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Post Breakdown #1 - "Laid.. Sleeping with a Known Beautiful 'Socialite'"

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Wanted to start a series that I think would be valuable to everybody on this forum...mostly for me. Hehe. Started to read all of MW's posts since the beginning and have been building up a plethora of knowledge. My goal with this is to read a few posts a day, take apart one, break it down, and have a discussion of questions and comments about the post/topic. 

This is super valuable to any of you newbies and advanced playas lurking around here for a few reasons:

1) You'll get feedback from the man himself and his minions

2) Get to ask your own questions and have them answered

3) Get your own comments heard and explored on the forum. We want to speak to the depest parts of who you truly are.

The purpose? To fill in the missing links in any of our game.

Here's the post link:

For you lazy fucks, I'll summarize the posts anyways. However, you should read them regardless. They're not long. 

Follow along with me to polar bear mountain :)


A quick summary of this post goes like this:

MW has a chill night. He doesn't try for anything. He is just being himself, talking with everybody, pulling in any girls who walk by, giving commentary, etc. etc. High Value mannerisms. He approaches a beautiful well-known socialite and opens with something laizzefaire. It compliments his vibe. He doesn't reach for anything outside of his comfort cause he is "in joy in himself" (Thank you grandmaster Tolle). Congruence. He knows something will happen. **That's not an excuse for any of us to chode around in the club waiting.

He teases the socialite and her friend HARD. He leaves and goes to another club, ends up seeing her there. Then again, at another club. Most likely stalking him, very typical. 

For the rest of the night, he's in and out on her. Isn't trying on her at all but makes it a point to not let her go. He comes in chill yet hits hard and demanding. Gives her attention, then leaves. 

The socialite sees MW with another girl getting it on. MW sees this, ditches the girl and goes to the socialite re-engaging her. End of night, he meets her friends, she asks for his number and he texts her a lame ass text lmao.

Me: If you don't call me within 2 days u get a ticket and NO love

She calls him the next day supposedly not knowing who he is. He vibes with her over the phone, teases her super hard, all that jazz and they meet up that very night.

They chill, joke around, MW playfully escalates, manhandles her from time to time, ignores her etc. 

She doesn't let him smash that night and they go to sleep holding hands. Aw :) They wake up, and it's on. She goes to take a shower, MW comes in later and they start banging...for 25 His choice, not hers ;)



The biggest takeawaysI got from this post was this:

1) Displaying High Value - Teasing, Being Chill, & Vibing = A part of being high value

Throughout the post, it's pretty apparent that MW isn't trying to do anything. He knows that he's worth this girl regardless of her "higher status" in society. He remains calm, relaxed and chill throughout the entire interaction and time spent at her place. He's not button pushing, emotion spiking, qualifying etc. etc. or any of that jazz. He knows it's gonna happen and part of being a high value dude is accepting that and acting in accordance with it. He teases her casue its fun for him. He plays around with her and manhandles her, cause its fun for him. He fucks her, cause its fun for him.

All while conveying that she isn't any less for it.

It's very easy to come across high value and make the girl feel less in comparison. That wasn't gonna get them both what they wanted. MW recognized it and acted in accordance. The mindset shift is that it's all about YOUR fun and not your EGO's fun. There's a big difference. 



The post is pretty straight-forward but a few things came up when I was reading it;

1) Recently, I've been dedicating a lot of my time on game and have been going out regularly from opening time to closing time. I recognized that I was wasting a lot of my time lollygagging in the club, doing mini interactions, and remaining aloof because I knew in my mind that I had more time to come back later in the night.

I thought about limiting my time out to about 2 hours so that I could cut out wasted time and focus on executing the fundamentals, getting a number, or quickly pulling to my car then bringing her back to her friends. My logistics is my car rn so that has been my strategy.

This post goes against what I've been doing. MW doesn't ask anything of the girl, try to move her, etc. etc. throughout the interaction. If it was me, I would've executed the drills, asked for the number, and even would've tried moving her and pulling her that night.

That's what is confusing me: Did he not pull her because she was a socialite and knew she had a whole peer group waiting on her?  

Is it because I'm trying to grow my game that I naturally try more? And cause MW already knows what he's doing? Therefore he doesn't have to try?


P.S. Add your comments and ask your questions too guys! Let me know if you guys like these type of posts and want me to continue. My breakdown's and summaries will get more detailed. I'm just crunched on time so it's pretty lazy.

Joined: 01/18/2012
Couple things I'd want to

Couple things I'd want to add.. 

I was just fresh out of the military.. I had a HUGE authoritative vibe going on. Mixed with cocksure vocals, and I was super relaxed. I'd almost describe it as "elegant and cocky". So even though this girl was a beauty, I mean the type that walks in and everyone looks, she was puzzled enough by my lack of reaction and the fact I was shit talking her to her face so calmly. If nothing else no one in her life talks to her like that. Lol

And yes she was a slow play because girls like this have to be super critical of their suitors. But once she made the decision, probably around the time the other girl was showing me revealing pictures of herself on her phone.. she basically came after me and made it happen. The bomb ass women are actually quite assertive and will certainly at least bogart a man's time if she's into him. 

And yeah.. she made me bust in 25 seconds. Lol. Literally just that hot, my dick couldn't take it. Even now it still happens. Everyone's always talking about dick control (like they actually know what they're talking about. PFF), and I'm like.. hell no if a girl is capable of making me cum that fast she's special. 


I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

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Joined: 08/08/2015
Great stuff right here.I vaguely remember reading this post some

I vaguely remember reading this post some time back, rereading it again, just wow!

Really good stuff.

This is the way I interpreted it aka my opinion:

He was coming off super high value and congruent.

Honestly it seemed pretty textbook for John and I believe that this all comes from having the experience to recognize that if he tried to move her, she wouldn’t be having it.

Yeah I had this once, took me a year to get that kinda chick out but boy do girls like that reward you.


LOL I wrote a page long as a response then Manwhore goes and clears a lot of things up, bum bum bum… haha


Jihad I think these kinda posts/ the series, is great fucking idea man! :)

Actually I think that I wanted to do a sort of series myself but forgot what kind I wanted to do! LOL plus I got finals coming up.

Think I'll do that :)




Daddyjihad1 (not verified)
Lol thanks catch you sexy

Lol thanks catch you sexy dawg you ;P

Will try to do these better and more frequent!

Daddyjihad1 (not verified)
BTW Was this girl actally a


Was this girl actally a virgin lol?

Joined: 01/18/2012
Fuck no. All you

Fuck no. All you motherfuckers fall for that bullshit. Helll no. C'mon


I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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Daddyjihad1 (not verified)
Lolol was just asking man

Lolol was just asking man hahaha. We had this talk a year ago about girls being virgin fairies. ;)

Joined: 01/18/2012
Right?? Lol  You're falling

Right?? Lol 

You're falling for that shit across the globe, nigga? 

Still haven't seen the matrix. Don't worry, nature has a way of teaching you lessons till you do ;) 


I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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