Skip to Content
Pickup Coaching
-->
5 replies [Last post]
Offline
Joined: 01/04/2015

How to deal with difficult chicks. Here's the scene via OKCupid:

You’re everything I thought I never wanted in a girl

Cool​

no info though. should I be scared.

you look like a down to earth hippie chick that meditates and shops at whole foods

yeah, there's no coming back from that opener

You're right. Maybe I should stick with chicks that can handle a lil roast. Doesn't sound like that's you... I don't like girls or people in general that worry about people judging them.

Oh boy, more negs. I wouldn't be interested regardless of what you said first, because I'm not attracted to you. How's that for a roast?​

Lol now you're sounding like you might have a sense of humor. Why would I care if you're attracted or not flower girl?

Also you need to learn the difference between a playful tease and a genuine critique of how you're coming across.

i'm still not interested. you can leave me alone now

Lol I never asked if you were interested. :)

I don't care if you asked, I'm making it clear. Leave me alone.​

lmao! You do realize this is the internet right? You could just not respond if you're not into someone.

When I reject people I like to tell them why so they can do better next time​

I would normally just drop it but this chick seems like she wants to dance when she spits obvious bullshit like that. Mentioning openers and negs, making it a point to let me know she read the game. lol big whoop. I may have been too hard on her and didn't leave enough wiggle room for her to qualify herself but maybe it wouldn't have made a diff with this chick. How to bait for compliance? I don't think I've built enough value so displaying disapproval won't have much effect. Or maybe I'm not harsh enough.

I'm thinking of baiting her into rapport to see what's under the bitch shield.

Something like this:

Except your advice to me was... I'm not interested regardless of what you have to say. If anything I've been the one coaching you up. Because you come across like you might not have any sense of humor, fun or flirting ability. Are you always this serious?

Or maybe time to take things off the serious track:

Oh so you're a teacher now huh? Bet you read the game and now you think you're a dating expert. Explains why your advice is pre-school level. ;)

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
Dude, she's not interested.

Dude, she's not interested. lol 

__________________

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

Tap Or Click For Personal Coaching Information

Offline
Joined: 01/04/2015
Lol gotcha. Would've already

Lol gotcha. Would've already walked in real life. The signs were def there just wondered if this was one of those that wanted to be turned around. I've seen it before.

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
Sure some of us can work

Sure some of us can work black magic. But why? 

Post one of these turnarounds

__________________

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

Tap Or Click For Personal Coaching Information

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
Both of your responses are

Both of your responses are trying way too hard to get back at her. You got to not be so passive aggressive. You're a man you have the unique ability to let shit go and decide you're going to ignore it. Demonstrate that masculine quality and go a route that allows her to let her guard down while continuing the convo. More queen bees with honey

Well I'd like to do better this time. Shall we start over? 

I always say make love not war. I don't even know why we're fighting

__________________

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

Tap Or Click For Personal Coaching Information

Offline
Joined: 01/04/2015
I didn't even consider that

I didn't even consider that since I thought it may be weak or buying too much into her frame. Then again arguing in the first place is pretty much her trying to lead things. Thanks bro, I'm def gunna give this a go. And yeah as far as why... the chick may not even be worth it but I like learning to deal with worst case scenarios.