…do you find pleasure doing things a little bit less intense?:))
HER: Well....i do bdsm 24/7....but ocasionaly I go to a movie,to the park ...but rarely
ME: :))it sounds like you make money doing this or you like it very much if you do it 24/7...interesting....and you find partners for bdsm ?
HER: I am both ;) I don’t find partners in Romania...but outside the country its full :)
HER: So? What's with this catchy nick that will bring you all the ladies?(I have a name that points out something in the lines of hebitch slutman manwhore)
ME: are you a mistress?
HER: only in the saint days. I can’t answer to this questions,I invoke the 5th amendment
HER:I repeat…what’s whit the nickname?
ME: :))))haha...it was a good one…the shit with the 5th amendment...now I learn it...maybe you had been a good type of teacher in another life(in Romanian sounds different …i sounded like a playful reference to the fact that she is bdsm teacher )
ME: what’s wrong with the nickname?i have a sick sense of humor...it’s part of my actual personality...it’s been 2 years now ,time that I spend on this path of human interactions and getting many reference points in this area of life...because we like reference points…as many as possible J)
ME:i hate this chat…feels like I m sending letters like the 1500 times…give me your fb
HER: Broken heart...mended with sweat and cum...
HER: We can fb, but you are young and far away...and is hard to make it as my manwhore like this :p
ME: =))u sick person....noo...hmm…partialy true I might say...but it helped a lot...opened my eyes ....i was close to getting married and it scares me thinking about it nowJ)
HER:Here is ok… still(about talking on chat)
HER:well…I had 2 breaking points like that in my life and maybe many more to come
ME: i bet u r ass u did...i m very curious to hear about that 2 breaking points of yours
HER: let’s say,if we report to the number of partners in life, we would have like 7 “love of my life”....in a life
HER:so I have another 5 unlucky strikes ;)
HER: so in the end I will end up with my porcelain doll collection,10 15 cats and die in the kitcken at 75 years old…so they can find me 3 weeks later,with half of my face eaten by hungry cats
HER: I do have a lovely personality
ME:where did you get this “stats”?what amendment is this?:)))
ME: yes…cats are a MUST for that kind of women
ME: you should get 15 fish so you will keep your dead face in shape
HER: I have to go cause i sort of need to sleep, just got home from work
HER: I will try to keep in touch more/be more social/less weird
ME: give me your facebook you freak…u can block me if I send you Farmville requests…
ME:don’t worry…my fb is exclusivist…I only have true friends I can trust…I will keep you on pending ;)
HER:then pend away ;)
HER:I m going to sleep…talk to you later….here ;)
ME:be careful…don’t fall from your suspended bed…
...(later)....
HER:its big as fuck…if it had baldachin I would have made a great show ;)
ME:meh…I don’t know…sounds like a thing that would break quickly J)
ME:if I would saw a shadow behind that shit when I sleep I would have to shoot it first and the ask questions
ME: it’s a pleasure to talk to death itself but do you a have a more specific name?you know…the original one…not the stage name( hare okcupid nick had some morbid shit in it along with the word beauty)
HER: (her name)
HER:but I go under some many nicknames
ME:you look like a (her name)….or like a Gina …you almost forgot your real name,did you?
HER: Well, the night is young and full of therors...so anything can happen ;)
ME: It must be very hard to live such a dynamic life…always in the high gear…sounds awesome if you ask me…but still…hard as fuck
HER: Money makes the world go round
ME: fuck you...i don’t belive you do it only for the money....you have your dirty pleasure more powerful then money:))don’t trick me(in my country we have a expression for this “don’t trick me”…it has the word “rope” in it)
HER: what I do as a job is different from my personal life
ME:what are the differences ?or…better said…how big are they?
ME: It will be nice from you to say “I am a timid girl… especially around new people…I play with the dolls and I have a garden with flowers at home”…this will be cute
HER:I have a porcelain doll collection ;))
HER: the job comes with requirements, the private life is fetished...just pleasure
HER: But what about you...? what do you study? What are your hobbies? Etc etc etc
ME: you are a kind of wednesday addams
ME:if your life is like fire…mine is more zen like…I m on my spiritual path… cruising through life
ME:( give her a short description about me and what I like)
HER: Lots and lots of fog and mistery
HER: I read public spanking ..lol (I told her I m into public speaking)
HER: im going to sleep…my brain stats to fail me from what I see
ME: you are a lost cause...
HER:eh…maybe somebody will find me at the end…
ME:who knows…
ME:I can say now that you won the prize for the most baddest chick I ever talked to…you didn’t won anything …only the chance to talk to me…
HER: I do have a perfect ass ;)
HER:but it’s going under the sheets now…
HER:tired bum
ME: yeah yeah…only words…without a photographic proof for this fact(for science purpose ofc)…I can’t accept this theory
ME: so don’t tease me with words…I m a religious boy…
HER:catholic =))
ME:you too?:X
ME:we can do soo many things …go to the church …we can sing …
HER: We are all children of the same planet is my philosophy
HER: seriously…I need to go now…It was a really fucked up hard night…
i dont usualy talk kinky stuff over chat ...i keep it simple and prepare the date...in this case...the logistics are a bit different and i dont know how to keep her on me and not kill the interaction between us until i will have the chance to get in her city or for her to come to mine(for any other reasons ofc)...
Holmes I've just read the first half so far but DAMN.. your text game is GOOD!! lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
can't tell if u serious or busting my balls here:))u make me blush
Naw man. That is genuinely good shit, lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
my first posted convo is actualy good...very nice ...i tend to be a funky funny guy usualy but you and the guys on the forum added some end points for me to aim for...now i kinda know where things are going and have to be going in my interactions...so kudos for that
why do you want her FB? I'll bet she's already DTF. I would warm it up again and go for the meetup.
i know she is...(she admit it in the convo in some sort of way)...but she is like 500km away and i dont know when i m going to visit that city...i asked for the fb in order to get from the okcupid level to the facebook level...cause i cant make more out of the situation having this shitty logistics...to keep the interction "hot" until i can make a move...hope she would not damage my cock or balls...with all my confidence i have to say this chick has more experience fucking than me:)))heck...she does it as job...i will tell her to teach me some shit