Peel off the validation, what to do now??
Mon, 01/07/2013 - 14:01
Alright I met this hot ginger chick in the gym a while ago. In fact it was one of my best initial interactions. We chat about 30 minutes, had great time together. Got her number texted back and forth then suddenly she started ignoring me. No respond to my texts, didnt pick up my phone calls etc. Then on the new years eve I just wanted to give her another chance, texted her Happy new year blah blah... No response. Then I decided to peel off the validation so she can realise who has the higher value (Julien suggested this to me on London Free Tour). Today I saw her in the gym and funny enough we finised working out at the same time. She waved and walked towards the changing room. I called her name with a strong breaking rapport tonality (almost shouting lol) and we started chatting. She had the vibe that she had high value, almost like didnt care me and wanna get rid off me. After a bit of chat;
Me: Get changed and wait for me at the exit I gotta talk to you
Her: What you are gonna talk?
Me: I will give you a secret
Her: What secret?
Me: Wait two minutes and you will learn
Her: No I gotta go
Me: You are not confident enough are you? You are just a shy girl...
At this point you had to see her face. All her value, all external validation was gone. Her facial expression changed just in one second. She was walking away almost shouting "Not at all, not at all!!!"... So at this point do you think the message is taken so I should just leave her or should I send her a text tomorrow saying; "Ok girl, do some self esteem studies, gain some confidence and call me afterwards..."
The thing is we go to the same gym so probably I will see her again and again. Hence i dont wanna give the impression of a stalker etc..
Me: Get changed and wait for me at the exit I gotta talk to you
Her: What you are gonna talk?
Me: I will give you a secret
Her: What secret?
Me: Wait two minutes and you will learn
Her: No I gotta go
Me: You are not confident enough are you? You are just a shy girl...
At this point you had to see her face. All her value, all external validation was gone. Her facial expression changed just in one second. She was walking away almost shouting "Not at all, not at all!!!"... So at this point do you think the message is taken so I should just leave her or should I send her a text tomorrow saying; "Ok girl, do some self esteem studies, gain some confidence and call me afterwards..."
The thing is we go to the same gym so probably I will see her again and again. Hence i dont wanna give the impression of a stalker etc..
Mon, 01/07/2013 - 14:10
#1
Re: Peel off the validation, what to do now??
This is HORRIBLE. What is this shit you're texting her. Consult your notes we talked about this specifically.
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Mon, 01/07/2013 - 14:43
#2
Re: Peel off the validation, what to do now??
@Manwhore:
I was trying to create a bit of a drama so after all these validation, i thought it would be an ideal text to cut the validation and to flip around the situation..
In fact julien told us a story where a girl ignores his calls, deleted him from fb etc and he managed to flip around the situation by sending her an e-mail saying smthing like; "i bet you have some personal problems. All you do is reflecting it to our relationship and fucking everything up. Sort you problems and call me afterwards..."
I was trying to create a bit of a drama so after all these validation, i thought it would be an ideal text to cut the validation and to flip around the situation..
In fact julien told us a story where a girl ignores his calls, deleted him from fb etc and he managed to flip around the situation by sending her an e-mail saying smthing like; "i bet you have some personal problems. All you do is reflecting it to our relationship and fucking everything up. Sort you problems and call me afterwards..."