Pull that I should have had....what do I text now?
Mon, 08/06/2012 - 17:47
Met this girl on Thursday night. Half-asian/ half white, VERY hot. Insta-wall slam w/o even saying anything, started escalating, flirting, makeout & fingerbang ensues. Her friend is being occupied by my wing but she is constantly trying to pull my girl away. He buys some time and I try to go for the pull, the girl is down she wants to go smoke some weed at her place which is like a 5 minute walk away. Friend won't let her leave because "they just got there" & they came alone. Looking back I should have just dragged her to the patio ---> makeout and then dragged her out of the venue. I grabbed her number and she said to find her in a bit when they had danced and gotten drinks. A this point I'm thinking "Fuck, I just raised her buying temp through the roof & now some chode is going to take her home". I had the exact same thing happen last week...
I'm doing more approaches but also keeping an eye on these girls (fairly small venue). The targets friend is doing a really good job shutting other guys down for me. Eventually I get caught up in a set and realize I can't find the girl anymore...FUCK! I shoot her a text
me: I'm rolling that joint for you girl
no response. FUCK!
I'm standing on the patio area and I see her outside holding some dudes hand. He's pulling her down the road w/ a couple other people. Nooooo! Not again! My wing urges to me to go for the pull again. We chase them down the road and meet them outside another bar. Luckily two of the guys they with were trying to get in and I started talking and escalating again. I go for the pull again and as we starting walking away (YES).. the friend runs up and drags the girl back! More shit tests more bs. The chodes come back and are leery of me, they are all friendzoned but going to put up huge barriers. I start walking with them holding my girls hand but one of the guys realizes what is about to happen and starts urging the girls friend to not let me come back, eventually the group decides I'm not allowed to come back with them.
I had no clue what to do here! My girl was just being led around by whoever was more dominant. I think I honestly could have just picked her up and ran away with her but I didn't have the balls to pull it off. I chalk it up as a "learning experience" and start doing more approaches. Some girl with a boyfriend who won't kiss my lips but will kiss my neck, let me kiss her neck, rub my dick, let me squeeze her tits but won't kiss on lips because "SHE HAS INTEGRITY". We were actually about to start making out and then some random girl comes up and says, "OMG you guys are making out in front of everyone. That's soooo embarrassing, everyone can see you!" My girl gets all freaked out and the tension is broken...
Then I get a text from the girl before
her: did you roll one?
me: ya where did you go? (could have been a lot better I think...)
No response.
I wasn't even going to text her again but Tyler always following up on EVERY number just for practice and because you never know what is going to happen. I want to shoot her a text but I don't know how to start it off. The only conversation we had really was about us smoking weed and hitting bong at her apartment.
Any advice on a text to send or how things I could have done different throughout the interaction to get the pull that night would be awesome!
I'm doing more approaches but also keeping an eye on these girls (fairly small venue). The targets friend is doing a really good job shutting other guys down for me. Eventually I get caught up in a set and realize I can't find the girl anymore...FUCK! I shoot her a text
me: I'm rolling that joint for you girl
no response. FUCK!
I'm standing on the patio area and I see her outside holding some dudes hand. He's pulling her down the road w/ a couple other people. Nooooo! Not again! My wing urges to me to go for the pull again. We chase them down the road and meet them outside another bar. Luckily two of the guys they with were trying to get in and I started talking and escalating again. I go for the pull again and as we starting walking away (YES).. the friend runs up and drags the girl back! More shit tests more bs. The chodes come back and are leery of me, they are all friendzoned but going to put up huge barriers. I start walking with them holding my girls hand but one of the guys realizes what is about to happen and starts urging the girls friend to not let me come back, eventually the group decides I'm not allowed to come back with them.
I had no clue what to do here! My girl was just being led around by whoever was more dominant. I think I honestly could have just picked her up and ran away with her but I didn't have the balls to pull it off. I chalk it up as a "learning experience" and start doing more approaches. Some girl with a boyfriend who won't kiss my lips but will kiss my neck, let me kiss her neck, rub my dick, let me squeeze her tits but won't kiss on lips because "SHE HAS INTEGRITY". We were actually about to start making out and then some random girl comes up and says, "OMG you guys are making out in front of everyone. That's soooo embarrassing, everyone can see you!" My girl gets all freaked out and the tension is broken...
Then I get a text from the girl before
her: did you roll one?
me: ya where did you go? (could have been a lot better I think...)
No response.
I wasn't even going to text her again but Tyler always following up on EVERY number just for practice and because you never know what is going to happen. I want to shoot her a text but I don't know how to start it off. The only conversation we had really was about us smoking weed and hitting bong at her apartment.
Any advice on a text to send or how things I could have done different throughout the interaction to get the pull that night would be awesome!
Thu, 08/09/2012 - 04:33
#1
Re: Pull that I should have had....what do I text now?
DAMN dude. Your balls must really hurt right about now. Fucking frustrating as fuck ;)
In this kind of situation you've got to befriend the alpha chick or deal with her in some way. Or do a better job of running her around before escaping with her. http://manwhore.org/laid-fuck-honda
Also you can't be holding hands with your chick in front of orbiters that was a seriously plaintive effort to get some kind of consolation prize/put on a display.
Also, if some random chick can walk up to you and put you and the girl you're with on the spot you're putting off the wrong vibe that's ridiculous.
Your text "game" was an example of bait and switch. You baited her with the j then when she responded you immediately switched it up on her to asking her where she was at. Weaksauce
In this kind of situation you've got to befriend the alpha chick or deal with her in some way. Or do a better job of running her around before escaping with her. http://manwhore.org/laid-fuck-honda
Also you can't be holding hands with your chick in front of orbiters that was a seriously plaintive effort to get some kind of consolation prize/put on a display.
Also, if some random chick can walk up to you and put you and the girl you're with on the spot you're putting off the wrong vibe that's ridiculous.
Your text "game" was an example of bait and switch. You baited her with the j then when she responded you immediately switched it up on her to asking her where she was at. Weaksauce
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Fri, 08/10/2012 - 05:28
#2
Re: Pull that I should have had....what do I text now?
The issue with this girl is she doesn't generally do anything alone, she rolls out with people who make her decisions for her. So you need to kickstart up a normal conversation then hint at a meetup and go for it.
If I were you I'd shoot her a funny picture to get things rolling.
If I were you I'd shoot her a funny picture to get things rolling.
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