Skip to Content
Pickup Coaching
-->
5 replies [Last post]
Offline
Joined: 11/16/2013

just look below

Offline
Joined: 11/16/2013
Conversation

Okcupid girl who I haven't met up yet with

Convo below is correct convo- After she doesn't respond to my initiial text- I shoot her a pic message that manwhore's app cant process, and it's a pic message of my mortal combat machine with the caption, "Def. just bought this bad boy"

Rest of convo plays out fine.... Ibut I was curious what some guys thought about speciific moments where the vibe seemed to very slightly go off course  (this is super slight... but at this point the very slight shit is where I'm primarily focusing)....I feel I adjusted and brought it back nicely, but kinda curious if anyone else sees what I'm talking about and can explain it... (also look at time stamps)..... or maybe I'm crazy

Offline
Joined: 11/16/2013
Conversation

Me: Heyy so after surgery shit got hectic but im back in the city. Whatcha up to. Would love to chill
Girl - 1 week later: Hahaha who is this? You are obviously a cool person though
Girl: Are you my friend that had surgery :)
Me - 1 hr 59 mins later: Yess I am
Me: You never brought me any food : (
Girl: Hahaha you didn't text me until after you were better!
Girl - 1 min later: But I will enjoy food with you now haha and play your mortal kombat
Me - 5 mins later: Solid
Me: Watch out though ive been playing nonstop... might not be a fair fight ; )
Girl: Well I'll be sure to bring my A game. What's your name by the way?
Girl: Or you could just be mortal combat in my phone
Me - 7 mins later: Subzero is fine
Girl: As long as you put me in as iceman. I do an mean bite snap.
Me - 42 mins later: you gotta watch when your usin that bite snap- time and place for everything icewoman
Girl - 23 hrs 20 mins later: That is very good advice, thank you subzero
Me - 3 mins later: Lmao whatcha up to tonight
Girl - 1 min later: Not much, meeting some friends on U I think. What about you?
Me - 1 min later: Oo U street huh.. thats cool
Me - 3 mins later: My buddy just got to town. Gonna pregame at my spot in dupont with beer and a bottle of makers
Girl: You live in DuPont? Shit, you're the cool kid
Me - 1 min later: Pfft please
Me: I live in logan circle... have a sweet office to pregame at in dupont
Girl - 4 mins later: Brush yo shoulders off
Girl: And enjoy the makers :)
Me - 3 mins later: Ill let you brush em off for me icewoman.. whats your schedule like this week
Me: Hehe
Girl - 7 mins later: I'm leaving DC for thanksgiving Tuesday after work. Maybe we can end up at the same bar tonight?

Offline
Joined: 11/16/2013
Like for example- i threw in

Like for example- i threw in the "hehe" after my last text cause I thought I was coming across justtttt slightlllly too confident and starting to border on that "obnoxious cocky" which is outside of the rsange of attraction.... and I guess I was hoping the "hehe" would be enough to tone hat back down... and looks like it worked okay

Thoughts anyone? 

Also- now it's closing time.... so what's the best way to bring this home? 

The only issue with all of this is that there is no way im gonna end up meeting her unless she goes out of her way to be at where im at.... i just know how my buddy and i get when we go out at night... and we havent chilled in a minutee soooo yeahhh haha

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
I don't think there's any

I don't think there's any issues here, you're obviously going to meet up with this girl at some point she's too invested. You can always resort to torture if she seems like she's falling off, "You know you will never be able to live with yourself, you will always wonder what would have happened if you fought subzero. You need closure"

__________________

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

Tap Or Click For Personal Coaching Information

Offline
Joined: 11/16/2013
What do you think created

What do you think created this level of investment? - Is this a result of my okc profile,  the texting, or maybe just randomness of this particular girl? 

Also - is this level of investment, before the meetup, something that might lend itself to first-date LMR? 

IA bunch of people are gonna get a lot better cause of my questions ; )