Online Dating: How to transition from messaging to dates? (I'm a total newb at this)
I'm new to online dating so I'm trying to get the hang of it. (I want to get good at this before I do cold approaches. This is like warm up practice for me)
I can get women to respond to messages I send but I am having trouble transitioning to setting up dates and getting phone #'s.
Usually I'll jump the gun too fast or say something chode and she won't respond back.
Can you guys post examples of what you say in conversations on online dating sites, from the opening, all the way till you go for the number or set up the date?
If you want, maybe you can baby step me through this process, here's a conversation I have going with a girl at the moment on POF:
Me: Hmmm, you look like you might be trouble...
Her: lol i dont know depends on what you mean by trouble. i was not even drinking in my picture. and im a blue eyed sensual girl why would i be trouble lol.
Me: The picture at the bar, the gang hand sign...clearly you must be the leader of a female biker gang! I wonder if I'd be able to handle you...
Me: Do you go out to bars a lot or are you a homely gal?
Her: I like home. Those pics are from last July. I do like to go out just not all the time.
There isn't much on her profile in the about me section to talk about. What are some possiblities? Her profile states she's not looking for serious commitment. Honestly i just want to nail this bitch.
Me: The picture at the bar, the gang hand sign...clearly you must be the leader of a female biker gang! I wonder if I'd be able to handle you...
A bit soft on the tail-end of this text. You don't want to imply that you couldn't handle a girl because that's not sexy lol. Or if you do play that card, make it out to be because she's a sexual predator and you're a good little boy who's afraid of mean vaginas. Something like that
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
http://manwhore.org/manwhores-online-dating-guide-to-plentyoffish-com/
Did you read this yet?
I don't know how it happened, but I lost all my POF convos... BALLZ. I had some good ones too.
I've asked all the girls I've gotten out how much they get messaged. It's a lot. A LOT A LOT. So you have to NOT say boring shit.
This is from an older post but it's all I've got for ya:
Me: Let's get married. And start a band. You play banjo and sing. I'll play guitar and jewish harp :))
Her: Okie dokie! I DO. There. I said the big vow! And it was good. PS. I'm Alyssa ... Mrs. Alyssa Rene ---- whatever your last name is. Now let us get to fiddlin'!
Me: HAHA! It was such a beautiful wedding. Yup you're Mrs. Alyssa Rene Dova now. Wife to Mr. Ben Dova. Are the babies gonna have your hair? I hope so LOL!
Me: PS. We're going to McDonald's for our honeymoon... We'll prolly get kicked out for all the sex on the tables though
Her: Ok my lovely husband, I love hot, naughty "public" sex, but there are health codes we must attain to... (My mom is a public health nurse for our beloved countries' CDC)
Me: Youre bringing your mom on the honeymoon? ooh you're kinky.
Her: Ugh no way
Me: LOL. That was hilarious! You're such a good sport. This POF thing is a little too nerdy for me. Shoot me a text ###. Just promise not to stalk me.
Her: Hello hubby
...The rest went shitty tho because she had a traumatic brain injury and didn't remember me the next day LOL
What kind of brain injury. I got a couple funny stories about that sort of thing..
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
http://manwhore.org/manwhores-online-dating-guide-to-plentyoffish-com/Did you read this yet?
I don't know how it happened, but I lost all my POF convos... BALLZ. I had some good ones too.
I've asked all the girls I've gotten out how much they get messaged. It's a lot. A LOT A LOT. So you have to NOT say boring shit.
This is from an older post but it's all I've got for ya:
Me: Let's get married. And start a band. You play banjo and sing. I'll play guitar and jewish harp :))
Her: Okie dokie! I DO. There. I said the big vow! And it was good. PS. I'm Alyssa ... Mrs. Alyssa Rene ---- whatever your last name is. Now let us get to fiddlin'!
Me: HAHA! It was such a beautiful wedding. Yup you're Mrs. Alyssa Rene Dova now. Wife to Mr. Ben Dova. Are the babies gonna have your hair? I hope so LOL!
Me: PS. We're going to McDonald's for our honeymoon... We'll prolly get kicked out for all the sex on the tables though
Her: Ok my lovely husband, I love hot, naughty "public" sex, but there are health codes we must attain to... (My mom is a public health nurse for our beloved countries' CDC)
Me: Youre bringing your mom on the honeymoon? ooh you're kinky.
Her: Ugh no way
Me: LOL. That was hilarious! You're such a good sport. This POF thing is a little too nerdy for me. Shoot me a text ###. Just promise not to stalk me.
Her: Hello hubby
...The rest went shitty tho because she had a traumatic brain injury and didn't remember me the next day LOL
What!! LOL That's a good excuse I'm going to use that one!! You should have posted the rest of the convo seems like it would have been entertaining! LOL
Tell her
Hey nerdy have you ever heard of numerology?? ... to be completely accurate going to need your birthday
wait for her to respond with her bday
and now going to need your digits#
www.tokenrock.com/numerology (If she wants to know her life number you can find it on this site)
Fembot, I think numerology is awesome! I'm a 7... This was a few months back though. I'm not really interested in her anymore.
TEXT MESSAGES:
Her: Hello hubby
Me: Hey dear. My name's Infinity btw. Watcha got going on?
(dead air)
Next night
Me: just to warn you, I'm a very high maintenance husband. I need massages every night or we get divorced
Her: Okie dokie... But, um who is this?
Me: This is Robert Deniro. We hooked up last night. Don't you remember? ...jk it's Infinity. Whats up?
(no answer)
Me: This is Alyssa right? Or are you just some random person txting me to mess with me lol?
Her: Yes this is Alyssa haha
(I'm sketched out right now)
Me: Oh really? What did we talk about last night?
Her: I wasn't aware we were
(fail)
Me: I mean YOU texted ME. Last night lol. You're a banjo player and you said your mom works as a nurse for the CDC.
Her: I'm lost
Me: ...Ur shit
Me: (2 hours later) Just in case this is some weird case of ID theft, you should check out pof.com USERNAME. If it's not, I feel really sorry for u
Her: OH OK! I just looked at my messages and saw our conversation. I'm really sorry I had a TBI the whiskey didnt help either
Me: Cool beans
I'm a #6. But honestly..
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
LOL! I just read through the description for 6... "You possess great compassion and seek to be of service to others."
Yep. That's you.
I try to hide it but sometimes it gets found out :\
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I'm a 4 hehe