POF conversation, I'm clueless on why she didn't reply
Me: You seem like an interesting person, I'm intitiating contact to start our marriage process. Cordially, tradingbr
no reply
Me: I want to play poker with you in Las Vegas
Her: I didn't understand that ha
Me: I'm going to take you to vegas so we can play cards and get rich. Rich, babe, rich.
Her: haahah, only you, you are crazy
Me: I'm just going to have to be careful that you don't spend all our cash in shoes, you seems very "vaidosa" (portuguese word that means someone puts a lot of effort in their looks, it is not offensive, it is taken as a compliment by everybody)
Her: yeah its true, I have a shoe colletion, how did you guess
Me: You seem to have a barbie style, we are going to buy a convertible so we can ride as Ken and Barbie
Her: ahahah, thats it, I'm going to ask for it now
Me: don't worry I'm used to it. what are you going to do this weekend?
This is translated from portuguese. Why the fuck she didn't reply?
Probably no reason at all. How long has it been? I would just hit her up again in a bit if she doesn't reply. The only issue I see is you never have a real conversation with her then all of a sudden you ask her her plans this weekend LOL.
Probably no reason at all. How long has it been? I would just hit her up again in a bit if she doesn't reply. The only issue I see is you never have a real conversation with her then all of a sudden you ask her her plans this weekend LOL.
Yeah dude, in the back of my head I was hearing your voice "tone down this roleplaying and make it real". How usually do you go towards the more rapport/comfort stuff without losing them? I usually transition to weekend plans and what I do like, what she likes but its very hit or miss (usually miss haha)
This is a fucking hot MILF
There were multiple ways to make it more personal and down to earth, she herself gave you 2 or 3. Just take a look at the conversation and pick any spot where you could have related it to real life. E.g. about yourself.
My biggest enemy is my own head and low expectations of myself sometimes. I got her number after a few more bantering msgs and rapport building
Did you get together yet? Are you texting her?
Not yet. here is the txt exchange on the phone so far
Me: Nothing like starting my afternoon with a cold beer
Her: thats nice ha
Her: who is this?
Me: You just added me from POF, you need to do a magic spell to bring back your memory (her nickname was "little witch", she says she is a "good" witch)
Her: yes, that is true, forgive me
Me: Where are you going with your broom tonight? I think I will have some icecream right now, its hot as hell (it was an icecream date with another chick)
Her: I crashed my broom yesterday, icecream how delicious
Me: Yeah, its tough when you crash in a helicopter, people need to respect your air space more
Her: In my case it wasn't an helicopter, I crashed myself in my garage
Me: I crashed once a car I didn't own, fun times
Her: in my case it wasn't so fun
few hours later
Me: the icecream was epic, white chocolate magnum, you missed it
Her: haha
Me: What are you doing tonight sorceress
Her: I'm still not sure but I think I will go to a bar with some friends, what about you?
Me: Either I'm going to kareoke or to a dance bar and show the world my artistic abilities (did I miss a chance to take her out here? or at least try? I didn't want to go for the meet up too soon)
Her: haaha cool
Her: you have to teach me
Me: I'm going to teach you forro universitario
Her: ok
Me: Are you a good student? if you aren't disciplined the professor will have to spank you
Her: haahah
Me: what do you do besides working your calderon?
Her: I work in the Election Justice dept
Me: seems SUPER fun
Her: it is hahah
Me: at least I know who do I talk to when I decide to buy votes for my election
Her: well, I'm going to have to sue you for illegal commerce of votes
Her: ahaha
Me: relax, I'm going to pay with monopoly money
no reply for 8 hours or so
I probably fell into her frame in the last message but I think it can recover. What am I doing wrong here? Guess too much fun and not enough rapport? I fucking hate building comfort, lol
ps: all translated from portuguese
It's called being a real person, don't call it "building comfort" what are you a mystery faggot?
^ lolllll
Oops. I wasn't trying to be mean or rude dude lol. I'm just very serious about making you understand here.