One of my sticking points i've discovered lately
Mon, 09/17/2012 - 16:48
One of my sticking points i've noticed lastely is that I dont lead or take charge. For example, last night i met up with a new rsd dude and its coo i am chating with him but when its comes to sarge i wait until he "picks a set" and he leads where we are going in the club.
Being in that frame where i am the authority, is still kinda foreign to me.
Last sunday, i was talking to public speaking instructor and she said something like
Sometimes "we are afraid of having and holding that power", "it makes us feel vunerable".
I feel though, compared to two or three months ago, i've made alot of progress in feeling like the "boss" and taking charge of interactions - evidently its not always "on", unless I force myself to do it.
Being in that frame where i am the authority, is still kinda foreign to me.
Last sunday, i was talking to public speaking instructor and she said something like
Sometimes "we are afraid of having and holding that power", "it makes us feel vunerable".
I feel though, compared to two or three months ago, i've made alot of progress in feeling like the "boss" and taking charge of interactions - evidently its not always "on", unless I force myself to do it.
Sun, 09/23/2012 - 11:54
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Re: One of my sticking points i've discovered lately
Forcing yourself to do it is the same thing. It becomes natural. You're training your body and mind to see taking charge as a natural thing for you. It's how "naturals" did it. Nothing different.
Once you push yourself and just blindly act(literally blindly- almost as if you sidestep your own thinking process and do the action without thinking), you realize it's not that difficult.
Once you push yourself and just blindly act(literally blindly- almost as if you sidestep your own thinking process and do the action without thinking), you realize it's not that difficult.
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