The Power of Decision Making

GREAT article. Thx for posting

"Many people get a beautiful vision of how they would like to live but because they cannot see how they are going to make it all happen, they let the vision go...when you get the vision freeze frame it with a decision and don’t worry about how you will do it or where the resources will come from. Charge your decision with enthusiasm that is important."

Awesome read for my morning commute. Thnx

Awesome article. On the flip side I have been quick to make decisions in which I have been burned badly. I am a better person in the end but now I proceed with way more caution. Instead of making a decision and depending on the universe to make it so because this is my vision, I do a ton of research from different sources and make sure all my ducks are in a row before making a final decision. Just a quick thought.

I totally feel you on that. I'm prone to overthinking things and overwhelming myself with too much info, in an effort to figure out the perfect way to do something beforehand.
I've found that it's better to have some baseline knowledge and to field test it than adjust as you go.

i.e. Game. Knowing the exact technical aspects of game is nice, but game is a feeling. Instead of trying to read the game manual beforehand and do that one perfect approach, trust that you'll naturally do the right moves in the moment. If it doesn't work out, you can then get feedback from a coach like MW and they'll point you in the right direction.

Well yeah.. tattoo's are never supposed to be hasty decisions    

Good read that, cheers. It's a way of thinking I've tried to become more attuned to in the past couple of years, though I think truly it was something I like most people had as a young kid but then lost. I think a lot of finding yourself is unlearning, as you're sort of thrown into this system (school, families, societal pressures) as soon as you're able to string a few words together. 

Yes among other things you are correct. Hahaha

Dude, I sense a lot of fear in you. Fear will diminish the effect of "the law of attraction", because you won't TRUST that it will work for you. Man, I'm telling you, every time I've gotten laid, I've decided beforehand that I would. I didn't know HOW it'd happen, I just KNEW it would. I visualized it. Truely felt grateful and HAPPY for having that lay, opened my mind to the opportunities that lead TO my goal - which includes circumventing limiting beliefs and not being needy.

For example, the first time I got laid, after Man-hung-like-a-hose's skype coaching program, I had firmly decided I would get laid. 2nd time also. 3rd too... This friday, I attended a wedding as a photographer. Rusty and slightly anxious, I didn't prepare too much for it, but I decided that I would take GREAT fucking pictures and guess what, people are raving so much I'm confident I can DOUBLE my prices...people are even hollering at me, from the fucking capital of my country to shoot them... hmm.... two Tuesdays ago, I had a fucked up day game session, but I decided I'd get laid. I used the law of attraction and voila! A fucking redhead appears (I LOVE those) and sucks me dry while she swallows my warriors to the beautiful view of a famous building, in the middle of the night... I decided I'd bring a girl home (from my small ass town, which is weird enough harder for me to get laid in) and I end up having the coolest chick I've met end up in my sofa last night where we fuck for hours. Today, I met up with one of the most beautiful women I've seen and got naughty with her too. Not to brag, but if you don't see a pattern, you're dumb as fuck: Firmly DECIDE and TRUST that it will happen. You don't have to know HOW it will happen. Hold the warm, glowy, fuzzy feeling you'd get from it happening alive.

i feel you, I've had similar nights and attitude is definitely everything. Outside of pickup I've started 3 businesses revolving around real estate. 2 of them failed bc of my abstinence in doing the right research. When trying to figure out what went wrong after going completely broke I found out that I failed to conduct interviews of people who have done the same thing I was trying to do. After interviewing them I found out that I didn't do the math and run the numbers. In order to have the correct math I would have needed those interviews in the first place. Also I didnt budget correctly. Marketing cost way more than I expected also licensing fees and other things as well.

In conclusion, I'm saying attitude can carry you to your goal but it can also be a loooong hard road without the proper research and homework. Imagine if you were out trying to get laid with zero "pickup" information or just a little bit of pick up information and your just out there in the clubs trying it on your own but you had that vision and you made the decision that your going to get good with girls. It would be an arduous task to take on. Your right I am full of fear but that fear has made me wise and sharp.

Bateh did you invest a decent sum of money into these ventures off the bat? 

yes and no. Yes in one of them and no in the other 2. Also depends on what you would call a decent sum. Money did go into all 3 obviously. It's totally my fault and looking back I realize what a fool I was but I'm making a point attitude and vision alone can't carry you.

Yeah I've bootstrapped EVERY single business venture I've ever undertaken. Sometimes with nothing. To be honest most of the time this was forced on me, if I'd had the money maybe I'd have 0made the same decisions you did, but at this point bootstrapping is a part of my nature. The 1st Mw app I spent close to a g on, it launched a forum and probably accounted for 60% of the guys in the program the first year or so, the 2nd app I spent $1500 on it was a BUST, and I thought it was a fucking genius idea. 

there you go. You had a clear vision, and the will to win, and made the decision to go through with the app and it was a bust. Reinforces the point I was making. I love the movie the secret and bob proctor's stuff but as always they don't tell you EVERYTHING bc if they did it wouldn't sell. Still a great article